Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

Ladies pls help, I like would to know what are some of your thoughts when you first meet or see a man that looks nice or that you might be interested in?....Example..I was in a major store today and I saw a very pretty lady and the first thing that can to my mind was would I be able to please her in bed....I know thats not the right thing to think but thats how guys brains are wired....So what do u thing when you see a nice looking man?? P.S. this is a question about what you as ladies think not about what i thought or did !!!

2007-09-21 07:24:20 · 39 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not very tall or muscular, and not extremely good-looking. I'd still like to be the one she loves. What do I do so that she doesn't lose interest and move on to someone else?

2007-09-21 07:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by jlmrudy 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter was asked to immediately put $2,500 in her lawyer's trust so they could respond to a request from the opposing council.

Since we didn't immediately have the $2,500, we had to ask the lawyer's office to remove themselves from the case (temporally). So, they were taken off the court record.

Now opposing council has a court date set for "Petition Status for Attorney".

Questions:

1. Can my daughter go to the 'petition' court date, without a lawyer, and explain to the judge that she will be reinstating her lawyer prior to the divorce case?

2. Should we pay the lawyer "now", prior to this petition court date? (we don't want to do this because opposing council will continue to artificially run up our bill until we're totally broke and can't pay for the actual divorce trial)


I should add, this divorce has been going on for 19 months and so far her lawyer has been paid and spent $23,000. For the actual trial, he wants another $10,000

She's a school teacher.

2007-09-21 07:22:00 · 4 answers · asked by gpurv 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in Oct of next year. I want my main color to be red but I don’t know what to use with it other than white, silver or black. Any Ideas?

My girls will be wearing two piece dresses with the top half white and the bottom red.

2007-09-21 07:18:37 · 14 answers · asked by bella581 2 in Weddings

I had my wedding at a hotel and I had 20 rooms blocked for the wedding well all of them were used up and more
My aunt had a dirty room - she complained
My mom got that same room - she complained over 3 times
another guest had dirty band-aids - complained
my picture lady had a leak - complained
my mom went to the GM (he handeled my wedding) and he said it wasnt his department
i had issues before the wedding and i was suppose to be comped on something never happend
i went to check in my room they had no idea on that
how much do i need to push all this before i should just give up

2007-09-21 07:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by Miranda 3 in Weddings

The guy I am/was seeing (long story) is starting to concern me. He has showers with his 2 daughters, who are 9 and 10. he sleeps with the younger one when she has no clothes on.
He used to take showers with his eldest daughter until she was in her teens. His other daughter (18) will happily walk around naked in front of him. he even plucked his eldest daughters (22) ingrowing pubic hair out the other week.
He loves children. I don't think he is a paedophile but something (im not sure what) is starting to bug me.
Is this normal? Just maybe a nudist house!!

2007-09-21 07:15:06 · 91 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has abused me and i even filed police reports agaisnt him. i had to vacate our apartment for a safe place to live. we have mutual restraining orders against each other. twice he has violated them. once he followed me from school and the last time he was at my son's daycare all day. he has filed for sole custody of my child. what are the chances of him getting that. i m in school and currently work part time not making too much money. but my son is in daycare (tanf) pays for it and the shelter has a wonderful place where my son and i play everyday.

2007-09-21 07:13:54 · 7 answers · asked by kiandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with two guys and i cant choose i am confused i av been with one for three years now and the other for almost a year now i know its not right but i enjoy being with both of them although i love the one i live with more i still care for the other one,one lives in trinidad and the other lives in jamaica with me,should i leave them both or should i choose one i tried choosing already and i still went back to the other, none of them knows about the other.

2007-09-21 07:12:07 · 1 answers · asked by chev 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-21 07:11:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 07:09:42 · 8 answers · asked by Wunout O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand if you are both working at different shifts and come home at different times, but what I mean is that if you all are at home each evening, is it okey for the man to go to bed and wait for his wife to come on bed or the wife to be on bed and wait for the husband. Support your answer as this cause argument somewhere I was today and we have been given until sunday to come up with the right answer to win a real 55" inch TV Plasma. It was a question raised in church family discussion.

2007-09-21 07:09:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiancees mom went shopping with me right after the engagement was announced. my parents are out of the picture..we went to a bridal sale and bought a dress for $200..i liked it..but i felt pressure that i HAD to get a dress or i was going to hurt her feelings..well..now that i am looking back...i dont like it at all!! i dont know what to do..part of me wants to sell it..and then give her the money back...the other part of me thinks that it will cause too many problems!! what do i do!?!??!

2007-09-21 07:08:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiancee has grown up in nebraska. he is OBSESSED with the huskers...which i realize that it is his passion..which i am completely for! but he is refusing to consider moving to colorado with me after the wedding..he says that he will not move anywhere out of nebraska..now i have lived in close to thirteen different states throughout my life and i LOVED the experience of new things...i want our kids to be able to experience life outside of nebraska...how do i get him to realize that a college football team is not important enough to dictate our future?

2007-09-21 07:05:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I came across this bottle of pheromone that I assume is supposed increase the sexual desire just by the smell or something. I dont know. It states on the bottle that it is not a cologne. It does have a pleasant but kind of an awkward aroma. Whats up with this stuff and does it actually work.

2007-09-21 07:03:58 · 2 answers · asked by need some advice 1 in Singles & Dating

hide and seek with my dates ........ but i am never found cause i run home............. this gives me a rush.............. anybody else do this?

2007-09-21 06:55:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would be very funny to write, please

2007-09-21 06:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been dating a really nice guy for a couple of months, taking it slow and getting to know each other, etc. We get along great, he's completely smitten and I like him a lot, but I'm not feeling "that feeling."

In this situation, do I hold off on sex until I fall in love with him, or is sex what needs to happen in order to fall in love?

2007-09-21 06:49:36 · 65 answers · asked by . 4 in Singles & Dating

my grandson who is 16 i found dirty books in his closet.
I burnt them in the burning barol.
i also had the keys to his car taken way for 2 months.
I also made him break up with his girlfriend.
because i belive they may be haven sex.
I drove to her house and told her mother about it all.
I also found out that my grandson had lied to me
he told me he was staying at his friend wesleys house.
Come to find out he had been staying the night at the girl and mothers house.
I cant belive that a woman would let two young children
a boy age 16 and a girl age 17 sleep uner the same roof.
I told her she has built herself a whore house and god will punish her in the end.
Her mother acted like an ediot and cried and told me to leave.
I guess she isnt a good mother like i thought she was.
My question is im thinking about going to the police
and pressing charges on the girl for having sex with my grandson
Can i press charges on her??

2007-09-21 06:48:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you get there with straight s ex or do you need more?

2007-09-21 06:44:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 06:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We both have to move to differnet locations. he must move to baltimore and i have a choice between DC and new york. i had originally intended to move to new york, but i visited DC a month ago and loved it. I've never been to NY, so I don't know if I'd truly love living there. He'll be working in DC. Now, I think this guy is the one and I don't want to let him go...but I'm also a very independent person and moving to DC in order to see more of him seems like a not so wise thing to do. we're really good friends now and I think one of the reasons why we haven't coupled is b/c we're moving and he doesn't want to do the long distance thing. Advice please.

2007-09-21 06:42:09 · 1 answers · asked by moosekid 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't preachers, churches, missionaries, cheat us out the true spiritual experience that comes to us naturally, when they preach us a line of religious dogma??

2007-09-21 06:41:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need a presie for my best man any ideas

2007-09-21 06:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by ajentertainment2007 1 in Weddings

My fiancee and i were both virgins when we started dating. He wants me to feel comfortable enough to touch myself and such..but for me who was raised in a home where sex before marriage was wrong...its hard for me to imagine getting pleasure for myself...i have issues with several sexual things..i cant strip for him...i just feel like i will mess it up...i refuse doing oral...or getting it..i know he is getting frustrated with me..any suggestions??

2007-09-21 06:35:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello all. I don't really have a question, I would just like some opinions here. I came across a website:

http://trashthedress.wordpress.com/

And I find this concept quite intriguing. I was thinking about doing something like this...I don't mean it in a way like "I want to trash my dress!" but just the high fashion aspect to it is fantastic. I don't want to throw paint on it or set it on fire or anything crazy like that, but just pictures in not-so-traditional locations. I'm sure my dress will get a little banged up, but I'm not paying that much for it ($300) and I think the outcome will be sooo worth it. What's your opinions on "trash the dress"?

2007-09-21 06:34:07 · 25 answers · asked by Hillary1034 4 in Weddings

Here's the problem. I bought my wedding gown in a different town then where I live/am getting married. I will bring it home the week before the wedding and take it to a store here that will press/steam it for me. I called them about the wax and the gal said she'd heard of it but they didnt have anything they use. My question is, since my dress has beading around the top (its strapless) and it will rub my underarm area and make it raw, is there really a wax or something that I can rub on the beads to make them slicker and help out? If there IS something I can do, where do I find it to buy it since the bridal store doesn't have anything? Help!! I don't want to have red arms on my wedding day! Thanks!

2007-09-21 06:33:40 · 4 answers · asked by dancingmel02 2 in Weddings

Scenario: A good friend of yours told you he/she likes you. But you may or may not feel the same about your friend. Lets say you lean more towards the "may not" feel the same way because you're already in a committed relationship and someone you really like. Your friend then tells you after a while that they no longer want to see you as much because it hurts them and they rather you guys just end the close relationship (I guess just being real simple talk once in awhile friends). However, you keep calling them and act like nothing has happened. And then they say "your're selfish" - are you? Why would someone do that - act like nothing has happened?

2007-09-21 06:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About a month ago me and my husband got into a really big fight he said that my kids (3 from a previous marriage) broke the blinds, so I checked them and said where are they broken he goes in and rips them off the window, so I called him an idiot, He then turns to me and says he hopes the baby in my stomach dies (I'm 6 1/2 mos pregnant with his baby) so my first reaction was I pushed him well he pushed me back and during the struggle I got a really bad bruise, so basically he says that I have no respect for him and that I should of never put my hands on him, and if I had him arrested he would have me arrested also. So now its been about a month and we are litterally living like roommates, one side of the fridge has his stuff, and the other side has mine. He doesn't speak to me at all we basically just sleep in the same bed together, and the problem is we both can't afford to live there by ourselves, so basically my ? is do I try to make things work between us or just let him be?

2007-09-21 06:29:50 · 24 answers · asked by shorte716 6 in Marriage & Divorce

not like make out bf but u know wut i mean...i think

2007-09-21 06:22:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am from India ,i met a girl in a dating site,she is from benin,west Africa and she impressed me a lot ,we proposed to each other and she is willing to marry me.she will come daily for the chat and she speaks very nicely,she sent me all her photos and her address also,in the mean time i asked for my stay in w.africa,she told she will try to get a work permit for me and once i go there she will try for ECONOW passport also.as she is dependent on her mother for her living ,for the work permit she asked me 1000$ for doing the work permit.so pls let me know how far i can trust this girl and how safe is it for me to go and stay there.and how can i know that she is sending her pictures only.pls help me in this regard.

2007-09-21 06:20:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce