I am not very tall or muscular, and not extremely good-looking. I'd still like to be the one she loves. What do I do so that she doesn't lose interest and move on to someone else?
2007-09-21 07:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by jlmrudy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you love her at every moment possible. Smile at her, spend time with her. Show her that you cherish your moments together. Hold her hand, touch her hair, stare into her eyes and kiss her. Hug her. Take your hand and place it flat on her chest where her heart is and tell her that you want what is right there...for as long as an eternity if you could make it happen. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Answer her calls and call when you say. Take photographs and put together a couple album. Get her a HUGE teddy bear. Remember her birthday and the day you met, count out every 6months and give her a card. Give her flowers. Give her a massage. Take an intrest in something she is fascinated by. Sing to her even if you suck at singing. Dance with her and around her...open your heart to her and place both your hands on your chest when expressing a heart felt feeling. Just LOVE her, show her new things, read poetry, or magna books if you want...tickle her untill she p's herself...put your face between her bo-obies and act like you cant breathe or hear because they are so amazing...hehe, I dont know, just make her feel like she amazes you...I am sure for all of that she will adore you and will point out some of the things that are beautiful about you that you are taking for granted and not seeing...I am sure you have qualities that have caused her to allready desire you. Believe what she tells you...women are so quick to tear a man apart, when she compliments you, realize that she means it. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-21 07:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, the only thing you can do is keep your feelings bottled up and go visit her, if you're her friend like you say you are. Now if you really want to take things up a notch, you need to tell her how you actually feel. I have a feeling that she feels the same way about you too.
2016-05-20 02:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she agreed to date you, she already likes you, so try not to be too hard on yourself about your body. Those things may attract her at first, but being a good friend that listens well, makes her laugh and treats her with respect will keep her interested.
2007-09-21 07:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by soelo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be in love with you not what you do to keep her its not like she expects roses everyday just do what you do you cant make out a list for the rest of your life on how to keep a girl she may not be the one just because you are attracted to her doesn't me she can be the one BUT hey it could work you could click and have the best relationship ever good luck
2007-09-21 07:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Seduction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesnt depend on those things. So if she truly loves you for you, you don't have to worry about "keeping her interested." If she decides she "doesn't love you anymore" for those reasons then it wasnt real love in the first place and youre better off with someoe else.
So basically shes with you for you..so don't worry about it! She picked you- be confident =)
2007-09-21 07:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself... Don't control the situation, let it all happen naturally. Don't try too hard & give her space when she needs it. Take space for yourself when you need it too! Never lie, steal, or cheat! & do not tolerate those who do.
2007-09-21 07:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your mind so that you can talk about interesting subjects.
2007-09-21 07:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be unpredictable but in a good way. If you want to do something romantic do it on your terms.
2007-09-21 07:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jon G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, thats what got her there and thats whats keeping her
2007-09-21 07:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Contessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋