well my boyfriend keeps on telling me nice stuff like he cant live without me and he doesnt know what he would do without me but he doesnt even go to the same school as me and i just dont think its working out between us so i want to break up with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings...
2007-09-21 21:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know... but what about you. U just got to respect ur own feelings, he'll move on. but can u imagine that, not loving him n still be w him? U won't be happy but HE WILL BE. its not right. make urself happy, he'll find another girl.. just tell him how u feel, .. just try to tell him, u need a break, maybe later on u will go back w him, or.. u need a space.
2007-09-21 21:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him if that is how you feel. you can not stay just for his sake as you are only misleading him. Tell him you are sorry but you just do not see a future for the two of you. That way you can both move on and perhaps find someone even better.
2007-09-22 04:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by rabbit1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you don't want to hurt him leading him on when you don't want to be with him will hurt even more. Just tell him the truth. Tell him how you feel. Honestly to me he sounds that he is a bit clingy. You will hurt no matter what but don't wait. It will make matters worse
2007-09-22 04:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by S S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you don't feel the same way that he does, be tactful yet considerate. But if you are really planning to break it off with him and your mind is made up then do it soon don't sit on it too long, he sounds he's pretty well attached to you.
2007-09-22 04:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by caminolargo76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him very nice and easy that it won't work DON'T flat out tell him we're over not the way to go and just plain mean. explain it to him and ask if u can be friends
2007-09-22 04:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by His Angel Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell him is by saying it gently and not too fastly, and do it in person not by email or phone. Say sorry and ask if u can b frends
2007-09-22 05:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky girl:P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyway you do it will hurt his feelings. But that is part of becoming more mature. I've noticed that when people get a feeling that they should do something about their relationships , they are usually right about what they should do.
2007-09-22 04:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do this just tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore.
2007-09-22 05:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him (privatly) that you dont think you are working together because itll make you feel worse if you stay together and you dont actually like him.
2007-09-22 04:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by lhbdan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him.
2007-09-22 05:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by tom_sawyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋