Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

Hi, I have been married with a wonderful man for 5 years and he has given everything to me, for him I was just like his princes but , I was like a little girl that wants everything for her and altough I always told him how much I loved him I never showed him my love with my atitud. so he went tired and 3 months ago I did not want to have sex with him, I don't know why I think it was something in my boddy. every morning he tried to touch me and I threw his hand away so he in an upset and crazy moment open a profile searching for a woman to have sex with. but a few days later we had a talk and since that moment we have a great relationship but two days ago I discovered what hi did and he appologize and explaind me he never pass to the next step he said it was just the anger of that day and he forgot about it almost immediately I believed him cause he has been so trustful and he doesn't have time to do it but I can't take that of my mind I'm so angry and disapointed. what can I do?

2007-09-21 05:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by sambabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am madly in love with him(still),but he keeps on cheating on me with other guys,i love him so much that i have put up with it but if we are to get married then i want 100% commitment from him but i dont think he can do that.And another thing is,he is my mums brother so i suppose that makes him my uncle,my mum was shocked at first but then accepted it and is happy for us.
i know sometimes cousins can marry each other but what about nephews/nieces marrying aunts/uncles?it really tears me up inside everytime he leaves because of his 'urges'.But a friend of mine who i have known for a year recently confessed to me that he was in love with me and that he wants to be my boyfriend,i do like him but i am unsure,and i dont want to date him on the rebound if i was to break up with my boyfriend,but i dont want to do that either but i am not going to cheat on him either just because he is cheating on me.

2007-09-21 05:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i seen ugly girls who have boyfriends, and pretty girls with boyfriends, and i don't know what guys think of me, but why don't i have a boyfriend?

2007-09-21 05:15:51 · 35 answers · asked by ngirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so here goes. I am a 21 year old mom to two gorgeous boys. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. I have been with him since I was 17. Too make a long story short we have had a VERY rocky relationship. To the point where he works long days and long hours, I wanted him to spend some time with the kids but it seems like the more I ask of him the more he resists. So I had sent him som divorce papers off the internet I guess I was trying to show him I was serious about changing things. He got upset and went online and signed up on a website to meet women to have sex with? I understand yea I should have NOT showed him the divorce papers but does that give him the right to get online? I mean he has looked at porn MANY times and I have caught him. I see nothing wrong with porn but he ONLY does it when I'm not home?? I mean I would think something was up...I need some feedback on what you would say to him or what to do??? Thank You

2007-09-21 05:14:21 · 24 answers · asked by Chrissy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband and I got married he had two sons a 12yr old and a 14 yr old. He has joint custody of his sons. Right before we got married he lived about 15 mins from them. We have now recently moved. And it has caused some problems because we live an hour away.. The children seem to be very resentful and they are starting to tell their Father that they don't want to come when it's his time to get them. He was also considering fighting for custody which I thought would be a bad idea , since they are already stating that they don't want to be here. Can some one give me some advice on how it should be handled. has anyone else gone through this with children who don't want to spend time with them? How would you handle it if you have joint custody?

2007-09-21 05:07:49 · 34 answers · asked by Maddison 2 in Family

My brother has the world's smallest ding-dong:( I don't think he's ever seen any other ones, cuz he's thinking it's a good size. Problem is, he's just gotten himself a gf and when she's sees it the poor girl is gonna be DISAPPOINTED! Should I let him in on my concern, or just let him be mortified? She's seen some big ones.....

2007-09-21 05:06:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boys dad don't come get them when it is his weekend some time, and they get an altitude with me. If they only knew that i be mad too. They take things out on me and give a hard time when he don't do what he say, I was tring to find something to do with them on the weekends to past away time. I found myself running out of things.

2007-09-21 05:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by lesa 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday i came home from school and my dad says to me:'sorry amy but i read your diary' so of course i am gonna be upset and to make things worse when i ask why he says it was just there and it should have been hidden (it was in my bedroom)but i think a bedroom is a private place so its okay to put things around ,right?

so then i find out my 17 yr old brother has read it too and is repeating all the private,rude and most personal things out so i have a right to be angry don't i?

well anyways my dad says to me:'amy,stop manipulating me with your moody ways' and i am like WHAT?

after all i didn't ask for anyone to read my diary !

2007-09-21 05:05:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-21 05:02:53 · 26 answers · asked by peter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i`ve been engaged to be married for two yrs ,i`m afraid to marry him because i have an irs audit that has gone on for ten yrs. i don`t know if keeping my last name or hyphenating my name would allow that debt to still be my debt?i`m also wondering if we did marry ,would irs garnish his wages also,we just bought a new home ,i don`t won`t to lose what took us so long to gain.....nervous in maine

2007-09-21 05:00:16 · 7 answers · asked by brenda d 1 in Weddings

I have been invited to our company CFO's sons wedding reception. I have been acquainted with his son and the CFO for about 6 years. They are Mormon so I am not allowed to attend the actual ceremony at the temple as I am not Mormon. Anyway I do not have a date . I will be going with my brother and his girl friend. Should I try and get a last minute date or just go solo. I don't want to look weird in front of our company CFO or everyone else there. I was surprised to even be invited. What to do help.

2007-09-21 04:57:55 · 20 answers · asked by code1304 2 in Weddings

2007-09-21 04:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need to know... How do I get a girl who has a bf? I have a class with this girl and I walk her out to her car everyday and we have a great connection. But today I asked what she was doin this weekend and she said somethin about what her bf wants to do.

Please I need some tips on how to get her.

Oh and don't even bother posting sumthin that says I should respect her and forget about it....I need some advice on how to actually get her

Thanks in advace

2007-09-21 04:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by da boi 1 in Singles & Dating

I do...there definatly something weird there!! Unless obviously he is handicapped etc.. I even think guys who still live at home when they are over 21 is weird! I wouldn't dream of going back to my parents house and I'm only 19, it's not that I don't love them it just would be weird! Anyone else think the same??

2007-09-21 04:46:01 · 40 answers · asked by crazybex2006 4 in Family

I've left my husband because for almost six years he's been verbally abusive towards me infront of my child because, I allow my ex to come into our home when he's picking up his daughter. He also gets angry because when I have a party for my daughter, I let my little girls dad and family attend. he says it's not right i let my little girls family come to our home because by doing that I'm disrespecting him. He wants me to take my little girl outside the house if her dad wants to see her and hates it when he calls or any member of my ex's family calls to find out how she is. I don't want my little girl growing up knowing i've allowed my husband to brake the bond she has with her rael dad. Is he right in doing this?

2007-09-21 04:44:55 · 13 answers · asked by Lin 1 in Family

I have always seen the first dance done after everyone eats and the cake is cut. Since I am planning a wedding I am now reading more upscale weddings have their first dance as soon as they are introduced as husband and wife. I am really liking that idea. What are your thoughts on this?

2007-09-21 04:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-21 04:44:21 · 12 answers · asked by Aquatic Rodent '") 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A tote filled with bath and body works and burt's bee? A gift certificate? Pay for their hair? Maybe something unique I saw on someone's answers a beaded lamp?

2007-09-21 04:43:37 · 13 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

There is a picture of our 3 kids to start with.

I just wanted you to take a long look at the kids that you helped possibly distroyed. I know this doesn't all fall on you but you should have not slept with a married man, with or with out kids. I know that is was him, that he couldn't keep his **** in his pants and trust me he is paying for it. But guess what, by you having no self respect for you self or others you have taken everything Tristan, Danik and Mikkaèl know away. You have contributed to what they know in life and turned it upside down. They are pending 2 separate lives, 2 separate parents, 2 separate houses, and not as good of life financially. They possibly will not be raised by a mother and father together to become great men and a great life with both parents. Think about what you would want one day for your kids, a daughter that has a husband that has cheated on her or your young boys thinking this is ok to do to women. Would you want this? I hope the answer is NO. I really hope someday this never happens to you when you are married with kids. I do not want a response nor would it be good to pass this on to Francis as it would be compromising things further. I hope you are out of the picture, if not I would suggest you do so immediately. Enjoy your new relationship and think about thing further next time, you could be having for a few min of pleasure but a life time of pain for others.
Take care of your self.
Tasha

2007-09-21 04:39:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm not sure how i should be feeling about this, so i'd appreciate any input. i'm in my mid 30's and my biological father has never been a part of my life. he and my mother divorced when i was a baby and he gave up visitation rights when i was 5. every ten years or so i'd get a phone call, he wanted something from me. about 4 years ago he called and i finally let out over 25 years of pent up anger and let him have it. now i found out he's dying and has a month to live. as soon as i find out where he is, i plan to go see him, not for him, but i feel it's something that i need to do for me. my question is this: how am i supposed to feel considering what i've written? i don't love him, i don't even know him, but a small part of me is sad and that's confusing the heck out of me. i'm not having the response i thought i'd have. thought?

2007-09-21 04:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by Brian S 5 in Family

the girlfriend was lazy and a pill popper she also moved 3 scrounch muts in my home who pooped and peed in my house,she even had the audacity to tell me i thought i was better than her,she never paid rent utilities or groceries.Now my brother in law will be home less and my husband says if it will keep his brother from being homeless,he will allow the ***** to move back in.what do i do?

2007-09-21 04:36:30 · 16 answers · asked by izzysgma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have read a book...and it says that.... If the you is someone unworthy, or unloved by you, then giving love becomes impossible..How can we give something we dont have?So before we will love others...we should have love in ourselves...

2007-09-21 04:33:46 · 34 answers · asked by The Sexytary 3 in Friends

has anyone recently overcame an obstacle, a breakup a rejuvination a new insight? it feels super! anyone agree? let me know, details...(I fell n i got back up,....
just seems so unreal! and it feels like undescribable
priceless heaven!)
omg!

2007-09-21 04:33:31 · 15 answers · asked by 3LL3 e VAT3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 04:33:21 · 17 answers · asked by rosebud8894 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried on my bridesmaid dress today, and the top is about two to three inches to big! The wedding is tomorrow! it fit perfectly two months ago! What can I do?

2007-09-21 04:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by Little Miss confused 4 in Weddings

I was invited to a wedding of a girl that I'm not that great of friends with. I was actually very surprised I got invited. But anyways I would like to give them cash as a gift because they are on a pretty tight budget. I am going to the wedding by myself. I'm still a student so I'm not made out of money, but at the same time I don't want to be cheap. Our dads have been in the fire dept together for like 25 years. So how much should I give?

Any help and ideas would be appreciated!

2007-09-21 04:29:19 · 30 answers · asked by Megan R 1 in Weddings

okay theres this really cute boy at school that i really like but i dont know if he likes me. ive never had a boy friend before because i was not aloud (parents are strict) but now i can and i dont know what to do. should i ask someone to ask him if he likes me or what? i dont know what to do.

2007-09-21 04:27:44 · 13 answers · asked by Savannah 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering why guys choose to masterbate versus being intimate with their wife? I had my second child 10 weeks ago by c-section so we are way past the "okay to begin having sex again" stage. But latelty when I suggest having sex my husband gives me an excuse like he is either too tired or he isn't feeling well. I know that I have gained some weight but nothing drastic. I only gained a total of 26 lbs during my pregnancy. So it's not like I'm a fat unnattractive heffer. However, my husband came home from p.t.this morning and before I made it down stairs he was already in the bathroom. I assummed that he was taking a casual crap until he went back to work and I had to rotate laundry and I stepped in something wet and gooey. Well I looked on our bathroom rug and it had *** on it. . Wouldn't it have been just as easy to come upstairs and fooled around with me? What can I do from a guys stand point to "heat up" things in the bed? What could be the cause of him "rejecting" me?????

2007-09-21 04:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 23 years and even though we have had plenty of good times we also had our share of pain. He says he wants his freedom, he can not be himself around me, says he loves me but does not want to be married anymore. I am confused and hurt by this. He had no direct complaints about me until recently he started saying that I criticize people and keep him away from certain people. Which is mainly his sister who is not a nice person and she is the one who really does that. (they also had a "relationship" together until they were 17 & 18 so I feeI very uncomfortable with her) I told him I do not understand why I am the one being ripped from his life and she is still in it when I have only tried to defend myself and our family from her. I do ok some days and others I am a real mess and can barely function. Our 17 yr of son is with him and they went out of state without telling me. He is a narcissist which makes our lives hard but I still love him. Any Advice on anything?

2007-09-21 04:27:09 · 10 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys does this mean he's lost interest?
In my 30's, guy is 6 years younger. When we are together he is all about me and he's the one who pursued me in the first place coz i was a bit hesitant about the age diff. We went for a function together last weekend and he was very interested and we even kissed; Met again on Mon for a while coz i initiated it and again we had a great time. On Wed i sent him a text asking if he's ok and he didnt reply. Last night he sent me a text asking if i'd gotten another text he sent me earlier.....i said no and he replied just basic and that was it. What is going on here? When i had issues before with age after he asked if we could hang out sometime, he insisted that he had dated an older woman before and he was ok with it.

2007-09-21 04:25:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce