Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

i am sooo mad!!! its all for not putting my dishes in the dishwasher, or cleaning up like 5 toys after my BROTHER, and not cleaning my bathroom when i had no time! they are making me write an apology letter. and i dont think i am gonna do it. even though they are telling me if i dont i cant go to a party. but i think this is soooo gay!!!

what do you guys think about this?!??!?!

2007-09-21 12:03:28 · 60 answers · asked by sup yo 5 in Family

Look. THeres this guy, i liked him for all of last school year. AND just last week we stared going out. But things are sooo akward, it's not even funny. All my friends say i made a bad choice, and all his friends say we're perfect for each other. I still like him, but not as much as i did. And i'm so worried about makinga mistake and messign everythign up, i just can't be relaxed. I've had bf's before, but never one that's afriad to take my hand or anything. I don't want to hurt him, cause i'm his first girlfriend and he's liked me for a while. Even his parents like me. SO what do i do? GIve it more time, hope things work out... Or do i dump him and find another guy? PLease help me!!!!!!

2007-09-21 12:03:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like that term, how do other people feel.

2007-09-21 12:01:59 · 54 answers · asked by happy wife and mum 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My father's youngest sister at 54 y.o. becomes abrasive when she disagrees w/ ppl & she prefers to control situations instead of compromise w/ rest of family. It's getting hard for me to ignore her behavior.

2007-09-21 11:57:15 · 5 answers · asked by BklynNative 3 in Family

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2007-09-21 11:55:29 · 1 answers · asked by monapepper 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-21 11:51:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, heres the situation...

*i like a boy

*my friend likes the same boy

*the boy flirts with my friend and i every day

*but i think the boy likes my friend more

*what should i do?

2007-09-21 11:49:33 · 15 answers · asked by luv bites (so do i) 3 in Friends

ok, my cousing and her guy are 19 and 21, and i and my newly wedd are 22 and 25. everytime my cuz and her guy come over she gets a kick out of us being totally into these shows:
The grim adventures of Billy and Mandy
Fosters House of Imaginary Freinds
thats not the only thing that we watch we do like other shows but we really like these 2 cartoons because they are gut bursting. is it wrong for a 22 year old to watch a cartoon? why? is it a turn off? would you concider that person wierd, nerdy cool? just curious thanks.

2007-09-21 11:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by r0cker1ta 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my ex which happened to be my very close guy friend too. He doesn't have any gf but I do have a boyfriend now. I can't let him go {my ex} his caring, sweet, God fearing, and have a massive talent. I want to conversed with him again, but I know its not fair to my bf. My bf now is totally opposite of him. please answer.

2007-09-21 11:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They haven't been together for 7 years (the daughter is 8). She is majorly rude to my boyfriend and has control of everything since she has full custody. When my boyfriend gets visitation, she tells him what time to have the daughter home by, we bought clothes for the daughter, and have never seen them since. What do I do? I have been avoiding her until now, and just wondering when I do have to interact with her, what do I do? I have no respect for this woman and want nothing to do with her at all. Can I just have a relationship with the daughter without the mother being involved in my life?

2007-09-21 11:46:53 · 7 answers · asked by katie 3 in Family

She never wins when we play tennis together, and I am afraid if I don't let her win now and then she will lose interest and stop playing.

2007-09-21 11:45:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you are completely comfortable talking about the how to's and nitty gritty regarding sex with your significant other? Are they comfortable talking about it with you?

LOL.. I'm an EXTREMELY HONEST person when it comes to sex.... what about you?

Oh, and Happy Friday!!!

2007-09-21 11:45:17 · 30 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When we spit, he gave me the key back to my house. All his stuff, his kids stuff, and his pets (cat, lizzard) are still here it has been a month. He has showed up twice and only taken things he needed. When I ask when he is moving out, he says when he saves first and last. I'm tired of his stuff being here what should I do. He does owe me money, can I sell his stuff to recoup my losses, and can he demand that I give him his stuff back at any time?

2007-09-21 11:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does your husband cook dinner, clean the house, buy you roses, and cards, sometimes candy ... perfume .. and other things just because.

2007-09-21 11:38:20 · 22 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandma made the cookbook and I'm going to write some of my favorite recipes out for her, thanky ou in advance!

2007-09-21 11:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by mommy2two 2 in Weddings

whether it is to tell people that they like them? or if they don't like them? why is it so difficult? insecurites?
i was just wondering, i am a confident, self-assured woman, and i could care less if i end up looking like a fool. at least i know where i stand and don't have to look stupid because i said or didn't say something.
am i the only one who feels like this?

2007-09-21 11:37:51 · 10 answers · asked by loriloriloriloriv 5 in Singles & Dating

I really like this boy at my school who is in grade 12. I am in grade 10. I want to get to know him better, but is it weird that I am a bit younger?

ALSO, I'm kind of friends with his sister, who is my age.

Is there anything wrong with this situation?? Am I wasting my time thinking about him??

2007-09-21 11:37:30 · 2 answers · asked by iloveyou.itseasy 1 in Singles & Dating

This boy that I like (see previous questions) and I decided to hang out sometime next week. He has been saying that he's looking forward to it for quite some time. He was supposed to come visit me before I left yesterday but wasn't able to make it (he sent me a message explaining how he has relatives visiting from overseas). I asked him if next week was still good for us to hang out, but he hasn't responded and it's been 2 days.
Should I just drop the whole thing and wait for HIM to contact me? Or should I wait a few days (like Monday-ish) and try to ask him again..??
We were looking to go out on Wednesday night...

Any suggestions on what I should do...
And is there a possibility he isn't interested anymore?!

2007-09-21 11:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Realistic 2 in Singles & Dating

I know all the reasons WHY you should leave your husband. Having made up your mind that you need to do so... HOW do you DO it? I've been married 25 years. Yes, I have a job. Our kids are older 13, 16 and 24. I don't know what our assets are. I don't know anything except how much money we have in the checking account. How do you prepare to end it? Do I just pack up and leave and go to a motel? Not my style. Any thoughts?

2007-09-21 11:30:33 · 12 answers · asked by ohyeah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, what things do you and your spouse do to make it that way?

2007-09-21 11:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He cheated last year and i took him back. Almost a year on our relationship and he wanted a break, he said to focus on football, but i knew it was to date someone else becuz he was talking about how we dont talk as much anymore. Then he didnt even act like he cared anymore. So i broke up with him. It hurts but i was the only one being hurt in the relationship. And ive been wondering if ill find someone else.

2007-09-21 11:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that he loves me and will not cheat but I need the attention from him that he used to give me. Like when I was cooking he would come in and kiss my neck. There is no foreplay any more. I try to get him into the mood but NO such luck. We still have sex but it is always what he wants when he wants it. I am desperate here. This is starting to cause me to have more frequent depression attacks and they are getting worse....... PLEASE????????

2007-09-21 11:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jenniffer R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 18 years old and i am not a model. my boyfriend says im beautiful and he wouldn't trade me for any girl in the world. but i wonder do guys really want real women or do they always truly desire the model look alikes????????

2007-09-21 11:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda G 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I going to grow up to be a failure?

I don't think I have a strong future.

Brief profile: I'm a sophomore in Houston, TX. I'm one of those nice guys you see around HS, ask a lot of Q's, kinda smart, might do something stupid/weird once in a while, and I'm just one of those laid-pack people.

I don't participate in any clubs/teams. I grew up without knowledge of any field of interests, so as a result, other people are doing something fun after school, while I'm not.

Colleges do look to see if you do participate a lot, to see if you're 'well-rounded' right?

I'm kinda smart. Usually lot of A's and some B's. I do feel dumber than other though, in my upper level classes.

I don't know what college I want, or what kind I want.

I have no developed talents or skills right now.

I don't have any close friends, because I have no special interests in common with others.

I feel like I'm a failure at this point. Am I?

2007-09-21 11:18:43 · 4 answers · asked by quikboy 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

when guys says idk when you ask them if they would ever go out with you what does this mean ?

2007-09-21 11:15:38 · 3 answers · asked by valeri ann 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this girl in school named Ale so wrote her this letter that she loved but now shes ignoring me ............it makes me sad.

2007-09-21 11:12:39 · 33 answers · asked by Johnny3682 2 in Singles & Dating

After work, my husband goes to this girl's apartment. Apparently, she cooks for him, bangs him, etcetc. By the time he goes home, he's exhausted. Why is he doing this? I cook for him, too. And take care of the house, our kids, etc. Why does he feel the need to cheat? Obviously he doesn't love me anymore. But I don't think he loves that girl. Does he? He even got a separate cell phone, just so he can call her "safely."

When I confronted him, he said he was sorry, and that I was his "true love." But he never broke it off with her. Does he love her? Or is it just a physical thing? How can I make him just love me and only me?

2007-09-21 11:07:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to ask her to do something but i can't take her out to eat cuz she's fasting for ramadan and i don't think she drinks so party wouldn't be a good idea either

2007-09-21 10:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I realise that online dating still has a lot of stigma attached - that's its for freaks, desperate people, it's unsafe, etc. But I have had a positive experience dating online (I met my current boyfriend through RSVP.com.au) . We've been together almost a year. I found online dating to be a lot easier than normal - you can search for exactly the kind of person you want. It's simpler and faster than hoping against hope that your soul mate happens to be in the bar you are at on any given night. Of course, there is always being safe - my man and I chatted for a couple of months before we met, and had our dates in public places, told other people where we were going etc. RSVP actually gives you safety guidelines for meeting people in the real world - so it was nice to have some tips. Turned out my man was just like I though he was from his profile ... we're very happy together. Does anyone else have some positive or negative online dating experiences they want to share?

2007-09-21 10:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am here visiting my sister on vacation from New Mexico, and I am thinking about going back to my home in New Mexico because, it seems like I can not find a job, no matter how much I tried!

I am homesick, and I miss my family there very much! It is very difficult looking for work when, I lack the "Work Experience." I want to work but, employers want someone who has at least 2 years expe
I feel that my surroundings are very unfamiliar, and I feel lost and scared! My sister has helped me tremendously and I apprecia

I used to live in Bell Gardens, California all my life but, everything and everything has changed.

Sometimes, I feel so alone in this world without my father to guide me. My father died in October 1993, and I miss him very much!

He was the only person that I went to when, I needed some advice on everything. I did not realize how much he took upon his shoulders (family, personal problems, finances, etc.)

What would you do in my situation?

2007-09-21 10:50:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family