Well theres this boy in my Personal Fitness class.
He's kinda cute, smart (and doesn't get weirded out when I start debating about things like religion but joins in!), has the same interests, and has the same wacky sense of humor that I have.
We've become friends because I noticed he had nobody to talk to in that class so made a point to get to know him.
We're freshmen. Just started high school. We're comfortable around each other and it's all good but theres on problem:
In personal fitness, we have to wear gym clothes, yeah well hard to look pretty and feminine in boy clothes and a ponytail. Yeah I know that there is cute workout clothes, but I don't feel comfortable in them.
Every thursday, we have classroom day and on those days, I make sure to dress extra-feminine and cute so that he sees that side of me too,
but thats still four days of I'm looking gross because I'm hot, sweaty and tired.
What do I do?
I don't see him at any other time during the day,
2007-09-21 09:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice: keep up the good work. You have his attention and have begun a genuine connection without having to resort to the types of superficial things other people resort to everyday. (Think about it: you said you're hot, sweaty and dressed in boy clothes yet you still manage to have him joining you in riveting and stimulating conversation, and sharing jokes.) Not bad; not bad at all.
2007-09-21 10:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE looks hot and sweaty in gym. Especially if he's as cool as he sounds, he's gonna like you for your mind and who you are. Plus the fact that you aren't too afraid to get hot and sweaty. Have fun doing whatever you do in gym, and keep being yourself. That is the key! And don't look extra cutesy, cause generally a guy won't notice how "cute" you look. Guys don't notice things like cuteness. Or he'll notice that you look different when he may just like you the way look when you are being yourself. So BE YOURSELF.
and good luck.
2007-09-21 16:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Maybur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really want someone to be interested in you because you look like a model all the time do you? I hope not, because real people don't expect to see it, or be like that either ... it's just not the real world. He sees you both ways, and that's good. You don't look gross at those times, you just look normal. I doubt he looks like he's ready to go out on a date during Personal Fitness class either!
Don't sweat it, or maybe I should say, "Don't worry about sweating it"!
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2007-09-21 11:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by J T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello again Cami,,,Dam Girl you ask a lot of questions!!!!! Hey just kidding,,,Now has it ever occurred to you that maybe boys like hot and sweaty girls too....or did you know that most women in girl clothes don't like themselves because we are brought up to think that we have to look as perfect as those women in the mags....so go ahead and try it you may start off by feeling crappy but I am sure that you will do just fine...and don't worry about you trying to make him notice that your fem because we notice it weather your in boys cloths or girls or even MUD....Now do you get the picture sweaty...so go ahead and enjoy yourself alittle have fun don't worry what everybody thinks you are the only one that has to live your life,,,ENJOY and please practice safe sex too...By for now...Bob...
2007-09-21 11:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYBODY looks hot and sweaty in gym. Even him. He sees what you look like when dressed nicely too. Ask him if he wants to get a coffee or a bite to eat after school sometime.
2007-09-21 09:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
um...i would suggest to take a shower b4 you come so that even when u do get sweaty your hair wont look greasy..wear alottt of deoderant, weaar whatever u feel comftorable in..that shouldnt really matter...if it really bothers u then just dont work as hard, lol, but think about it this way: doesnt he look all sweaty and gross too? and u dont care now do u? i hope i helped, good luck :)
2007-09-22 04:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-02 12:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. If he likes you its because of you..not how your dressed. To me there wasnt anything hotter than watching a girl work up a sweat in gym class.
2007-09-21 09:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bark at the Moon 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Most guys love to know that his beauty queen stays beautiful regardless of what she's wearing...stay confident when you're dressed like that...and that should make him want you! gluck! (and gluck to me too).
2007-09-22 04:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.
2007-09-22 05:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by ¸.•*´`*♥ ♥Misty Owl♥ ♥*´`*•.¸ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋