a boy at school?

Question

okay theres this really cute boy at school that i really like but i dont know if he likes me. ive never had a boy friend before because i was not aloud (parents are strict) but now i can and i dont know what to do. should i ask someone to ask him if he likes me or what? i dont know what to do.

Answer 1

Learn to be confident in who you are and never get other people to ask questions like this for you. The most attractive thing about someone is how secure they are in themselves.

Always be honest with people. Sometimes you won't get the answers you want, but if you believe in yourself then you will get back up and go on.

This was a long way of saying go to him and let him know how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same way about you then no biggy...move on and be happy.

Answer 2

While it's true that the most direct way to know if he likes you is to ask; asking a person such a thing can be off-putting. You might frighten him. Don't worry about the extent of his "like" for you right now. Just spend time with him, talk with him about fun things in general, do fun things with him. Ask him out to the movies or something. If he's unresponsive to your gestures, then you will have all the answer you need.

Answer 3

If you really like this boy, get to know him. That way you know what you are getting yourself into. Become a friend, then shoot for something more. Who knows in the end you two would probably end up as best friends. So get to know him, and you will then see if he likes you or not......hope this helps

Answer 4

well, talk to him and see if he likes you too... you can tell if he does cause he smiles and looks like he's having a good time. My parents were strict also so, I was in your same postition. Trust me if this guy don't like you, there are more fish in the sea and you never know... someone might like you but they don't know what to do...

Answer 5

dear savannah c,

the first relationship is always most confusing. often it is easier to have a friend ask them out for you or write a note, flat out rejection is harder. just talk to them casually. if when you talk to him it's awkard and you get tongue tied (and you feel that a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship will not improve you talking abilities) you should talk to him more and find out what you have in common. it sounds complicated but in the big picture it's really not and more often than not ends well. good luck to ya- bobo the bear

Answer 6

flirt with or talk to him see what you guys have in common then ask him on a date and see where it goes..i think maybe u should go on like 3 dates before making it official (as in hes your boyfriend) that way since he'll be ur first u wanna make sure hes not a jerk.

Answer 7

go past him once or talk to him very briefly like Hi Yah etc but make sure he notices you. When he wants to know you ignore him until he is under your spell and you become a queen

Answer 8

Just try to be noticable when your around him, make him notice you. Also try to find out if he has a girlfriend, it wouldn't be nice if he did! Try finding out things about him from his friends. Don't ask him out as yet. i hope this somewhat helped :) Good Luck :)

lil miss vixion

Answer 9

aha, here is what happened to me, look if he looks a you, for a while, everyday, or any smile on his face, then if u cant go to him , ask ur friend to go tell him, he won't refuse you trust me boys never do this, if u r his type of girl, or it does'n matter, always. best luck

Answer 10

First try to be his friend. As soon as you are his friend then its more likely for him to ask you. Trust me I know. Thats how I asked my girlfriend. She was so sneaky.