tonight I went out,and met a woman we left the bar cops where out
and so we went to my place,my girlfriend was there of 6 years
she was mad I don't blame her,I tried to go see her tonight but she went over to her moms I thought she was suppose to call me but I called her instead,she said just wait untill tomorrow so I got mad and toke off,I guess from what you've read so far makes me the bad guy,
but wait,we use to live together for a couple of years,I stayed with her
she would drink every night and stay on the phone start stuff with me
tell me to get out of her house with no place to go, one night I had to sleep in an old abandon van in a juck yard,so we separated and during that time my parents had a old mobile home they let me have
I've been fixing up and her and I only have been seeing each other
2 or 3 nights a week she won't move here and I cant give up my home to rent that's dumb if she was here like normal person none of it would never happen,it seems to me,I'm 51
2007-09-21 22:21:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by the way,last night was first drink in months,I only had 2,and I know I should have just stayed home,but I stay home all the time except for work,go see her,go see mom,or my son.
2007-09-22 01:47:49 · update #1
by the way,last night was first drink in months,I only had 2,and I know I should have just stayed home,but I stay home all the time except for work,go see her,go see mom,or my son,by the way I have'nt ever ran around on her she has been with 2 men in the past,there is a lot more to all of this this is just the begining to say the least
2007-09-22 01:53:40 · update #2
at 51 you should know how to run your own life .
2007-09-21 22:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by me m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop running around on your girlfriend or give her up, one or the other.
Focus on fixing the mobile home and focus on making it the place where you are happy whether anyone is there with you or not. Focus on those things that make you feel at peace that don't involve cops, bars, and strange women. You are old enough to know the difference between worthy behavior and unworthy behavior, so get your priorities in order.
It doesn't sound like your girlfriend and you are doing anything other than to make each other miserable; in six years you haven't moved forward to marriage and you don't seem to know what you want, and her nightly drinking was clearly making you unhappy. You may be each other's worst problem.
Romantic relationships should have support and trust in both directions and I'm not seeing that anywhere here.
2007-09-22 00:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Parrot Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to read this twice to understand, but I think what you are saying is that your girlfriend of 6 years does not live with you. You live separately but see each other a few nights a week. You want her to move in, but she won't. You went out, met someone and brought her home and your girlfriend was there and got mad. Okay.. being a woman myself I would be upset that you brought a woman to your home. I would be upset because there is a 6 yr. relationship going on whether it be good or bad and whether you live together or not. It is still a form of dating. She has probably remained faithful to you. If you did not tell her you wanted to see other women, she is going to feel that you cheated on her. She is going to be angry. At this point, you two need to make a decision, either you are going to live together or not. If she won't move in and you won't move in with her then I would suggest you end this relationship and move on. There is no future in it. Or you can agree to have a open relationship. Which means that you both can date whomever you want but still see each other too. However the rules would need to change. She would need to call you before coming over instead of popping in whenever she wanted. To be truthful though, I don't know how many women would actually agree to this. On the flip side, if you tell her you want to see other women, she may decide she doesn't want to lose you and decide to move in. She could also tell you to hit the road. I guess you guys are going to have to sit down and talk it out. Good Luck
2007-09-21 22:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by hlp4U1799 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone that is 51 years old, you have a messed up life. You sound like you are an alcoholic, and are having female problems. Stop using both of them and maybe you will find a life.
2007-09-21 23:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I busted up laughing when I read the part where you slept in an old abandoned van in a junkyard. Personally, I wouldn't of told that about myself.
2007-09-22 00:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you suppose to get wiser as you get older, come on you are 51, when does the drama stop and when do you wake up? God Bless.
2007-09-25 22:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really 51. It sounds like you must be 18. get control of your life!
2007-09-21 23:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought i was reading the words of a young adult. what a surprise you are 51! your love life's a mess. straighten things out, my friend. god loves you without preconditions. so do i. do the same. i guarantee you happiness.
2007-09-21 22:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Regino O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate, hitting the grog doesnt help things, it makes problems bigger. try not bringing other girls home, take your misses out instead romance her be faithful, and if you truly love her move in with her if not cut your losses and go, find happieness elsewhere
2007-09-21 23:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by hellotrixee28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 51.. and you brought back a chix you wanted to *** when your 6g/f of 6 years was there... mmmm sounds like your still in the wrong mate... she should *** you of for good gee's grow up
2007-09-21 22:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋