I know that he loves me and will not cheat but I need the attention from him that he used to give me. Like when I was cooking he would come in and kiss my neck. There is no foreplay any more. I try to get him into the mood but NO such luck. We still have sex but it is always what he wants when he wants it. I am desperate here. This is starting to cause me to have more frequent depression attacks and they are getting worse....... PLEASE????????
2007-09-21 11:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jenniffer R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start surprising him, with little things. Like and candle light dinner that you made (or ordered in). In the bedroom when he wants sex his way be prepared and handcuff him and tell him its your way. That should give him something to focus on you with.
2007-09-21 11:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by lucidwillow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a friend that was in the same situation. Try to change things up a little. If there is something that drives him crazy do it. Go out and buy a sexy legura outfit. Stop somewhere and put it on. If you have a long coat. Wear just that coat home. Sounds like you just need to change this. Don't let this get you depressed. It seriously is not worth it. If that doesn't help, go to counceling. Good luck
2007-09-21 18:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say depression attacks are the wrong way to go.
"Honey, you need to be more affectionate the way I like it or I will get depressed..."
Yup, guilt is a great place to build love on.
2007-09-21 19:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get dressed up for no reason. Buy sexy underwear, believe me this totally works. Surprise him. He's probably just getting bored it happens to the best of us. Learn a new move it sounds perveted but he'll love it.
2007-09-21 18:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by The truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should either talk to him tell how you feel let him know what you want or... you Can just write a letter to him(to make sure you cover everything with no interruptions) explain how you feel and what you want.
2007-09-21 18:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by 10tolife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
express your feelings, explain you need attention from him and make a wish for the future! http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/ ; it's free, it's a good way to tell him how you feel and to touch him...
2007-09-21 18:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by alicia d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he comes home, meet him at the door naked with spikes on.
2007-09-21 21:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, or write him a note.
2007-09-21 18:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋