We have a 2 year old daughter. I want to know how can I keep me and my wife happy. Our ideas or thinking never match.She takes life very seriously. I dont get the sense of urgency for any thing. She is organized, also wants me to be organized. That does not get into me. she gets frustrated with that.
Should I compromise and live my life the way she wants me to do? Please advise.
2007-09-21 22:45:50 · 6 answers · asked by spal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be practical, wht astrology says, that is to be wait and see kind of thing, till then u cannot keep ur family unhappy ...
what she is telling is right, that is to be organized... nothing wrong in it...
if u want to keep ur family happy it is not that difficult to be organized ....
to be as organized is not a compromise... it is must, and ur daughter also undersatnds the value of to be organized ...
2007-09-21 22:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a big fan of Astrology, imagine there are billions of people in the world and we only 12 ways of thinking.
My wife and I argue a lot on petty things too.
I have a scientific approach in everything and she's not.
Sometimes on I compromise on things that can be tolerated but never on big issues and whenever I proved my point she agrees only after a tedious argument.
We've been together now for seven years.
Now we knew each other well. We know when to compromise and not to.
Give and take that's the key to your problem. Is there something wrong with being organized?
Good luck.
2007-09-21 23:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your birth star sign has nothing to do with how you both live/get along at all. We are all entirely different (maybe even opposites) and it's always after marriage that we come to realise this. If you want to keep your marriage intact, you both have to compromise and be giving as much as possible. It's never easy, but this seems to be the only way, as many people find out after being together for some years.
2007-09-21 22:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not say I Do? Now your not sure if you want to be with this chic. What the hell. You had better tell her how you feel. I don't live in your home. It sounds to me that you might be some what of a pig. Don't help with dishes. Don't give a damn if you don't clean up your little girls messes. Don't care if you just sit on your B hind and be a hick! Think about it. She'll probably leave you. Then who is gonna do all the mommy stuff for you?
2007-09-21 22:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Talk to her .tell her that since opposites attract....she being the meticulous one and you being the carefree character .you are possibly the best alliance.you both complement each other..without understanding...she completes you and you complete her and the proof of it lies in the two year daughter you have .
2.understand that both need to adjust ...you go the extra mile for her and she goes the extra mile for you ...life will be pleasant for both of you .
3. remember life and marriage isnt about "me" its about "we"...both of you need to compromise ..so there is no winner ....or better still both are winners ..!!!(forget about pisces and leo ...your sun signs )
2007-09-22 00:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by nitin t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why blame your stars ? Adopt the policy of a little give and take and be happy.
2007-09-21 23:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋