i am madly in love with him(still),but he keeps on cheating on me with other guys,i love him so much that i have put up with it but if we are to get married then i want 100% commitment from him but i dont think he can do that.And another thing is,he is my mums brother so i suppose that makes him my uncle,my mum was shocked at first but then accepted it and is happy for us.
i know sometimes cousins can marry each other but what about nephews/nieces marrying aunts/uncles?it really tears me up inside everytime he leaves because of his 'urges'.But a friend of mine who i have known for a year recently confessed to me that he was in love with me and that he wants to be my boyfriend,i do like him but i am unsure,and i dont want to date him on the rebound if i was to break up with my boyfriend,but i dont want to do that either but i am not going to cheat on him either just because he is cheating on me.
2007-09-21 05:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been together for 4 years,so i dont care what anyone says my mum accepts it and so do our friends,if love was a choice then i would be with daniel radcliffe and he with me.but i am only human and therefore can't help who i fall in love with,i have tried dating females before but they did nothing for me.
2007-09-21 05:39:30 · update #1
i know it may seem odd to some people but Mike would be in jail now if it was an arrestable offence.we are just like any other couple,and to be honest i have never seen him as family,even though i do know he is my mums older brother.And we have been together for 4 years now with no problems.
2007-09-21 05:43:40 · update #2
A definite no!
2007-09-21 05:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by matroosje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no doubt that you love him. But there are 3 things tat should be ringing alarm bells for you. 1) A month after asking you still haven't given him an answer. 2) You've asked us what we think 3) He's been unfaithfull & keeps doing it. Personally, I'd get out before things got any more complicated, you deserve a lot more than 100% commitment, that should be the least of it & the fact you're asking others who don't even know you/him for their opinion makes me think in your heart of hearts you know what you're going to do, but just can't/don't want to face up to it.
2016-05-20 01:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a doormat, okay? being with someone who is cheating on you and convincing yourself that it's okay because you love him is just plain crazy. and him being your uncle just makes things even crazier.
there are a lot of other guys out there, and yes, guys who do not cheat do exist. just break it off with this guy. think about what you really want out of your life. put yourself first. and if going out with this other guy could help you, then by all means do so. not really to commit and be in a relationship with him right away, because it is too soon for that. just live life to the fullest. but always take time to re-focus and really think about what you really want out of your life. and trust me honey, what you want would not be a cheating uncle.. boyfriend, i mean.
2007-09-21 05:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by laurianna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you want to marry your gay uncle?...right...thats origional!
four years no problems? and yet earlier you state he cheats on you all the time? if this is true is IS incest he hasn't been arrested becuase the police don't know, if you try to marry he will get his *** thrown in jail for interfering with a minor you fancy daniel radcliffe so I assume you are a teeny bopper.
2007-09-21 05:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't marry him.
Break it up as soon as you can, take the time to get over it, then move on.
You'll find someone you love just as much soon enough....and hopefully it'll be legal to marry them!
2007-09-21 05:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by Al 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, marry him on Jerry Springer. I will be watching, lol
2007-09-21 05:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rockford 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say no go and find yourself a decent boyfriend that does,nt cheat and is,nt a member of you family.
2007-09-21 05:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋