The guy I am/was seeing (long story) is starting to concern me. He has showers with his 2 daughters, who are 9 and 10. he sleeps with the younger one when she has no clothes on.
He used to take showers with his eldest daughter until she was in her teens. His other daughter (18) will happily walk around naked in front of him. he even plucked his eldest daughters (22) ingrowing pubic hair out the other week.
He loves children. I don't think he is a paedophile but something (im not sure what) is starting to bug me.
Is this normal? Just maybe a nudist house!!
2007-09-21 07:15:06 · 91 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal if he is abnormal; and it is abnormal if he is normal.
2007-09-21 07:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is wayyy not normal. Go pick up a phone, dial 911, and take his daughters to their MOTHER. He is a sicko, a child molester, and frankly, i think i puked a little in my mouth when i hit " how about when she is WEARING THEM? and "he sleeps with the younger one when she has no clothes on. "he even plucked his eldest daughters (22) ingrowing pubic hair out the other week. " *shudders* His daughters are ignorant to what he is doing, and really should leave him, and take his daughter some where SAFE
2007-09-22 11:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Meh. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's cool that the 18 year old has no qualms with her body and being nude in front of anyone, father included.
Plucking out pubic hair of a daughter is a no-no. Sleeping with a child that has no clothing on is a no-no. Taking showers with your children when they are that age is certainly a no-no.
Pedophiles love children too.
2007-09-21 07:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hell no it's not normal. Just the thought of a grown man showering and sleeping naked with his kids makes me feel ill.
WTF He plucks his daughters ingrown pubic hair, that is not normal behavior of a father.
I have never heard of such a thing in my life ( a nudist house).
Sound like a un-natural behavior between and father and his daughters..........
2007-09-21 14:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he isn't a pedophile, then he and his daughters are very open about nudity. I guess there's nothing wrong with that, but I would also be concerned if I was you. How do you know he's not a pedophile? If you are going by the fact that the oldest ones still come around, and wouldn't if he was, I wouldn't go by that.
Where is/are the mother(s)? how do they feel about this? If this was my husband and my daughter, I would put a stop to it. I'm not a prude, but there is a limit to how close a father and his daughter should be.
2007-09-21 07:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, it's not f*cking normal. It's sick. Even if he IS a nudist there is a difference between being nude in front of someone and SHOWERING and SLEEPING naked with them. And he did WHAT do his 22 year old daughter?! THAT IS NOT NORMAL!
And you're just now starting to get concered?
If you don't stop this you are just as bad as he is.
2007-09-21 07:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO THIS IS NOT NORMAL, yuck! My daughter is 11 and neither my husband or her dad ever sees her even without her shirt on. If there is a mother in the situation she should take care of the "girly stuff" and if not then he needs to explain to her what to do thru a closed door! I'm getting a sick feeling in my tummy right n ow reading this, stay away from this guy and defiantly do not have any children with him! Icky!
2007-09-21 07:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well sounds like a sex offender to me cause when he sleeps with his 9 yr. old daughter how do u know that he doesn't do other things other then taking shower with them ???
can u say "molester" ??
Call 9-1-1 and report him or at least have the police investigate this weird and perverted activity!!
look @ how you typed this >
who are 9 and 10. he sleeps with the younger one WHEN she has no clothes on
you tell me wat is wrong with that keyword ... you must report him cause if you don't and u know about this the cops can come to you and also make you suffer for not telling the proper authorietes
The cops can't do nothing about the 18 yr. old and the 22 yr. old about walking around naked cause their legal adults!
Unless they are nude and people can see thime (Public Exposure > sum1 in my driving class asked about that so i asked the police officer and the person was draining the main vein and you CAN get arrested for it )
Also a little word of advice
Any of us on the yahoo answer's can get him reported all we have to do is call the cops give them the url tell them ur username and they will contact the yahoo buisiness that record's ur computer's ip address (like a house address but for your computer) and they can find you and question you and all that stuff !
I suggest you make it easier on everyone else and TELL THE POLICEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE !
Please let me know ur decision
2007-09-21 07:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No this is not normal behavior but oddly enough the children seem comfortable. I still would have concerns myself, even if he is not a pedophile someone may misconstrued the behavior in that general direction. I would express your concerns to him and ask him how all this came about. I'm sure this is not the way he was raised and where is the children's mother all during the child rearing.
2007-09-21 07:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by Funeeegurl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could just be a nudist house, and maybe they just have a relationship that it that close...
But, that is definatley outside of the norm.
I guess the question to be asking is this: Is he getting any kind of sexual pleasure out of this? If he is, or if he gets weird about it when you ask him, I would say something is up.
If it is making you uncomfortable, I would stop going out with him, because he obviously isn't going to change.
It could be normal for thier house, but they need to not be suprised when other people feel alarmed and wierded out.
2007-09-21 07:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell no thats not okay. I can see if the kids were like a few months old but 9 and 10 years. If you feel concerned about this guy then maybe you should seek some government official help. Thats not a good thing if this guy is doing this....
2007-09-21 07:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by D'zignz of Kaos 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋