Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

you approach a girl sitting on the bar alone, you get her to come join you n your friends ((big group of boys n girls)) ,
n you get her a drink.
after a while you leave the table for 5 minutes.
you come back one of your friends sitting away from his girlfriend which also your friend,ask her to sit next to him n start a innocent conversation (((as he said)))?!!?!!?
then you go chill outside on a table,when they both come out but they don't see you, they both exchange numbers out side so his girl friend don't see him.

1)was it an innocent conversation?why exchange numbers out side away from his girl friend??
2)would you still consider him as a friend knowing that you told him that you where interested in her??
3)what do you think about the girl sitting on the bar??
4)He never said am sorry or try to fix things, he still say i did not know n it was an innocent conversation.
5)she is not important to me,i don't respect her anymore,but she showed me what kind of pig was having as a friend.

2007-09-21 23:59:44 · 4 answers · asked by Conan 1 in Friends

I m in love with saggi guy. even he loves me but he is not ready for any type of committment at this moment. Plz suggest. Saggi guys plz answer this.

2007-09-21 23:54:51 · 2 answers · asked by Tweety C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never had a girl friend, ever. Is that bad?

2007-09-21 23:50:16 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm getting engaged to my boyfriend very soon. we ha a conversation lst night and he tells me that he doesn't trurst anyone as much as he trusts his mother. In a nutshell, i dcan't remember the ins and outs but he's saying he doesn't trust me 100% the only person in his life he can trust is his mother. I felt kinda insulted by that and not sure if that is a good start for a marriage...what happens when were without hi mother, am i just a second in line but never live up to what she is?

question: is this normal and is this a bad sign before marrige?

2007-09-21 23:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im hurting. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me hald a year ago and it was really painful for me. He was always contacting me even after the break up and was telling me that maybe in the future we can get back together but he doesn't want to continue our long-distance relationship for now. It was difficult for me to know what he really wants because he was always very upset if I told him that I am going to stop all communication with him. I went to see him a month ago and it was very nice and he was with me as if we are still together but then he told me we need to move on at least for now. I was devastated. About a week ago, I told him final good bye but he contacted me again telling me it's too hard. He asked me if I didn't want to save anything and break everything by walking away and cutting all communication. Since then I have taken his words seriously and did not manage to cut all communication. But now when I ask him to talk, he gets all stressed and says he is too tired from work.

2007-09-21 23:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just the responsibilities. I'm not married yet and my parents doesn't tell me they said I have to find it out myself. So I tried the internet but to no avail. All I can search for is to 'love one another' and that's it. I thought that real people with experience might be able to answer this.

2007-09-21 23:21:53 · 5 answers · asked by Don 2 in Marriage & Divorce

bcz friends help any time, that time no help we our relation,

2007-09-21 23:12:10 · 17 answers · asked by Dhiraj c 1 in Friends

What physical features does a hot girl have? (Both face and body)

2007-09-21 23:10:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mad about a girl and I think she is too but the problem here that we are totally different and we practically have nothing in common.
I'm afraid to get in this relation and so confused

2007-09-21 22:54:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a 2 year old daughter. I want to know how can I keep me and my wife happy. Our ideas or thinking never match.She takes life very seriously. I dont get the sense of urgency for any thing. She is organized, also wants me to be organized. That does not get into me. she gets frustrated with that.
Should I compromise and live my life the way she wants me to do? Please advise.

2007-09-21 22:45:50 · 6 answers · asked by spal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tonight I went out,and met a woman we left the bar cops where out
and so we went to my place,my girlfriend was there of 6 years
she was mad I don't blame her,I tried to go see her tonight but she went over to her moms I thought she was suppose to call me but I called her instead,she said just wait untill tomorrow so I got mad and toke off,I guess from what you've read so far makes me the bad guy,
but wait,we use to live together for a couple of years,I stayed with her
she would drink every night and stay on the phone start stuff with me
tell me to get out of her house with no place to go, one night I had to sleep in an old abandon van in a juck yard,so we separated and during that time my parents had a old mobile home they let me have
I've been fixing up and her and I only have been seeing each other
2 or 3 nights a week she won't move here and I cant give up my home to rent that's dumb if she was here like normal person none of it would never happen,it seems to me,I'm 51

2007-09-21 22:21:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

someone I like romantically please.

2007-09-21 22:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is sex a big thing for you??why???can you stand for a long time with out sex??why?? does it have to be part of a relationship(boyfriens/girlfriend) for it to stay longer??

i'm just curious..


how important it is to you???

and is it true that after you have sex wioth your girl you start to hate her or i mean you start to fall out of love?

can you stand a realationship with sex?

when do you really fall in love and how will we know when your serious and truly inlove...

2007-09-21 21:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by jhade0821 3 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend keeps on telling me nice stuff like he cant live without me and he doesnt know what he would do without me but he doesnt even go to the same school as me and i just dont think its working out between us so i want to break up with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings...

2007-09-21 21:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Singles & Dating

would you visit or buy stuff from an internet second hand shop?

2007-09-21 21:29:34 · 1 answers · asked by angelz@princess265 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I was betrayed by my bestfriend. Shoud I comeback to her and give her my trust like before? or just give some part?

2007-09-21 21:25:02 · 3 answers · asked by dee 1 in Friends

Well, even though im an eighth grader and she's a sophomore, i really like her. I'm in the band and she does colorguard. When we were talking a few days ago, i sent her a pic comment on myspace about how pretty she was and she sent me a comment saying how im the coolest middle schooler around and why she didn't need a reason. so i started flirting with her and i think she flirted back. like on the bus ride back from the football game last night, she sat behind me next to her friend and we all talked about stuff. Even at the gave i caught her looking at me a few times. Do you think she likes me?

2007-09-21 21:22:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I'm having a sex w my boyfriend , I think of my co-worker havin sex w me not him... what's wrong w me??

2007-09-21 21:19:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 21:08:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have gotten into several fights. I feel like I am to blame a little for when he hits me; I kinda of egg him on.
For instance, tonight we got in a fight, I can't remember who touched who first; I do however remember pushing him and then he hit me in my back really hard. Later he was standing there and his belt was unbuckled so I pulled it out of the loops and then he grabbed it from me and hit me with it. So am I the nut?? Am I to blame in this situation. I have even told him not to hit me and he says he doesn't care, he'll do it again...
After he hit me with the belt I got in the car and left but I only got about half way down the street before I turned around and tried to resolve, but he won't communicate when he is angry and it takes him long to calm down; I'm talking hours or even days... Can I please get some opinions?

2007-09-21 21:05:41 · 23 answers · asked by Audlee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy is an old acquaintance from a church where I used to go to. He found me on myspace and messaged me then we started chatting and get along very well. He works for non profit christian org mentoring street kids here in our place. He invited me over, and now Im currently an active volunteer. We see each other twice a week, mentoring the kids together, and we are also together in his music program for the out of school youth. He's a really nice guy, a mature christian. And we have the same passion for helping people and with music and serving the Lord. I have never met a guy like this before who shares the sames interests as mine. We talk for hours everynight. He calls and message me during the day.

BUT... he's like a computer game addict... he goes out at 10pm or 12midnight with his guy friends at the org and goes home at 8am... and then sleeps just a little and they all go to work again, and after work.

2007-09-21 20:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by terra 4 in Singles & Dating

Bare with me because this might be lengthy.. A friend of mine who is 18 and still in high school is living at home with her Mom and her Mom's boyfriend of 13 years. The other day she was told by this guy that she needs to start looking for a new place to live because he feels he shouldn't be supporting her financially anymore now that she is 18. She just started her senior year of high school this year and would already be graduated by now if this guy and her mom hadn't decided to hold her back years ago. She feels like she is between a rock and a hard place on this one... She is a U.S. resident from the state of Michigan. Are there any laws protecting a high school student still living at home in this sort of situation? Also if their aren't and they do force her to move out does any one know of any programs the state of Michigan provides to someone in a situation like this? Thank you for your patience if you read this whole message.

2007-09-21 20:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by Lance B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What makes guys think they have the right to start calling you "baby" or "honey" in the 3rd sentence they've ever spoken to you?

2007-09-21 20:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I over heard my parents arguing. My mom thinks my dad is having an affair. Of course he denies it. What do I do?

2007-09-21 20:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I HAD A FRND WHO I FOUND ON NET. WE STARTED TO OVE EACH OTHER BUT I THINK ITS RISK TO HAVE BF ON NET . I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH . BT WAT TO DO

2007-09-21 20:47:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-21 20:46:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A guy friend moved to another country shortly after we met a yr ago& invited me to travel with him but I couldnt at the time.He kept in touch with chat & as I was going on vacn to his country we said that we'd meet. He said 'hurry up & that he'd fallen for me'. So met up a few days ago..it was great. Prob. is he had already arranged a trip with another guy friend but still they both invited me..roughing/sleeping in a car. So we kissed&a bit more,of course he wanted sex(like all guys!) but I said 'not yet'. He said 'then when' but I was shy & didnt explain I need time. Next day, he sent a msg 'listen, it wont work travelling all 3 of us'..nothing else!. I was upset but realised, 3 in a car..cramped. So I replied 'sure 3 would be crazy so have a good trip&dont lose contact'. So yesterday I saw him online& said hi to him& we chatted friendly& I said Id felt a bit strange when we met& Id like 2 meet up when he gets back. Then we were disconnected! I have a feeling he signed off. Help!!

2007-09-21 20:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

It happened twice this past week... in class, this girl looked at me, i could see her in the corner of my eye, trying to get eye contact with me, her eyes followed me as i walked to my desk.... does it mean im ugly or hideous or something to her?

also it happened outside with a different girl on a different day... im not sure if she was checking me out, but i saw her looking at me.... then i moved a building and sat down... then 10 seconds later, i see her walking my direction trying to look at me.... is this considered checking you out? or what?

2007-09-21 20:43:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have met a girl in my tennis class at college about 3 weeks ago and we talked a little at the first day. Since then she prefers to play with me and when comes to practice she asks me to work with him. Actually, I do not have any special interest in her but I was wondering if she sort of likes me, or I don’t know may be I should invite him for a coffee to learn more about each other.

2007-09-21 20:36:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thats my question.

2007-09-21 20:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by My name is not bruce 7 in Singles & Dating