Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

on, and when he thinks I am moving on, he comes around me asking questions, and going through my phone and going through my things when I'm not around, WHY? If he doesn't love me anymore why is he doing this, we have been separated for four months now.

2007-09-21 10:50:04 · 23 answers · asked by beba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is my engagement ring: http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2088539&fbc=0

My fiance really likes this wedding band:
http://secure.jamesavery.com/jewelry/search/product/WB-1A/Pattee-Cross-Wedding-Band/

I like the wedding band as well, but I don't think it will work with my engagement ring -- which I LOVE (and he picked it out all on his own!!!), and I want to be able to wear it all the time.

\Do you think the rings would go together?
I'm thinking of suggesting that I get a plain white gold wedding band and he get the ring he likes, but I don't want him to be disappointed that our rings don't match. Would that be OK?

2007-09-21 10:48:31 · 25 answers · asked by librarygirl 1 in Weddings

I like this guy ALOT. He always comes to my locker and flirts with me but I always freeze. What do I do?

2007-09-21 10:46:54 · 2 answers · asked by purplechic494 1 in Singles & Dating

He tells me this as we were watching a reality show and I'm a bit disturbed by this statement. Should I watch out for his behavior or is this a bluff?

2007-09-21 10:46:33 · 30 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

She just got a cell phone and I am jealous. She is a sophomore and just turned 16. I'm a frshman but just turned 14 so if I get a cell phone, it will be in my junior year. She gets everything first! I'm the middle so I get things second and my brother gets most attention. Not to mention that my sister ges to about 50 White Sox games in the summer because her rich friend bought her season tickets. And she gets straight A's and went to state as a freshman in track. I'm just jealous and want to get over it. How? She calls from her room to the downstairs and is with her phone 24/7. OK, she sleeps with it too! It's ridiculous! I have to wait 2 more years for everything!

2007-09-21 10:43:49 · 1 answers · asked by FSBB 1 in Family

2007-09-21 10:28:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Mine was the day I found out I didn't like cream.

This was AFTER putting a can of whipped cream to good use.
All the fun of putting it on, followed by me gagging.

2007-09-21 10:23:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the check comes to my mom and i dont even see it she puts it all in her house payment i havent even been stayin at home...she wont give it up..how can i get it.....and also she tells me if i quit school before im 18 she can call and cancel it...would going to ged classes to ok?

2007-09-21 10:21:46 · 15 answers · asked by Whitley.... 1 in Family

Ok, my husband is well, a tightwad, he isnt much for me spending money at all. So here's my question, do any other wives go shopping (I'm doing great now, I just go to Target and Walmart, not JC Penny, Elder Beermans, GAP, Old Navy) and then hide their purchases from their husband? I bought some earrings today for me to wear to work, and I have to hide them in my jewelry box like I've had them all along. Same thing with shoes, Got some crocks, and had to just toss em in the closet, and even socks, but he knows them bad-boys are new, they are nike socks.... I have to hide things I buy for our daughter (12mo) and he still gets on me if I buy things...like sandals...am I the only one who does this???

2007-09-21 10:20:18 · 26 answers · asked by marcie1997 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm disabled, legally blind and because of my limitations live with my mother and her husband. He has been sexually molesting me for the past year. I finally told my mom but to my surprise she's choosing to behave as though nothings wrong. Hubby still lives in the same house with me. I have no where to go. What should I do? I feel mom's betrayed me by continuing to treat hubby like a prince even after what he's done. I'm frightened, disappointed and depressed. I'm not old enough for senior services, my pastor is not educated in family counsel and SSD does not afford me enough to rent my self an apartment. I stay in my room when he's home, but the sound of his voice makes my skin crawl. I know that biblically I should forgive him, but I can't. I'm having trouble with my mom's apparent lack of loyalty to me.. her husband is "addicted to porno" and uses that as his excuse for creeping into my room at night. Opinions? Please only mature, thoughtful answers ... this is painful

2007-09-21 10:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by talkercatbiscuits 2 in Family

we have been together for 4 years,i love him so much and i have never looked at another guy 'that way' since i've been with him,but he gets jealous,he ignores me for hours afterwards.it got bad once he attacked a friend of mine just because he put his arm around my shoulder in a friendly way.

2007-09-21 10:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I have been married for 6 years. He constantly is telling me to change this and that about myself, yet I have been this way since the start. I finally got tired of it and told him to move the hell out if he didn't like who I am. Now we are seperated and he is making demands on me in order for us to get back on track, like sell all my animals...the ones that we have had for all 6 years and bought together! He never goes out and says that if I want to go out with the girls then he will leave and I can be single. Yet the 24/7 in the house with no friends and no getting out except to go shopping is killing me. I love him allot! But I cant handle him telling me that if I want him back then I need to change. Any advice?

2007-09-21 10:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by misshel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm considering asking my boyfriend to shave his "hair" would you do it for your girl?

2007-09-21 10:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a drunk, a abuser emotionaly to me as well as occasionally physically, a liar, cheater, but when he says hes sorry i always forgive him. I wonder why i love him if its because thats have ive always felt for this long? Ive left him yet again but how do i move on? How do you make the love go away in your heart and how do you begin to pick up and start new without the person youve been together with since high school?

2007-09-21 10:09:29 · 17 answers · asked by charmed? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know people say it’s good to be in love with someone but is it good to love someone in pain. I’ve loved this girl my entire life and the thing is she doesn’t know, I haven’t told her because I’m afraid of the outcome, I know this is normal but the thing is we’ve been friends for the past 10 years and I think me telling her this now would complicate things besides she’s seeing someone. The first time I noticed I loved her was 6 years ago, it kind of just hit me all at once I didn’t know what was happening at first. It took me a year to finally accept that I love because I know it myself she wouldn’t love me back, but why don’t I just try. I kept looking for her everywhere, asking people about her, seeing if I can get in touch with her and then one day a friend of mine who goes to the same school as her saw me. I told him what I feel about her and since he’s a close friend he decided to lend hand.

2007-09-21 10:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by The EsO 1 in Friends

just asking

2007-09-21 10:01:23 · 12 answers · asked by Harsh 6 in Singles & Dating

see i got a phone call in the middle of night from ex she was so drunk and to top it off she has 3 kids at home with her alone
was it wrong

2007-09-21 10:01:04 · 15 answers · asked by jack 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for two years now and things are great we use to fuss along time ago by me being scared to do anything. He use to watch porno's and do all that stuff I hated. Now he has me wanting it and he won't touch me. He is always too tired, doesn't feel like it or not in the mood. He use to want it every day now he can go weeks w/o wanting it and turing it down. He barely even lets me touch him b/c he doesn't want me starting ne thing. He has taken a big and sudden change. He claims he wants no one but me but why is he no longer attrative to me, it bothers me to think im not good enough for him especially since before we do nething like that together he has to have something else. It makes me made b/c i hear how people say he was all over his exes doing this to them that and the other. When he has done something for me 3 x's in 2 years then all of sudden won't have ne thing to do with me. He'd rather watch tv then look at me. Why is this please, HELP!!!??????

2007-09-21 09:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by trixieland 1 in Singles & Dating

abuse

2007-09-21 09:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by §êx¥måmå 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because my work wont let me have christmas off, so i have had to put my wedding forward a month, and going on honeymoon before the wedding.
i dont think that is right.

2007-09-21 09:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well theres this boy in my Personal Fitness class.
He's kinda cute, smart (and doesn't get weirded out when I start debating about things like religion but joins in!), has the same interests, and has the same wacky sense of humor that I have.
We've become friends because I noticed he had nobody to talk to in that class so made a point to get to know him.
We're freshmen. Just started high school. We're comfortable around each other and it's all good but theres on problem:
In personal fitness, we have to wear gym clothes, yeah well hard to look pretty and feminine in boy clothes and a ponytail. Yeah I know that there is cute workout clothes, but I don't feel comfortable in them.
Every thursday, we have classroom day and on those days, I make sure to dress extra-feminine and cute so that he sees that side of me too,
but thats still four days of I'm looking gross because I'm hot, sweaty and tired.
What do I do?
I don't see him at any other time during the day,

2007-09-21 09:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Singles & Dating

I hate, hate, hate ,hate, hate, hate, math I think u get the point. I have never ever been good in it. I have an A in english3, I have a B in history. I have a b in Earth class. My dad just does not undestand how I can not get math.He is great at it and am not. Do think my other grades are good its my 2 time taking that math class Ihave to get it signed and the teacher wants to talk to them so am ******. I'm 16 in 11th

2007-09-21 09:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i REALLY REALLY like this guy, and im about 80% sure he likes me back. ok so today in social studies, we had to write down a paragraph and i finished and so did my crush, but he finished before me and was just staring at me. when i finished, i looked up and caught him staring at me and he blushed and smiled but was still looking at me. i looked away and about 10 seconds later looked again and he was still looking at me and i looked too for about 3 seconds and he blushed and this happened a 3rd time too. does he like me? he does alot of things that shows he likes me too.

2007-09-21 09:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by Megg 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and me have been friends since we were kids. Then just a few weeks ago she starts dating this guy. This guy hates me, but doesn't show it around her? Am I wrong for telling her that she should dump him.

BTW: He hates black people and I'm half and half. My best friend is white and the boy is white.

2007-09-21 09:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do people feel about a woman having a child with a man who only had sex a couple of times and barely new each other? Yes, I understand that they probably did not take adequate contraception measures. I feel if a woman chooses to have a child after knowing that the man did not want a child, then it is her choice to keep the child and raise it herself without child support from the man or give the child up for adoption since she did not want a child or believe in abortion. What do you thinkl?

2007-09-21 09:47:58 · 32 answers · asked by LoraC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years, we love each other and stuff but right now ive had to move for educational reasons to another city ( 7 hour drive) we been having trouble dealing wit the long distance. Im ok with things but he not. He doesnt like the fact that im out n meeting new ppl and stuff. I talk to him alot ( couple of hours a day) but i chill wit people as well. But anyways so he just told me that he doesnt want me to wear these jeans i have cuz they are too tight and that i can only wear thm when im out with him. The pants r tight but not hoe-ish tight. They jus make my ass look good and he thinks that guys r gonna look n stuff n he doesnt like it . I dun think its right for him to tell me what to wear but at the same time im trying to be fair . i dont dress skanky at all i jus wear fitted clothing and the fact that my body is curvy sorta makes guys look. I always dressed like that tho...

2007-09-21 09:44:08 · 12 answers · asked by moooona1987 2 in Singles & Dating

okay. i REALLY, REALLY like this boy. He's smart. funny. nice. and HOTT!!!!! but like, i dont know if he likes me... boys r so confusing! boys, what do u like in girls... im not gonna change 4 any1 but i wanna know!!!!xoxo!!!! be specifuc thanks

2007-09-21 09:42:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a new girl that works with my bf. I am so jealous of her and I don't even understand why. She doesn't look anything like his type. And I've even been feeling extra good about myself lately, so I don't know why I'm jealous of her. I just keep looking for any reason I can to be jealous. Like, if anyone else did/said the same things she does/says to my bf, I wouldn't even think twice. How do I stop being so jealous of her?

2007-09-21 09:39:29 · 14 answers · asked by phlemo 1 in Singles & Dating

Especially Jessica Alba?

2007-09-21 09:37:34 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 09:37:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce