how can you tell the difference between a guy trying to let you know that hes not interested or a guy just ignoring you so that you will want there attention more.
if you understand what i mean please help.
2007-09-24 19:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by yeahhhh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't...that's the whole point. A guy that is ignoring you because he likes you or because he doesn't is doing the same thing...he's ignoring you....
Some guys are pretty clumsy about doing it though and it's obvious. The idea, is that they don't want to act "pressed" for the girl. But the only guy that can pull this off, is a guy that knows that the girl is interested in him. Have you given him signs to make him think that you like him?
My personal feeling about playing hard-to-get, is that it's immature, unecessary and simply frustrating. If the guy likes you and is ignoring you, just ignore him right back. I'd say there's 80% chance he'll approach you from his side. Then you'll know. Give it a few weeks....if he still doesn't come from his side then just go an find out yourself. Life's too short.
Remember, a real man takes charge from his side and doesn't play little games with people he likes.
But...if it's just fling...then have fun with it. Heheh!
2007-09-24 19:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by bananas4breakfast14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
through actions, a guy who is not really into you directly will not stop by to acknowledge your presence and explicity ignoring you, while the other may somehow show a bit of apprehension to do stuffs that could hurt you. he may ignore you but he will make sure that you know his presence and as for him you are being noticed.
2007-09-25 04:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is playing games, why would you even be interested. Those types are always jerks!!
2007-09-25 02:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋