2007-09-24 19:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by Todd M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no thts too short of a time lapse....
2007-09-24 19:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's really a short period of time for him to be living with someone already. Was your mother sick for a very long time or was it something more sudden? If she was sick for a long time.......maybe this other person was there for him. Who's to say that your mother and father didn't have a talk about him moving on after she had passed. There is so many what if's here.......Why don't you sit down and have a talk with your father and find out whats really going on. If he's not up to that then you'll have to respect him and deal with this the best way you can. This is not to say that he didn't love or respect your mother. Different people grieve differently... what's good for you and I might be awful for him. Just be there for your father during this time
2007-09-25 04:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by alllllllllllllllwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this seems really really quick. your father should have had more compassion for his children rather then having a new women moving in, way to quick. how long have they been dating? why would your dad do this? what is this woman thinking moving in so quick just after the kids lost their mum. i feel so sorry for you. talk to your dad. maybe that might help.
maybe its just me but most of the answer on here are supporting your dad, who is supporting you.
your dad should be putting his children first, no matter what, that's what parents do. not bringing in another person into your house who you don't know.
2007-09-25 04:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your mom and dad were not as close as your thought. And some guys just can't do by themselves. They need a woman. still, 4 months is an awful short time to set up house with another woman.
2007-09-25 02:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Faerie_Queene3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit odd that he is able to move on so quickly, perhaps this is a way of dealing with his loss. People deal with grief in their own ways. There is not much you can do about it other then maybe talk to him tell him how you feel about it. It might not change anything but at least he will know.
I think its one thing to move on and find love again, another thing to do it before the ink has dried on your deceased spouses death certificate.
2007-09-25 02:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how you feel.Morally id say it isnt right at all.
But he is probably doing it cause he needs some support he needs someone to help him cope with the loss.
I know it must b e hard for you but you have to understand that it is his life and he knows whats best for him.
Maybe you should talk to him about him and tell him how you feel about it and he in turn will probably tell you whats going on in his mind and why he did it.
By the way whats your age? just curious
2007-09-25 02:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
logically its wrong......but practically its right. b'coz each of us needs a companion and a shoulder to cry at such situations. maybe he is very weak to accept the fact that his partner is no more, and he wants to forget it by living with this women. And last but not least everyone craves for emotional support and Sex. regards Anthony DE
2007-09-25 03:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something you don't like, but you have to figure in your father's feelings as well. He probably spent many years with your mom... and once she was gone he misses that companionship, having someone there by his side, not being alone.
I know it's hard, but try to accept it. He needs understanding as he tries to put his life back together without your mom.
2007-09-25 04:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Iam deeply saddened for your loss.
I will not speak to the right or wrong of your Dads circumstance,deep hurt,and lonliness for his lady now forever gone,I will say is he suppose to sit alone and die an early death ? no I don't think so,perhaps it is early but who am I to say.
2007-09-25 03:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by stevenseeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be it is comforting to share your grief with someone....
You have your own life and may not be there for him the way he needs to emotionally.
I would be relactant to understand this but would probably still love him if he was my dad...
2007-09-25 05:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Aunty Pear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on my own perception, i think it is not right. oh! my., what kind of dad is like that?., is ther's a reason why your dad is looking for another wife or women?., maybe your dad is looking for love, and care that your mom couldn't give anymore becase she's already dead.,
2007-09-25 02:21:45 · answer #11 · answered by Genevive A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋