Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

im just wondering... but could it be a family, if a married couple ithout a chilldren??

2007-09-24 20:15:19 · 17 answers · asked by che-ann g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean you meet someone on the dating website,then you and he or she fall in love with each other. Do you have any secruity aout your love and how long can it last? I just meet my boyfriend through http://muslimonly.com , we chat and fall in love with eachother, however , we have a lot of problems now. I don't konw how to solve them and i am losing confidence about our love.

2007-09-24 20:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by Maggie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so after I graduated from high school in summer 2007, i got facebook since many college students use it. ok so I met this girl on it because she added me. We told each other jokes, stories, and chat. We seemed to have fun. Well we were anxious to meet since we are going to the same college. =) Anyways when I met her she was all dull and quiet. I talked and walked her to the humanities building. Later on I didn't follow her up the elevator and it seemed as tho she wanted me to join in but I didn't want to bother her. So I found out that she got mad over me not walking her to class... hey I walked her to the building and build the conversation the whole time... Shes still mad at me...and its been a week. What are your views of this friendship?

2007-09-24 20:06:24 · 13 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Friends

how old were u and ur spouse? when did you get married/how long have u been together?

if you've been married more than once how old were u and the person when u had ur first marriage/wedding

2007-09-24 20:05:54 · 16 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She dosen't have alot of friends and Im not that close with her. But I don't know how to approach/console her.

2007-09-24 20:04:09 · 11 answers · asked by animatezoe32 1 in Friends

we have been going out for 5 months. He says I am the best girlfriend he's ever had. He spends time with me all the time, tells his friends and family about me. They like me, it seems like. It seems he really wants to have a baby. When we have sex, he often say he wants to get me pregnant. Sex is awesome. He came inside of me unprotected a few times and it seems that he really wants to get me pregnant. One time when I confronted that if I really get pregnant, what he wants to do, he wants to have the baby with me and maybe get married. What does this mean? Does he really like me or does he just want baby? I am very happy with me and I know he cares for me but this really wonders me does he like me that much or doesn't he care and he just want baby? Please help!

we are both in mid thirties and both got divorced more than a year ago and first serious relationship after divorce. We spend everyday together.


I want baby too badly but I don't wa

2007-09-24 20:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by whattodo898 1 in Singles & Dating

wat would u think if ur bf gave u these 2 poems.

1st one

Countless people dream.
Countless people desire.
I don’t.
Not any more.
The things I dreamed and desired,
have come to be reality.
What more do I want than your smile,
that lights up my darkest days.
What more do I want than your embrace,
that warms and relieves up my troubled heart.
What more do I want than your love,
which is my reason to keep living.
I will spend the rest of my life with you,
Because nothing can compare to what I have now.
I love you


2nd one

Let me be your sun,
to illuminate your world
Let me watch over you,
with loving eyes
Magnetically drawn,
to revolve around each other
I will be,
the warmth and light in your life
And you,
Will be my world

2007-09-24 20:01:07 · 14 answers · asked by Amour 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you be mad if he didnt call you for the next couple of days? What would you do?

2007-09-24 20:00:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I accept a girl's offer to pay her half of the dinner bill when I already offered to cover the entire thing?

2007-09-24 19:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if I accept a girl's offer to pay her half of the dinner bill even after I have offered to cover the whole thing?

2007-09-24 19:53:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not really sure why, just looking for more insight I guess.

I see all these questions from women asking why men are the way they are and so forth. I also see a few about why women are the way they are too.

Here's my problem. I've been actively seeking what I consider to be the perfect woman for me for about 2 years now. I have met a LOT of girls in this time. I am very good friends with almost every girl bartender at every club I hang out at, and a lot have come on to me very strong.

Don't get me wrong, most of these girls are extremely attractive. I'm also 30 and most of these girls are like 21-24. Every man's dream, right? Wrong.

One thing I've noticed about almost every girl I've met (prob like 200-300 in the last 2 years) is that they all seem to be most interested in one main thing about a guy. How much money he has. I want a woman that would be with me even if I were homeless. So men only want sex and women want only money?

2007-09-24 19:49:34 · 19 answers · asked by David W 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what flowers would be good for a May wedding. For all of you who have given me advice on my other wedding questions, we postponed the wedding to May so we can save up more and have more options, and so my fiance can save enough to get moved into an apartment so we don't come home to my sister's house!
I need to know any and all flowers that would be good for a wedding on the coast. Thanks!!

2007-09-24 19:49:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am looking for someone who can do the video recording for my parents anniversary party. The party is in December and I am more than willing to negotiate on a price. Please only reply if you live in California and would be able to make it to Stanislaus country.

2007-09-24 19:48:50 · 3 answers · asked by 19kilo 1 in Weddings

My friend is 27, has completed her M.Sc. with a pleasant personality. She has been engaged for 1 year and the date of wedding is decided to be within next few months. She says that she is not interested in getting married. there is no strong reason sometimes she says that her fiancy is not good looking or some times she argues that she do not want to take responsibilities after getting married or object the age difference (he is 35) or says that she want to do job and have want to have a better carrer. we are not clear that what is the actual reason. and according to our opinion it was a good proposal, well educated, nice family , normal looks of the person (not ugly). her parents say that they cannot wait now as she is already 27 furthermore they think that it will be a perfect match for her. any one suggest what is the reason that she behave so and what should we do.

2007-09-24 19:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she give him perfume as present in the holydays!!!

2007-09-24 19:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by raven 1 in Singles & Dating

heres the deal, our family moved from california to texas a couple years ago, and i stayed in texas for 6 months before i left. the reason i left was because i had no social life or friends and i miss my friends in cali dearly, along with my social life. So i moved, and a year passed by and i moved back to texas, due to conversations on the phone of how they werent doing so well. but coming back i saw my dad not working cause he cant find a job that pays as well as his last, which lead to no work for 1 year leaving my mom to provide for a year or more. that upsets me, and im stuck with no social life now also along with family arguments with me and my dad, or my mom and my dad, i want to move back craving for a life again. but my parents cry and beg me to stay... i can support myself enough on my own i am 20. i plan to go to college onmy own if i go back etc. i am financial stable to live on my own just enough. what should do i do ?please reply thnx

2007-09-24 19:45:13 · 4 answers · asked by Venus_Infers543 1 in Family

You tell guys that may not know you that you're sick of guys not treating you right (i.e. not following through when they say they'll call, answering their phone during a date when it shows disinterest) and they sit there and call you "high maintenance." How does wanting to get treated with respect make you 'high maintenance'?

2007-09-24 19:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by fbiforensicsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell the difference between a guy trying to let you know that hes not interested or a guy just ignoring you so that you will want there attention more.
if you understand what i mean please help.

2007-09-24 19:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by yeahhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister barrows my car without my permission alot and never calls or comes by to take me to work i have been walking to work for a while now and cannot seem to get my car back from her she keeps throwing fits or holds stuff over my head she has 4 kids and single she has no job and lives on welfare i help her out so much and never get anything in return she is know holding my car as ransom and wont let me get it back. I fear to call the police cause i love her kids and it is stressing em out and hurting my career I dont know what to do. Help Me!

2007-09-24 19:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by brezon123 1 in Family

im 24 yrs old now. i started working and living by myself when i was 19, i dropped out of school. cos i couldnt handle working fulltime and going to school fulltime. i havent talked to them for the past 5yrs never got any money , no help etc, but i have been jobless now for the past 4 months... now i am broke, can barely put food on the table......i dont know wat to do...i want to ask my mum for money...but i dont know if this is appropriate since i havent talk to them for so many years......

i dont even know how their reaction would be....its been so many years.........

2007-09-24 19:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-24 19:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by Todd M 1 in Family

I just watched the pick up artist on VH1.

I see these guys getting girls, but It looks like the most they could get was a one night stand or something.

I don't want that but I don't really have a choice do I (Im 19 and virgin)

And all the lying, making up all these fake stories, god I'm not the kind of guy who can bring myself to lie to a girl, I'm a horrible liar.

Where the hell can I find some tips for guys who want a real relationship with love BEFORE sex

I'm not saying I want to marry the first girl I date. but then again I can NEVER get a girl and Im always afraid I would marry the first girl who ever lets me.

ARGHHHH I can't stand it, I know I want a girlfriend and sex WITH love I want that serious relationship

but at the same time I know I would never want it to end

but at the same time I don't want to be some loser who marries the first girl he ever dates

but at the same time I don't want to break up with a girl who WOULD be my soulmate

but at the same time

ARGHH IM SO CONFUSED

2007-09-24 19:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know why girls will go out with the stoners during high school. Because when they grow up they will most likely be bank rupt and will be goig no where. Instead of going out with the nice guys who have jobs, are loyal, and are not nerdish.

2007-09-24 19:05:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl in one of my psych classes who sits in front of me. She isn't even that young (maybe 22?) She's very cute, and she responds to me well whenever I talk to you. Today when I saw her underwear popped up (she is usually pretty attentive about whether or not her shirt has gone up too high), she made no effort to bring it back down. I even once took my leg and brushed my kneecap off her jeans that were riding a bit low while we were sitting down(she could probably faintly feel it) from behind like it was an accident and she didn't seem to care.

2007-09-24 19:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by Thesheet 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 16 yrs. For some reason he only wants to shave about once per week. I have had depression throughout our marriage and I sometimes think he may suffer too, although he would never admit it. My question is, when we go out on Sat night as a family and he hasn't shaved in 6 or 7 days, is it inappropriate for me to ask him to shave? Sometimes he is fine with it, but other times I offend him even though I ask nicely. BTW, despite my depression, I always dress nice when we go out and have my hair fixed pretty and my make-up on. I don't mind a few days unshaved, but 6 to 7 days just seems disrespectful to me. He didn't shave the night before our anniversary either, when we were intimate. I asked him on our anniversary and he did, but I don't know if he would have thought of it if I hadn't asked. Don't get me wrong. I know this problem isn't "huge", I simply want to know if you would choose to bring it up or keep quiet about it. Thanks ladies.

2007-09-24 19:00:58 · 14 answers · asked by ShineOn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking b/c my husband who recently confessed that he wants a divorce cuz he has a gf, does not want me and the kids to come to the house at all. Does she know about us? Or is he trying to hide us?

2007-09-24 19:00:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have three children together. we been together for three years and i love so much. we both want to stay together.but he know this women before me. please help. he went to jail because of me before and he use that all the time.

2007-09-24 19:00:27 · 21 answers · asked by Seanice W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother turned 21 and he wanted to go to a bar so my other brother22 and my husband another 2 friends had a guys night out and I thought it was fine to let my husband go cuss he was going to be with my brothers and they said they were going just to a bar and now 2wks later he tells me they went to a strip club! I cant even trust him with my own brothers!! I feel so betrayed and dissrespected by my husband and brothers! I don't know how to react to this? Is it bad enough to go as far as divorce? what about my brothers? Should I be mad? should I tell my mom? and get this I wanted my husband to go cuss it was a yr ago since his mom passed away that sameday!!!!!! so I didn't want him to be sad...........nautrally I was pissed! but now what?

2007-09-24 18:57:08 · 9 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 18:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by - 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got into my purse and used my cell phone without my knowledge. He has one of his own but used mine to make an annoymous text message to his former Boss. Stating that he should take a close look at the employee who works for him. This person took over his position. And boyfriend has been bitter ever since. The boss traced the number back to my other boyfriend and said he was contacting his attorney and HR> people. My other boyfriend hasn't a clue yet what's going on. He is also an attorney. The one who did it has taken off leaving me holding the bag. Anyone with suggestions. Please hurry. I am a wreck right now. I did nothing wrong to anyone. I am really upset.

Sincerely,

Marseille

2007-09-24 18:51:26 · 17 answers · asked by marseillelangres 4 in Friends