Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

someone at work really annoyed me,if i dont talk to her other people get involved and tell me to sort it out,at your work can you say what you really think?at my place of work i feel like im getting stepped all over,no one tells me any thing

2007-09-21 08:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are the best things about being a teenager, and what are the worst?

2007-09-21 08:49:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i most people think i have problems but i dont so y are people making funn of me well let me know how to tell ur mom u had ur period

2007-09-21 08:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by aire.. 1 in Friends

When you have sex with your spouse does the Quality of the sex mean more or does quantity excite your drive

2007-09-21 08:46:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she keeps taking my pawns off the board when im not looking at the chessboard

why is my wife cheating on me

2007-09-21 08:45:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but he likes me and every day he walks me to my bus and stuff and asks for a hug and when i'm like "uhhhh" he hugs me anyway every day and now people are starting to think we're going out and i reallly don't want that. how can i get him to back off without being mean?

2007-09-21 08:42:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would certainly not appreciate any responses of "move on" or anything of that sort. My ex treated me like crap when we were together. Now that he's in a new relationship he said that he's learned from a lot of his mistakes with me since I talked about it a lot after we broke up and has matured a lot, treating her better. Did he just not care when we were together? Or was relationship stuff quite new to him? He's in his early 20's by the way....

2007-09-21 08:40:55 · 18 answers · asked by g 3 in Singles & Dating

i live with the family i work for they dont care about the children they have 2.if the wife go out with the friends the hubby too want to go out with his.when they are at home they dont help the kids with the home work.the father he dont even say when his going.when i talk to them he says im making bid deal out of nothing.monday home work not done till fridy the child was punished.they are making me agry.they dont even now and care if the kids they eat or not.and bellieve me is not my job im not payid to cook or do their home work.what can i do

2007-09-21 08:40:35 · 8 answers · asked by unnown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i call his's cell he answers but i can hear a another woman with him. somtimes a woman answers but hangs up on me. what should i do?

2007-09-21 08:38:35 · 43 answers · asked by Kelsey J 1 in Singles & Dating

why is a guy's motive for being distant to his wife of one year? If you no longer wanted to be married why not just say so?

2007-09-21 08:38:31 · 10 answers · asked by pchristine84 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 08:37:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my ex and dated for about 1 year and 8 months. He broke up with me, and we were broken up for 2 months but we still went out in those 2 months. So then I took him back and I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I already had a date this week. Im I getting over my ex way too soon?

2007-09-21 08:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by dlg1028 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is driving me little crazy, I try to get close to my husband but he is cold, he will help me, and provide but when it comes to the feelings part he is not there, if I speak he says that I talk to much, If I want to hugh him, he is busy, If I ask him if he loves me he says he does but then he mumbles something and when I ask he changes the subject, He is very short on his words, I cannot complain about the kids, he is awsome with him,intimatelly he is not into it. He has sleeping issues, and If I want to kiss him even after brushing and using listerine He will either say I have bad bread and push me away or he just won't kiss back. we used to hugh eachother at night now he sleeps on oneside and I sleep in the other. he constantly critizises my wheight even though I am dieting, and this month I'm fasting because of ramadan. He is from another country so he has not told his parents about us, the kids are from my first marriage, my daughter has downsyndrome, and sometimes he coments

2007-09-21 08:35:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

care that my ex husband is missing( or should I say jumped parole). He spent 7 years in prison and has never spent a dime on my son or hasn't seen my son in 6 years, my son is 10! I found out he is missing because I was really pushing the child support thing and the child support officed called his parole office, his parole officer told us that he has been missing for 3 months and when they find him. He is going back to prison. I truly dislike the jerk he was a horrible husband , he beat me and did drugs& drank all the time. He wouldn't keep a job. The best thing I ever did was leaving him! I have been calling people actually his grandmother I am close with to see if anybody has heard from him. I'm real close with his grandmother she would tell me the truth about them seeing him. Should I care that they are looking for him or should I mind my own business and not tell the police where he is if I find out where he is?Or do you understand why I care?

2007-09-21 08:32:54 · 7 answers · asked by lisababyg ♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my "fiance" for 4 years now.. and i love him (of course) jus that its getting boring now. I believe b/c there is no money to be SPENDING. I am a student and he works but for NEEDS...HELP? im sure there are things to do out there to spark this up again... i just dont know what i live in a boring, expensive place. lol... i dont want this to "die". For those you want to help THANKS really appreciate it.. those that just want to be smart a$$es go do something better with your time. (jeez ive learn ppl can be very rude on here).

2007-09-21 08:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this is the story:::
I really like this guy and i thinkkk he might like me too we have nicknames for eachother, he always IM's me, He calls me aa cause he knows i hate it, he always teases me in west civ, he looks at me a lot and i dont know what do you think?

2007-09-21 08:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by Ericaha 1 in Singles & Dating

Could be a man or a woman, but has any married person been victimized by a spouse after being given the "Dutch Oven"
Farting under a bed sheet and pulling the covers over your loved ones head so they have to breath it. I cant stop laughing...
Yea yea its sick but funny as he$$

2007-09-21 08:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by nelppik 3 in Marriage & Divorce

..and wat age do u think is most average for ppl to lose it?
i lost mine wen i was 13.im 14 now.but and im just wonderin wat ages other ppl lost theirs.

2007-09-21 08:30:27 · 15 answers · asked by <3333ayy!<3333 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and i'm still virgin. Do you think this is ok ? Is it exagerative to wait to be loved ? How is the first time ? Disapointing ? How was your first time ?

2007-09-21 08:29:58 · 35 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

i first filed for divorce in june. Since he didn't respond i put the papers through default. they have been accepted to default.

does it take another 6 months for the judge to sign the papers or what, or do they still count it from the first day you submitted all forms.

We have no assets or anything else attached to our name.

Should it be a piece of cake here on out?

2007-09-21 08:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by nire86 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, there's this guy that I know but I'm not really friends with, we greet each other and exchange a few words, but that's about all the interaction we have. In my opinion he is cocky, but maybe he is just shy, I don't know. But he is changing the way he interacts with me, now he smiles at me when he sees me, and when we exchange words he keeps eye contact for long periods of time, he has this very intense look on his face and that makes me very nervous, I get weak in the knees when he does that and can't keep eye contact too long. From where he sits he looks in my direction and sits facing me, not only his face but his whole body. I feel he is interested in me, but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. What advice can you give me???

2007-09-21 08:29:21 · 26 answers · asked by miki360 3 in Singles & Dating

I found her but it’s quiet confusing
I would like to be part of her and I want her to be part of me but
We are from different world
i found her in myspace but I didn’t show my self to her just sent few messages
What shall I do? As she didn’t answer
Shall I forget a bout her and give-up or shall I persevere
Shall I give her more details about me and in which way because to be honest
She has a job which is given her the opportunity to be with any one she want
And she is so beautiful it will be a miracle if she look at me

2007-09-21 08:29:06 · 10 answers · asked by mus c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 08:26:56 · 1 answers · asked by A Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

We were married for 20 years with 3 boys. He has been an alcoholic all our married life. I had an affair on him. The guilt and pain is killing me! I felt lonely. I know it wasnt right!!!! We have had sex and continue to play around with each other and still have alot of feelings for each other. He is doing the bar scene every night and dating as well. I am hoping that he will ask me to remarry him someday in the near future. Is there any hope at all for us? And how do I gain his trust back? Thank you all for your answers. Dont be affraid to offend me or be hard on me. I deserve it!

2007-09-21 08:26:27 · 25 answers · asked by debbie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very happily married to a man 7 years younger than me. He's 25 and I'm 32. Everything is wonderful, even sex.. But lately, it's been off. Sex used to be long, very often and filled with passion. It's still passionate, but a lot less and not long at all. We have a 1 yr old daughter, and he works very hard, and we respect, love each other, and talk about any issues that arise. But lately, when we do have sex (once a week, sometimes 2) he is so built up that he cannot last very long. He promises to "make love" to me the next night, but of course he is satified and ends up falling asleep early. I've told him how I feel and he says "I need to please my wife more" very lovingly, but life just seems to keep him busy and tired. I can't dress sexy because we have kids around, so that's out. I've tried being flirtatious, sexy, and dressed up for him, but it only works on the nights he is sex starved, and he is way beyond controlling himself at that point. Any suggestions?

2007-09-21 08:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by S&NFervor4Ever 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex have been on and off for 4 years, a rollercoaster iv only just got off and finding it hard.. I know many people get addicted to drama but enough is enough now for my 2 year old daughters sake and mine! He cheated on me 3 times (once when i was in hospital) and came running back to me everytime.. and emotionally blackmailed me every time with suicide threats etc.. if I didn't have him back! This time I told him to go and is with another woman straight away how can someone be so cruel to someone they are supposed to be so in love with and go onto another partner straight away? Do you think he's sufferin deep inside for what he's done to me and our daughter in the past? He's now with a drug addict and on drugs himself and iv seen him around acting so happy it makes me sick after what he's done.. like he has no care! And im the one suffering when I shouldn't be.. HELP me figure out these strange minds of some people .. lol x

2007-09-21 08:24:56 · 15 answers · asked by xxkatiexxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes, youll say something and they dont listen.You wait, and bring it up again. After a long time, thats it. And then theyll get mad that we did not remind them again and again, but if you do remeind them again and again, you would be nagging. I would admit i nagged but because i was fed-up already of his " i forgot"', " do/did i need to do that", and other excuses.Despite this, you love the guy thats why youre reminding him somethings, otherwise, you wouldnt care.

2007-09-21 08:23:24 · 10 answers · asked by BubblegumFighter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told this girl i loved her... She said the same to me... every time we r together she is giving me signs that she does... but like when i try to call her and ask how she is doing, she gets mad... She says no don't call ever... all i can do is like instane message her... (Do u think she is playin and or messing with me?) what should i do in this sitch...

2007-09-21 08:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

My hsuband and my sex life has diminished. He said he has no sexual desire.
Yet, he keeps waking me up in the middle of the night masturbating.
I told him it hurt my feelings. For him to tell me he has no desire and than show he has desire and do it right next to me. It hurt me.
If it was a normal healthy sexual realtionship, I dont think it would bother me,it never has before.
But..now...it hurts..
Its like a slam to me..I dont know what to say or do.

2007-09-21 08:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by loladoreen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband tends to leave me out of his life & lies to me about stupid stuff. he's lied about big things too, but more little things in the past two years. he looks into personal websites & talks to chicks who are obviously looking to get laid. is he really saying that he doesn't want to be married? did i do something wrong?

2007-09-21 08:15:13 · 15 answers · asked by gorf79 2 in Marriage & Divorce