ok, heres the situation...
*i like a boy
*my friend likes the same boy
*the boy flirts with my friend and i every day
*but i think the boy likes my friend more
*what should i do?
2007-09-21 11:49:33 · 15 answers · asked by luv bites (so do i) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok first .....the code of friendship between girls you always let your friend have the guy and if he likes you better let him tell her, never let a guy come over your friendship.
2007-09-21 12:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out with your friend. the worst thing that could happen is that this boy could come between you two. here are some suggestions.
1. I think you should just drop the boy, if he's going to come between you and your friends, he's not worth it. you may be thinking "but i really like him." or "he's the one." but do you actually know him, like not just what sports he plays, can you express your true feelings infront of him? Also, there are so many more fish in the sea, in a week at least you'll get over him, friends are forever. If my best friends crush asked me out, i would say no, its just cruel. work it out with your friend.
2007-09-21 18:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if this guy is flirting with both of you. FLirt back, try to find out who he likes more. Get him to choose. If he chooses your friend, then he can't see what he's missign in you. But don't get in a fight about it. Trust me, i just got out of a two year guy slump, now i'm dating the guy i liked the entire time. Find someone else if he doesn't like you. Or you could wait for him (but i don't suggest it). IN basic. Have fun. If he's into you, good. IF he's not, he's probably missign out on something great. But don't wait- find someone, weather it's his best friend or a total stranger. AS long as you and your friend are happy, who cares who he likes.
2007-09-21 19:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your clarity.
Have a talk with your friend about him. Find out what her motives are. Find out how much she likes him, and discuss how you'll feel if he ends up liking one of your more. You may find out that she just thinks he's cute and fun to flirt with, and nothing more (or you may really only like him that much, if you start to think about it).
If it is determined that you like him more than she does, the only way to get things to progress is to get some alone time with him AWAY from her.
2007-09-21 18:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with that boy as much as you can. sit by him whenever you can. start conversations with him. compliment him. he will totally be liking you. but if he asks out your friend and your friend said yes just saying, shes not a very good friend anyway.
2007-09-21 18:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by ωнαт ιƒ...? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell this boy that u love him and tell him that your friend like him too, and wait for his answer if he say he don't no which one u he likes than he whant to love u both and that is not a good thing.
2007-09-21 19:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by T.K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorta in the same situation i like this boy but my friend dont but he likes my friend, have you tried talking to ur friend about it see wot she says?!
2007-09-21 18:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by laura k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk w/ ur friend about it! if it works out for u, great! if it works out for ur friend, dont let it ruin ur friendship! that would be horrible! if it doesnt work out for either of u, ull move on. theres plent of fish in the sea. real em in!! lol! good luck!
2007-09-21 19:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably prettending to like him so u get jealous :P that happened to me bfor. and he's probly just trying to get attention by flirting with u 2 . thats my opinion
2007-09-21 18:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by cecile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see how he feels about you and have your friend ask him also how he feels about her. Than go from there.
2007-09-21 18:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by kelly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋