This boy that I like (see previous questions) and I decided to hang out sometime next week. He has been saying that he's looking forward to it for quite some time. He was supposed to come visit me before I left yesterday but wasn't able to make it (he sent me a message explaining how he has relatives visiting from overseas). I asked him if next week was still good for us to hang out, but he hasn't responded and it's been 2 days.
Should I just drop the whole thing and wait for HIM to contact me? Or should I wait a few days (like Monday-ish) and try to ask him again..??
We were looking to go out on Wednesday night...
Any suggestions on what I should do...
And is there a possibility he isn't interested anymore?!
2007-09-21 11:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Realistic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must admit I have not seen your previous questions; however I do not believe they will have altered my response much. This guy has been making (and breaking) dates you made with him ;each time he makes a new one.The fact that he has not responded this time indicates that he may be trying to send you a message( that quite frankly I feel he has been sending you for awhile) in a more direct fashion.While I appreciate your interest in him ,you can not force anyone to like you back;and no matter how accommodating or anxious you are . In fact, it may be counter productive. My suggestion is to forget him, find a guy who wants you and you only, and is willing to demonstrate that fact.Besides, it is clear this guy is not interested in you;plus he is not the only guy in the world.Respect and love yourself more than it appears you have done so far.
2007-09-21 12:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. He said that he is visiting people right now so, trust him and just let the dice fall where they may. Theres nothing you can do. I mean if you keep messaging him, you're showing him how truly desperate you are right now. Just wait, what if he comes back and his inbox is exploding??? how em brassing right?
2007-09-21 18:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Caboose the vechile destroyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he hasnt read your message or he didnt get it.
Send him another message,but try not to sound desperate.
Just ask if he wants to pospone the date or if he'll make it.
Ask him if something is bothering him or if he made other plans,but dont ask about any other girl.
2007-09-21 18:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Silvita[= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court. You have made the effort and now it is time for you to sit back and let him make the next move.
2007-09-21 18:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Joni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. to me it sounds like he just wants to play games. just don't talk to him at all until he contacts you then he will know you are upset about it and ask you again. but don't go to him. wait for him to come to you.
2007-09-21 22:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥.blondy4eva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋