So my ex and dated for about 1 year and 8 months. He broke up with me, and we were broken up for 2 months but we still went out in those 2 months. So then I took him back and I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I already had a date this week. Im I getting over my ex way too soon?
2007-09-21 08:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by dlg1028 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course you're not getting over your ex too soon. The dating is what's gonna help you get over the ex. I think you should continue to date.
2007-09-21 08:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After getting a divorce from a 20 year marriage, a friend told me that she had heard that it takes half of the actual time a relationship lasts to get over a relationship. I was skeptical but damn if she wasn't right. It took me about 11 years to find the right woman, and fall in love again. I've been observing others too and even though some do seem to move on sooner, most of the time it does take half the time of the actual relationship to get over it.
2007-09-21 15:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long you were dating him and how much he meant to you. Like it took me a good 2 years to get over my first love who I dated for 2 years.. It took me a month to get over my 2nd ex and it took me about an hour to get over my 3rd ex.. It all depends on you.. I don't think your getting over your ex too soon. If you feel you should get out there and start dating, then do it. If you feel you just need some time to be single and just clear your thoughts that's fine too...
Best of luck!
2007-09-21 15:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sublime Chick™ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has been said that the time to get over a broken heart is three times as long as you were together. It all depends how the break up went and who made the break.
If you feel right about it, then fine, you never know when the guy of your dreams will arrive in your life!
2007-09-21 16:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♦♣ alex ♠♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship wasn't all that long. After a couple of months you should be ready. 2 weeks is a bit soon.
2007-09-21 15:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating will help you get over your ex....you need to see what else is out there...explore your options. Do you think he is just sitting home waiting for you to come back? Not on your life!
2007-09-21 15:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by sharon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue dating. Getting over people is different for everyone. You will know when you are ready to move on.
2007-09-21 15:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Connie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe never. You learn how to operate without them eventually but I still believe given the right circumstances and opportunity I go back to any one of ex girlfriends.
2007-09-21 15:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Obama2009 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have found that it is important to take some time alone to find out who you are. Also, keep in mind that you cannot love anyone else before you learn to love yourself.
2007-09-21 15:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you. If you feel likke you're ready- then go for dating!
it will help you completely get over the break-up!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-21 15:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋