Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

2007-09-21 02:58:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 19 an my bf is 18 turning to 19 soon. we are toghether for about 8 lovely months. he is my first love and i am his first love. we only have done oral sex to each other( we are still virgins) but we want to do more soon. i am scared that my parents would make me a scandal if they found out about it :( and even if they dont found out about it i am still wondering if this is right for me to lie to them,,,,i would really like to make love with my bf.

2007-09-21 02:58:29 · 24 answers · asked by Purple~Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

i went on a second dat with a guy last night to the cinema, he asked me. and when we got there he said you get the tickets and i'll get the popcorn!! ps i was driving. then we went to the bar and he said oh you can't have a drink. then he conplain how much drinks where! then talked about how **** his ex was! then he told me to get the next round what the f. and then asked if i wanted popcorn and i said i don't like and was thinking of getting ice cream. and he left me at the ice cream stand. and then he asked me just before the film started if i could drop him off at a club after to go meet his mates. am i wrong to think this guy is rude ? ps he text me this morning to see if i wanted to go out sunday

2007-09-21 02:58:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says "i love you " and you feel like you automaticlly have to say it back or he gets upset WHY ????????

2007-09-21 02:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by miss v8 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He (or she) gets really bitchy about once a month, never leaves the toilet seat up and I saw a tampon string in the garbage the other day. I'm really starting to wonder...how do I bring this up? Should I even bother? Does it even matter? Or should I be pissed that he (she) lied to me about having a penis? This is so stressful and I don't know what to do!

2007-09-21 02:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The actions that she does that would make you tingle.

(eg girls like it when you put your arm around their shoulders)

2007-09-21 02:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 02:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

All my friends only comes to me when they need me and when they don't I don't even get the chance to say hi to them. God knows where they are now.

I feel more like a customer support technician rather than a friend to them... either that or a taxi driver

2007-09-21 02:52:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-21 02:50:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a family problem...actually it's my dad...he have this drinking and smoking problem...it's start to bother me...how? by seeing my dad asked my mom for money that my mom been working harder to earn that alot of money and my dad's totally JOBLESS!!! I'm deaf and 17 years old, in 2 weeks I hope to start my new job because of my mom, she's need some help so I decide to help her by start my new job...and I really want my dad to quit his bad problems! I beg you, and my sisters always in bad mood because of my dad's problems...I want have fun with my sisters but they couldn't used to it...**BTW, my both sisters and I are coming from hearing family meaing my sisters and I were born with deafness.** I couldnt take it ANYMORE!!! please tell me what to do...thanks.

2007-09-21 02:46:22 · 2 answers · asked by bunnielover 3 in Family

2007-09-21 02:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Silly person 1 in Singles & Dating

I let my husband go out last night to the club because this group that he really likes was going to be there. We're currently separated and trying to work things out. He was going home early since he had to go to work today and get up at 5:30am. He said he would call me and he never did and hasn't since yesterday evening. That's weird of him because he always always calls.
Right now I'm just so angry with him because so many things go through my head like (what if he took some girl home and that's why he didn't call me) just all kinds of crazy thoughts.
I thought I did trust him, that's why I let him go in the first place.
Any help would be appreciated.

2007-09-21 02:44:30 · 23 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 02:44:20 · 21 answers · asked by Starte Christ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been separated for 2 months from my husband. We have 2 young kids together. I became pregnant and had our baby in May. I admit I was not as careful taking pills even after my husband voiced he did not want another child now. Well, he was VERY cold and uniterested during my pregnancy and when she came, he was very distant to her, didnt hold her etc. Six weeks went by and he held her twice. He just said he didnt feel it was his fault b/c he wasent ready emotionally or financially for a child. We had our family problems too. So I left when she was 6 weeks b/c I felt he wasent treating her like he should have. Well, 2 months has gone by and he is JUST coming around some- asking about her, has held her, talks to her. I want to work things out and try b/c I want to for my kids. I also still love him. My parents say I should never go back and forgive him for what hes done. What do you think?

2007-09-21 02:43:07 · 46 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 02:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I have doubted things my friend has said.
Around easter she said she'd helped her friend get pregnant by donating eggs. She loves babies and I know she really wants one.
About 5 weeks ago she text me to say her friend had had the baby after a problem at 21 weeks.
Since then she's contacted me several times to say give me updates.
The last week she said the condition had worsened. And today she said that they had to decide whether to keep the baby alive or not.
I decided to do some research on the net to see if there was anything I could find to give her some comfort or advice or anything really.
What I found was 2 photo graphs of a baby born at 21 weeks like this one was. Thing is the 2 photos are the 2 she sent me of the baby that she apparently helped to be conceived. It's not these photos were taking a year ago in a differnt country.

They are DEFINALTY the same photos.

What do I do???
Can't stop shaking I can't belive she would lie like this

2007-09-21 02:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by blondeicehockeyfan 2 in Friends

Which one is better, being married or being single. And why?

2007-09-21 02:39:41 · 13 answers · asked by Mike M. 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-21 02:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 12 and was caught and my mom left when she saw.
I am in for some crap arent I? P_P hopefully its not the spanctula again.

2007-09-21 02:35:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my current boyfriend {who will remain nameless} aske me to marry him and i don't know if i want to but i love him soo damn much. what should i do??

2007-09-21 02:33:31 · 28 answers · asked by Star 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay... my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years. We bought our place and live together. For about two years, I haven't been taking birth control pills (his choice), so he has been using protection. Last night when we were about to make love; I realized that he pulled a condom out of his wallet (instead of the drawer, 1st time I've ever seen him do this). We ended up getting into an arguement cause I don't understand why he has to have a condom in his wallet. We live together, rarely ever do we stay at someone else's house (and it's not like we get busy like that at other people's houses anyway), so I do not understand why he carries one w/ him. I don't think I'm making a big deal out of it, but he thinks I am. At the end of the night he said "this is why I doubt marrying you" I was like wtf!? I don't understand why he is mad and is turning the whole thing around and putting it on me. Please give me your point of view. Thanks.

2007-09-21 02:30:14 · 10 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi going out for a meal in a couple of weeks with my 2 sisters and their husbands ,the thing is my sister always suggests ,well she doesnt she just goes and puts all our meals together and everyone pays all the same the thing is and i dont want to sound mean my husband only ever has one drink while they have 6 or 7 cause he drives us there she will order a half bottle of wine and drink it all , we are abit strapped for cash at the minute as getting a new kitchen if i say can we have separate bills i know she will take it wrong ,am i being a meany ??i cannot afford to keep doing this with the bills so i might not go , what would you do??

2007-09-21 02:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1) how long do you normally spend at the dinner if there's a movie to get to afterwardss?

2) what do i say (exactly) to excuse myself from the dinner table to use the restroomss?

best answer will be awardedd!

2007-09-21 02:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by sexiielizabethtran 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and have been strangly attracted to an 18 year old guy i met at school this year. We have hung out and he seems to be pretty mature, but is it all about bragging rights or what? I can't remember what guys were like when I was 18.

2007-09-21 02:24:15 · 23 answers · asked by Molly 1 in Singles & Dating

she said " u little *****. get off that computer now, and go to your room" im kinda shocked at wat she said but she had no idea that ive looked at stuff on the internet. she took my computer privileges, and house and cell phone from me. that was almost 3 weeks ago...she's still doin it tho.. she put a pass. on our computer and everything. i only get on when shes lets me, and its only for 25 min. I sneak on when i can. Shes not even home now. DO YOU THINK SHE OVERREACTED??? i mean teen guys are pretty much the main culprits for lookin at porn or playin w/ themselves and gettin caught. My boyfriends mom would rather him look at porn then out doing it w/ a gurl. My mom and i already had a kinda strained relationship. but now its like hardly there. she probably thinks im a pervert. ADVICE???

2007-09-21 02:24:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How long have you been married?

2007-09-21 02:22:05 · 29 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex was ordered to pay me a sum of money 3 months ago because he refused to take my name off of the mortgage (after 2 years of being divorced, my name was ~still~ on the mortgage) then he let the house go in foreclosure and I had to file bankruptcy. We have a compliance hearing set for next week - does this mean the judge just wants to see if he's 'complied' with the order? What might happen when I tell the judge he hasn't paid me a penny of what he owes?

2007-09-21 02:21:48 · 2 answers · asked by razor_sharp_redhead 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is divorce necessary for a couple... points that can be used on debates ok?

2007-09-21 02:17:25 · 12 answers · asked by hanjew d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of nights ago, me and my girl best friend (not girlfriend), went out like any other night as friends with some of our other friends (we have been friends with each other for 7 years – both 19). Anyway, we went to a night club like any other nights that we would go out with friends, but we ended up in bed together the next morning (she lost her virginity to me now). She just got out of a relationship four days ago too. Would it be the wrong time for me to ask her if we could be gf and bf?

2007-09-21 02:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend for two months now and i new him every since i was 5 and now two months in the relationship he was asking me to have sex with and i was like i am not ready and he was like when r u going to be ready and i was like when the time is right and then he was like oh iight. ya know before i got with him he use to fool around with alot of gurls ya know and he has never been with a virgin and so he was like aint nobody a virgin n-e more get with tthe 21st century and i was like i am just not ready and so he was like since i have been after u fa a long time and i luv u so much to never hurt u i will wait. but the problem is that he has a lot of female friends and idk if i like that ya know. so what should i do?

2007-09-21 01:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by LIL_DRUMMERGURL_08 1 in Singles & Dating