ok i like this girl in school named Ale so wrote her this letter that she loved but now shes ignoring me ............it makes me sad.
2007-09-21 11:12:39 · 33 answers · asked by Johnny3682 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your such a sweetie! Honey, she's ignoring you cuz she's shy. She doesnt know what to say to you, after recieving that letter. Approach her, and start the conversation, girls love it when guys do that. Anyway i dont think she's totally comfortable with you right now, so don't try to sweet talk her, just be yourself! I know im a girl.
best answer please!
signed girl
2007-09-21 11:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by natalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out that she liked the letter; did she tell you directly or use someone else.If she used a surrogate, then you may not have all the facts or information since ignoring you over a letter she liked makes no sense at all. If on the other hand she told you herself, then you can walk right up to her and ask what is responsible for her change in attitude. It could turn out to be a simple case of misunderstanding.Either way , the whole issue could be resolved with a face-to -face con versation. So put on your happy face.
2007-09-21 11:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not know how to respond to you now. You poured your heart out to her in a letter, you say she claimed to have loved it so it must have been very honest, and now she is in a spot, how does she respond? Maybe she is unable to express herself as well as you do, you didnt say how old you are, maybe you both are too young to consider a serious relationship. She might also feel like you are pressuring her to respond in kind to your letter and unfortunately she may not feel the same way towards you. She could love the letter, but unfortunately not love the letter writer. I know it hurts, and you arent sure just what to do, well you sound honest, send her another letter, just this time let her know she is under no pressure to "do" anything, unless that was the intention you had with the first letter. If you wrote it hoping to make her feel obligated to respond to your letter with the same feelings, maybe you should write poetry or keep a journal. You are brave for putting your feelings out there, keep being honest, but lower your expected responses. It will get better, I promise.
2007-09-21 11:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mary D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what could have happened is you came on too strong. She may have told you she loved the letter, but, at the same time it could have freaked her out. Try talking to her and just be straight-forward as that is all you can be. Tell her that you would like to talk to her one on one. If she has the same feelings for you she will want to talk about this. If she does not feel the same way she may still not agree to do so. You can base her interest on they way she responds to you when you ask her to talk. Even though you like her..if her response is giving you the brush off put your energy on someone who deserves a good guy like you!
2007-09-21 11:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by ||Methadon|| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She Likes You But She Feels Like Shes Going TO Make A Fool Out Of Herself. She Still Wants To Blow Your Mind But For some reasonw hen your near she freezes... I Do The SAMMME Thing When I Like A Guy And I Find Out That He Likes Me BAck...
For Some Reason I Jsut Blow It And Cant Say A Damned Thing... S0o The I Just Start Kind Of Ignoring Him... BEcause Idont Want To Make A Silent Fool Out Of Myself...
But Trust... She Likes You Back.
2007-09-21 11:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why girls do this. Maybe one of her friends made some crappy comment about the letter and now she's afraid to talk to you because of her friends. So if I was you, I'd smile and say hi every time I saw her and see if she doesn't respond to that, if she does great! But if she doesn't respond to even a simple hello then use my motto.........NEXT!!!! Protect your feelings for now until you find out where she's at.
2007-09-21 11:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my best advice is togo and talk to the girl and confront her. She may just be waiting for you to make the first move because she likes you and is too shy or nervous to talk to you. SHe could also not like you and the letter just creeped her out after she liked it. Girls are really confusing ( I am a girl) and we just want guys to like us for us and to be honest. So when tal;king to her don't lie. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!1
2007-09-21 11:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Pink Diamonds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry what a confusing situation. well being a girl the only reason i would ignore you is may she may like you and is embarrassed to tell you to. she could also not be allowed to date yet and thinks the more she hangs out with you the more she'll want to go out. well whatever it is you should show her your mature and talk to her face to face about whats going on. trust I'm a girl.
2007-09-21 12:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by volleyball_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may make u sad 4 a little bit but sweets get over this one she really isn't in to u go fishing some more u will find a special one
2007-09-21 11:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by lou lou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she just doesn't know what to do now. She might be really shy and don;t know how to act around you. If you really like her, ask her out. She might just be waiting for you too or she might think you gave up on her or a friend of her's might have spread some rumor. Confront her! face to face!
2007-09-21 11:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋