Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

2007-09-21 09:34:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been a very nice person and good to me since the day we were married, but my mother has always warned me to still be prepared that a lot of men eventually cheats down the road when the wife looks old and then he looks for younger women. I’m sort of very Chinese, so I get influenced by parent’s opinion. It makes me not want to put in too much emotion/trust to our marriage when I should because my husband loves me. Do men normally cheat once the wife gets old or for whatever reason? Should I believe that there are men whom are loyal to their wives for the rest of their lives?

2007-09-21 09:33:48 · 22 answers · asked by hueimo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my gf so much.She doesnt want the same things as me though and our dreams are completely different.She doesnt ever want to marry or have kids and i do.I want to live in China and she wants to stay in the US.We are completely different and we want different things but i love her.I need opinions from unbiased people.

By the way when i say break up i mean drop all contact and move on.

2007-09-21 09:33:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 09:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by §êx¥måmå 1 in Family

between a man and a woman, men are so different then women.... be honest... thanks

2007-09-21 09:31:01 · 27 answers · asked by lauren j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the mornings I am sooo grouchy! I just totally turn into a raving ^&tch. I hate being mean to my boyfriend. He is a wonderful man and I can't help but to take my morning grouchyness out on him. Any suggestions on how to get the morning grouchy's away?

2007-09-21 09:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf has been legally separated for quite a few yrs. and wants to become engaged to me before filing for divorce. Is this acceptable?!

2007-09-21 09:30:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

From 3-5:30ish? She is 11 years old and her school is in our block. She has her own cell phone so she can call for emergencies. She told me she is ready.

My mom takes care of her (since she was a baby) but she keeps having trouble w/my daughter and my little sister (2 years younger than her). I'm getting tired of my daughter calling me crying that they are picking at her or my mom calling me at work to piss me off w/her complaints.

2007-09-21 09:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

wat to do on the weekends

2007-09-21 09:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by sean a 1 in Family

I'm 14 and my exgirlfriends 12 and she dumped me about 3-2months ago because she thinks I'm too old for her and I've only just realised but i've been trying to make all my friends around me miserable without realising it. I've been doing it to all of my friends and they're all beginning to finally say what they think and it hasn't been nice. I've lost a few friends thanx to it and one was a really good friend. I've been using my exgirlfriend's friends to try and get over her. I even well not acted on it but even thought about dragging her 11year old sister into it to help me get over my ex and I've also been taking all my jealousy out on my exgirlfriend's boyfriend(well now exboyfriend) and even though I've done all this my ex has stuck beside me and never complained and is the only one of two who haven't and I feel she should complain because I've been a real jerk and haven't even noticed it until I started losing my friends.

2007-09-21 09:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

*once agian i kno this is the wrong section.... but i get the best answers here!!!*

what is your passion?? im 19 and i still dont kno what im passionate about? i dont even kno what gives my life meaning! is that weird??

2007-09-21 09:21:53 · 8 answers · asked by lizzylou859 3 in Singles & Dating

Im hurting. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me hald a year ago and it was really painful for me. He was always contacting me even after the break up and was telling me that maybe in the future we can get back together but he doesn't want to continue our long-distance relationship for now. It was difficult for me to know what he really wants because he was always very upset if I told him that I am going to stop all communication with him. I went to see him a month ago and it was very nice and he was with me as if we are still together but then he told me we need to move on at least for now. I was devastated. About a week ago, I told him final good bye but he contacted me again telling me it's too hard He asked me if I didn't want to save anything and break everything by walking away and cutting all communication. Since then I have taken his words seriously and did not manage to cut all communication. But now when I ask him to talk, he gets all stressed and says he is too tired from work.

2007-09-21 09:21:15 · 18 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Were you the innoncent one or were you the rabel rouser?

2007-09-21 09:19:01 · 3 answers · asked by bia diva 4 in Friends

I never found this to be an attrative character trait in someone.
That's my gift to that for that special woman when I meet her is that I could have had lots of casual sex, great sex and sexual relationships with many women but I chose not to because I don't thinks it's an attractive character trait in myself or someone else. I've always told this to most every girl I've been with. There were a few times I did engage in sexual activity, but not a reguar behavior. I've always encouraged women to refrain from sexual relations because it's not an attractive character trait, it's not a healthy behavior, i.e., unwanted pregnancy and STD risk, and if the the guy doesn't already love her and want to marry her, she is just being ****** (if he does it right, she enjoys being ****** more than he enjoys ******* her).
How many of you women agree. That this is a good thing???

2007-09-21 09:18:50 · 2 answers · asked by T99D 3 in Singles & Dating

That has been about a year ago.I quit my job of (10) years, sold my house & left my friends to be w/ him.I know he appreciates that fact but sometimes I don't think he really understands what I have given up just to be w/ him.I've been getting depressed lately because I feel kinda of alone.You see, I am having a hard time making friends & have no life outside of our life together.The only "friends" I have are really just his friends.I thought I could make friends thru work but ended up working for a semi-retired CPA.It is only him & I in the office.Some days I don't see any one at all & the phone never rings.I eat lunch by myself everyday.I also go to school but the people I meet there are so much younger & are not interested in being friends outside of school.To make things worse, he just started a new job & is unable to e-mail or call me during the day like he used to.He has lots of friends & goes to lunch daily w/ different people, etc...I don't know what to do??? I'm depressed!!!

2007-09-21 09:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is the legal age to have sex 16?

2007-09-21 09:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by juicyx 1 in Singles & Dating

He is my fiance'. Do you think it's right? It makes me feel like I'm less of a woman.

2007-09-21 09:15:34 · 33 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When somebody, who has ugly teeth, tells you that your teeth are ugly. Or someone who is like 100 lbs overweight, and is all cracked out, tells you that you're nasty and that you look like you have an STD, How do you keep from feeling down?

I know I am pretty. && my teeth are as straight as a board, but when people say these things about me, although they have these imperfections that they are speaking of to me, why do I feel so down?

2007-09-21 09:15:01 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Friends

My boyfriend and I are not broke up we just dont live together after living together for 8 years. Now all of a sudden his ex wife is starting to show back up in the picture because she is having problems with her husband that she cheated on my boyfriend with. I can not stand this woman. HOw can I deal with this mess? My boyfriend tells me that he loves me but for some reason I think he is lying. He is not working right now and I am paying his rent. I am not going to let him be with another woman that easy. How can I get the truth out of him? WHy is he afraid to tell me the truth about his ex wife coming around.

2007-09-21 09:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boss and I are really close. so i can tell her anything, well almost anything. but it turns out that i met her son and we liked each other. we went out and we slept together, for some reason i doubt she'll approve of it. its not serious between me and him we just go out whenever we have some time, i DO have a bf though and she knows about it and he knows too. the thing about it is that I feel really guilty keeping it from her. i just want to tell her because she trusts me a lot and i dont want her to think bad of me if she finds out some other way. so my question is, should i tell her? or should i just keep this as a secret? thanks!

2007-09-21 09:12:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18, and I would move out, but there is no way i can afford college simultaneously, so i live with my parents and sister. They toss stuff in the garbage until it is overflowing without at least changing out the bag, leave dirty dishes out and open containers of food all over the house. In the laundry room they spill detergent everywhere and normally dump clothes on the floor instead of the hampers or doing a load. My mom refuses to smoke outside, so everything smells like smoke. I am cleaning all of the time because I am embarrassed and don't like people see this so they can judge us. Clutter is everywhere because they have bought every stupid product under the sun, and she just leaves it around. I spend at least 70% of my free time cleaning not just my room/bathroom, but the rest of the house. No one else will do it. :/ What can I do?

2007-09-21 09:11:02 · 10 answers · asked by b 3 in Family

i work in a family business and this is located near other places. few weeks back a shop near us caught fire (sad yeh) and i spoke to the owner (asked if she wanted help or anything in the future).. and i also met one of her assistants (the place was a beauty salon).. and made smal talk.. and since that day i didnt see her again, until today, across the road from me in a cafe, she was getting lunch, so i pretended i wanted some food (which i bought and didnt want) made small talk again, this girl now has a new premissis where she works now (same beauty salon, different place.

she is the sort of lady that makes me go "wow" and out of breath. i really really want to get know her more, but how? i know where she works, but just cant go into a womens beauty salon (for obvious reason : me being a guy). sad thing is i start uni again this week and i wont be at work alot, only one day (thats if i have time). so i was thinking to somehow talk to her tommorow, and the only way to do that is...

2007-09-21 09:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We aren't very good friends. I met him this year and hes a year older than me, and we are in one class together. We sometimes talk...
But what if people talk about us? Cause we would be kind of a random couple....

should i ask him?
and how?

2007-09-21 09:08:53 · 2 answers · asked by carsmithol 2 in Singles & Dating

Okayyy...here are the facts:
I'm in highschool, I met this guy that's a couple years older than me, about a year ago (he's in highschool too).
We've hung out in the same group a couple times. The first time we went skiing and he helped me out the whole day 8). He's very gentlemen-like (holds doors open, etc).
I'm not cocky in the least, but have told that I'm extremely attractice, and am hit on by guys all the time...Although, I am UBER conservative, and have never even held hands with a guy before. The guy I'm talking about I like ALOT...he's kind of quiet, and from what I hear doesn't have much luck with girls. We talk on-line occasionally (intiated by him alot of the time)...He commented a picture of mine on-line saying that I was "beautiful".

BUTTTT, when I see him at school (which is rarely) it's super hard to tell if he's interested...He's really quiet, and I have to do the initiating in person. If he liked me back, wouldn't he put forth more effort?

2007-09-21 09:07:59 · 2 answers · asked by roo 1 in Singles & Dating

BULLCRAP! he came back 3 yrs later and now its not working out!

2007-09-21 09:07:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wouldnt life be easier if everyone told the truth in realtionships. Why does everyone think they have to find a way to let them down gently? It take less time to tell the truth and for them to get over it, than to find a way to let some one down gently. I personaly have wasted probably months maybe a total of a year going after girls to find out that they dont feel the same. Then when they do tell me the reason i get mad is that i have wasted my time on nothing.

2007-09-21 09:06:11 · 1 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

hmmm... what are we talking about here....

2007-09-21 09:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by i_smith_2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just worried because I feel that my husband does not like having sex with me, I feel he prefers to play soccer or volley ball or whatever rather than having sex. For having sex he is always tired or he says is too late and he has to work the next day. We sometimes spend 2 or 3 months without sex at all. Is that normal for a couple that only has been married for about four years now? Thank you for your answers

2007-09-21 09:01:13 · 14 answers · asked by Genoveva M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

calls me names she beats me up when she cant have her way shes just tuff she almost broken my nose before im the oldest twin but she much bigger then me and taller then me.My mom wont do anything because shes a sissy.I cant tell my dad because he'll beat the crap out her and really hurt her bad i just want my twin sister to stop shes my twin and we were very close sister when we were little can someone halp me im afraid that she will really hurt me bad maybe even go so far as killing me i cant defend my self im way smaller than she is she beat me at every fight we get into so please someone help me!!!

2007-09-21 08:57:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

biology

2007-09-21 08:55:28 · 1 answers · asked by hardy t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships