I broke up with my ex which happened to be my very close guy friend too. He doesn't have any gf but I do have a boyfriend now. I can't let him go {my ex} his caring, sweet, God fearing, and have a massive talent. I want to conversed with him again, but I know its not fair to my bf. My bf now is totally opposite of him. please answer.
2007-09-21 11:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out w/ the one u like most
but u could just be having regrets about breaking up w/ ur ex
i recently broke up w/ my bf who was also one of my close guy friends
at first, i totally regretted it and we got back together, but a week later i broke up w/ him again cuz i realized i was wrong in getting back together w/ him
so wait it out a bit, then if u still like him, rethink ur current boyfriend and decide which one u like more
2007-09-21 11:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy in the relationship I would just let him go. All girls want a sweet guy and if he isn't then why stay with him. Just try and talk to your bf and try to get him to understand that you and your ex are really close friends still. If he loves you he will support your decision. To still talk to your ex.
2007-09-21 18:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by kelly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him in the first place? He's sweet, talented, etc.. And if your new bf is totally opposite, it seems to me that you don't love him. I'd say go for your ex.
2007-09-21 18:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by mrmojo27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. I mean you are using it in the first place. If you still care about your ex than it is your choice in the matter. If your bf doesn't want you to, than tell him its his loss. You have a right to befriend anyone you chose. Ask and see if your bf is still in contact with any of his exs. Than see if he is just being jealous.
2007-09-21 18:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have exspirents with boyfriends. But, I'll try to help you. get a dinner, really and invite your boyfriend. Just, ask your boyfriend " If you could have a friend come over and eat with you and him?" Then maybe your ex could be that friend. If your boy friend turns into the answer "No." Then you know what to do. Sorry for spelling that word after have.
2007-09-21 19:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to be friends again so do it. Go up to him say Hi and start from there. Keep it as only friends do not disrespect your boyfriend, you could even talk to him and ask him what his opinion is on you becoming friends with your ex. You may be surprised that he is ok with it if you keep it in the open. Good Luck
2007-09-21 18:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by danee1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't let him go than go get him, after you get rid of the new one. If you have a man that is god fearing, and treats you good, then maybe he's the one. If he is so good why did you get rid of him? Was he to good, and you wanted a bad boy to liven up your life? Sometimes boring now is what you will be happy for when you get older, and you want that safe life.
2007-09-21 18:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, r u still thinking abt it?u should dump ur current boyfriend no matter what. but give him some respect and wait for a while to get back with ur ex, or dont let him find out... it will be too hush for his ego to feel u left cz of another guy
2007-09-21 18:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by fallinginlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like ur ex don't waste ur current bf's time and y did u break up w/ ur ex n the 1st place if hes so great u should get back with him
2007-09-21 18:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by ~09Rockz~luv u ppl<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay yeah the same situation happened with me.
Tell your bf that if he cares so much about who you talk to, maybe you guys shouldn't be dating.
Then wait for him to come to the sudden realization that you are not to be taken by only him.
2007-09-21 18:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by xiaozelda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋