I'm 16 and i'm still virgin. Do you think this is ok ? Is it exagerative to wait to be loved ? How is the first time ? Disapointing ? How was your first time ?
2007-09-21 08:29:58 · 35 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you guys find unattractive a virgin girl ?I definitely don't intend to wait till marriage , i just want sb who will make me feel sth. I hate when my schoolmates are boasting of it . They are not better than me. Sometimes i really feel the need of it but am i ready ? Many guys were interested in me but nobody is my special one ... I have no confidence
2007-09-21 09:08:21 · update #1
Hmm all i read was the first sentance and the answer is no. dont waste it. Im a guy,and as a guy it is are jobs to try and steal the flower,but honestly the first time really isnt the greatest unless yall are sexual guru's or something.Let me tell u bout mine. Messy,when she went down on me it hurt(she didnt know what she was doing) and i was clumsy.Think of the first time as a trial in error to remember.But keep the virginity for this one scientific reason(lol) when u "get it on" ant a young age, your more succeptable to pregnancy because your body is still trying to get used to your hormones.
2007-09-21 08:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I once joked with my parents (@ 16) about waiting for marriage. I said why wait until the honey moon to find out the sex is horrible! As much sence as that makes, I'm now married, and really wished my husband could have had that experience with me. It saddens both us knowing anything we do together sexually as husband and wife, We've probably already done it with someone else. It may not seem significant now, but it will once you've found the person you're going to share your body with for the rest of your days. I was younger than you my first time, and I ended up spending the next three years with the same guy. I really thought we'd be together always, and left him because I found out he was cheating nearly the entire time we were together. and he claimed to love me every day. You have to be careful, and just because they say it, even if it is said for years, doesn't mean it's ever lasting. But when a man wants to marry a girl, you know he loves her....be safe, and smart..I know when you're young it's hard to imagine how you will feel later, but what you do when you're young, really does effect the way you feel about things when you're older. I hope that makes sense.
2007-09-21 08:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by TMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't do it until i was 20, and when I did do it, it was with my boyfriend at the time and now we're engaged.
my first time was absolutely hilarious. I know it sounds odd, but we couldn't get it together to save our souls. We just laughed the entire time like "omg...we're so bad at this!" after a while it improved thankfully!
There's def nothing wrong with being a virgin.
my best friend started having sex when she was 15..and I can't tell you how many pregnancy scares she's had when she was younger. save yourself the trouble and wait. I'm not saying wait until marriage, god isn't gonna disown you if you don't, but wait until you're in a commited relationship.
And just remember, one of the possible outcomes of sex is pregnancy. Are you ready to deal with a baby? (I only say this because i worked at an OB office and saw soooo many teen pregnancies and people not coming back bc they got abortions etc. it's not a fun situation to be in.)
2007-09-21 08:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys like it when a girl is a virgin because they feel that they are pure and clean. But some guys like girls w/ a little experience. My first time was horrible, becuase I was in so much pain I couldnt enjoy it. Your first time is nothing like you would think it would be. But dont rush anything, treasure your virginity it's something very special and you deserve to lose it to the right person. I dont regret chosing the guy I chose, I love him so much, he doesnt know it yet but he's going to be my husband. J/K.
2007-09-27 18:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by lona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine that you're still a virgin. You have to do what's right for you. My first time was ok. I didn't really know what I was doing so I didn't really have any expectations but I don't regret it either. I don't regret any of my sexual experiences. I'm more of the "experience life" school than the "wait until you're married" one. But the most important thing is do what's right for you.
2007-09-21 08:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time was very disapointing because I just went for the first sex I could get instead of waiting for someone that I might possibly share my life with.I think you know what is the right thing to do.Good Luck with it all.
2007-09-21 08:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you meet that right person for you. My first time was horrible. It was painful, and although I was very much in love with the person I did it with it hurt like a *****, it lasted all of maybe a minute and a half and all i was left with was the thought, "why in the hell is their hype about this..." and an inability to sit down for about a day in a half!!!
2007-09-21 08:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay a virgin until you find the one you truly love and marry. If not you are in for some heartache and possibly pregnancy when someone who might leave you. The first time was scary because I didnt wait.
2007-09-21 08:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just fine. The first time is usually underwhelming for the girl unless it's an intimate relationship. I do recommend that you wait until you're intimate with someone before having sex. It's worth waiting a little while.
2007-09-21 08:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Brent L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether it's okay depends on you. Are you in a special relation with someone. I was my first time any it made it more special. Think twice before giving it up, though there are way too many break ups and you may regret it later.
2007-09-21 08:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by katigirl2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋