I mad about a girl and I think she is too but the problem here that we are totally different and we practically have nothing in common.
I'm afraid to get in this relation and so confused
2007-09-21 22:54:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why think of this as a "relationship" yet when you have already decided that differences is a bad thing? The part of you who is attracted to her is now matured enough to appreciate something and someone new and different I am hoping and differences can be delightful! If we ate cheerios everyday wouldn't we crave pancakes after awhile?? Now, be nice to her, ask her what her favorite colors are, favorite books, favorite museums, if she likes thrift stores or just likes to buy everything new. Don't insult her by making your interest in her of sheer lust. If you have a sister you love you want her to avoid dangerous situations. If you truly like this young woman you will be equally protective. No one wants to be kind to another person who turns out to be an insensitive jerk. I don't know how often you cross paths with her but first you will need to EARN her trust and once doing that should you ever actually go on an adventure to the city library on a mission to learn something fun or interesting, the gentle questions you ask her will reveal her character and also yours. It is wonderful to meet people of other cultures. I still hold fast to my heart meeting men and women from others countries as exchange students. Differences are the spice of life, and don't worry as cruelty and unkindness cross every culture unfortunately and are evil, no matter what world you come from. Kindness and decency are the glue that keeps people from various countries friends. You can teach her soccer and she can teach you a new language or how to find the best bargains at the mall. Be creative, the worst that can happen is even if she isn't the love of your life you have another terrific friend and lord knows we could all use another one of those! Now go and have some fun with this young blossom and be nice!
2007-09-21 23:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yin/yang
of course it can work
it does for me
we are polar opposites
we compliment each other
and between us we get most things just right
2007-09-22 06:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend are practically completly the opposite but my relationship is working so i would go for it otherwise you would never know =] x
2007-09-22 05:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Colle =] x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go for it...
otherwise you will never find out..
try and get to know her,show interests in her hobbies etc..
thats starting point..she will be impressed that your paying her attention..
2007-09-22 06:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bwabyboi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋