Ladies pls help, I like would to know what are some of your thoughts when you first meet or see a man that looks nice or that you might be interested in?....Example..I was in a major store today and I saw a very pretty lady and the first thing that can to my mind was would I be able to please her in bed....I know thats not the right thing to think but thats how guys brains are wired....So what do u thing when you see a nice looking man?? P.S. this is a question about what you as ladies think not about what i thought or did !!!
2007-09-21 07:24:20 · 39 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would think to myself Can I get a man like that. I am not up for going for a man out of my Leage
2007-09-21 07:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thoughts "mmmm, baby! I wonder if he's any good" Or I suck air in through my teeth and think "looks so good it hurts!" Since I AM married, and have a lot of kids (who are usually standing right next to me when I see hot men), I also wonder would he go for me?" All this in a second or two. Now I must say I am very happily married and my husband satisfies me sexually, but I guess it's the "animal" in me that makes me act like that. After those first two seconds I think, "Hello! You're married to a good guy, so stop lusting!" Sometimes I even pray, "God help me to stop staring!" lol
2007-09-21 08:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by im sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first think I think of when I see a nice guy is that he looks good. The second thing I think of is how much I love my boyfriend more then I could any other man, and I move on.
2007-09-21 07:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lunar Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you see a guy and your attracted to him, if the first thing you think is...1. what kind of father would he be... (u must be young) 2. Money (gold digger/co-dependant) 3. Bed time baby (your human) All you women cant front that sex is NOT what you first think cause if your not looking at him in that way... you "wont" ever have him as a father to your kids or ever get his money... Sex is the most important you prudes...I want a guy who can curl your toes and leave me beaming all day do I hear a ya ya!?
2007-09-21 07:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by anabanana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I see a hot guy, I wonder if he's in a committed relationship. Many guys give off vibes even though they are married or in a relationship. So, it's hard to tell without just coming right out and asking... and that's rude.
2007-09-21 07:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is going to sound a bit shallow of me but there is a method to my madness.
When I see a good looking guy I immediately want to see his smile. Why? Because I like nice teeth. Besides nice teeth say alot about a person; whether they're on drugs, their person hygiene, a smoker, etc... Also, when he smiles I want to see his laugh lines which is an indicator whether he laughs and/or smiles alot. Who wants to be with someone who doesn't have a sense of humor, doesn't smile. etc...
Usually I just say to myself... 'Mmmmm he's good looking; nice smile too!' and just leave it at that.
2007-09-21 07:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Welcome to Colorful Colorado 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I met my fiance through friends who set us up to meet in a restaurant. Sort of like a blind date.
When I saw him I instatly thought, "oh yes, this will definitely work".
He was hot (still is) and I'll admit, my mind did drift a little...
2007-09-21 07:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by JMC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, that is usually my first thought as well. Then I check for a ring and I start mentally undressing the guy. I don't know if I am typical.
2007-09-21 07:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy sh!t!!!!! That is usually my first thought!
Then, I hope that he has enough courage to actually have a conversation with me.
If that happens, then - if I enjoy the conversation - I think about sex! I never question whether I can please him in bed though! Confidence is everything! Women can sense it! Go into it thinking - Damn I would love to show that girl the best night of her life! You will get further!
2007-09-21 07:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my mentality works in another direction... of course the first thing to come to mind is wonder what he looks like naked haha
but a short half a second later i'm thinking about 'is he father matierial?' 'wonder if he has a good job?' -things like that.
2007-09-21 07:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋