2007-09-21 02:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never. There is more to a marriage than sex, but it does play a big part. One may want sex 3 times a day and the other may be 3 times a week. This may be considered as miss matched sex drive but it is still a good healthy marriage.
2007-09-21 03:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dory 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes but only as a last resort. Communicating about sex is difficult. And your partner may be depressed or have hormonal issues. Try medical work ups and counseling. If we are talking about you want 5 times a week and they want 2 times then you are being rash about divorce. But if the difference is like 5 a week compare to once a month or 2twice a year that could be a significant enough problem to cause a divorce
2007-09-21 03:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Red Phantom 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, but u can go to counseling and find out what really is wrong. Maybe she is tired or gained weight & feels a lil depressed. When people get married the sex does slow down, but if the man makes us feel wanted & desired we know we need to please u completely so make sure u find out what is on her mind & why. BUT PLS SO NOT CONSIDER DIVORCE!!!!!!! Without a fighting chance * if u have kids than u need to masturbate or something but u cant get a divorce 4 sho in that case.
I ALSO WANT TO SAY: I read the other comments & I am so impressed with the answers. Men u r very sweet & mature. I enjoyed reading comments on this question it was very refreshing=)
2007-09-21 03:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by June Gem 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, I believe in the vows I said on my wedding day, "In sickness and in Health" or even "For better or Worse". There may be a very good reason for the problem, at the least, you are a bad lover or at the worst, your spouse has a medical problem...You considering divorce is crappy, try putting some effort into your marriage instead of turning tail and running...Shame on you...
2007-09-21 03:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No. That is something that can be worked on. If you want sex more and your partner doesnt, maybe there is hidden resentment or anger that they harbor toward you. Communication is key. If you dont learn to voice your feelings, your spouse wont open up. But dont accuse, just ask why, very sweetly and try to really "understand". Maybe you get mad at your spouse and you are pushing them away from you. It could be a miriad of reasons. So PLEASE talk to them. If it is nothing like that, and your spouse truly isnt in sync with your sex drive, I would grab her (if spouse a woman) and be caveman-like with her.. Thats what my hubby does, and BOY DOES IT WORK! (but stop if she objects! hehe) Good luck, friend!
2007-09-21 03:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by S&NFervor4Ever 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
No. I think that if your partner's sex drive isn't at the same spped as yours then you can help your partner kick it up a notch. do a little role playing. encourage them to try new things. if they are seriously set on not changing their se drive then go to counciling maybe and that may help. Marriage is a bond that is meant to last forever and you should try whatever it takes to make it last. i hope that this helps out.
2007-09-21 02:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by mfox41406 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely not. That's one extremely superficial marriage, if it's all based on sex drives.
2007-09-22 00:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on how much importance sex is in a marriage. Some may base their marriage solely on sex, for some it might a a big part of their lives. For some it is just a part of being married. And some could care less.
2007-09-21 03:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think I would try to get counseling first. Try everything you can to rev it up. If nothing works talk to your mate to find out what the problem is. If that doesn't work I guess you need to put your priorities in order to make that decision.
2007-09-21 03:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Paula D 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not really you just find a surrogate sex partner till your spouse gets back in rhythm with you no matter how long it takes, remember your vows..
2007-09-21 03:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋