Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

how do you meet friends/girlfriends outside of school? thats the only place i meet new people and im almost graduated and im worried i wont know anyone new

2007-09-23 23:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known a girl for a while, and we met up yesterday and went for lunch. She lives near me now, and yesterday was REALLY great and we had a good laugh. She has a guy on the internet that she has met once in person that she is talking to on a daily basis, & from the way she talks, I think she wants something romantic to happen with him, and she will go over England and visit him after he comes back from serving in Iraq. My question is simple, I think I like her as more than friends, and I think she knows this, but I don't know how to handle this situation?

2007-09-23 23:48:33 · 1 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, i wonder if anybody can give me some advice?
i am living with my ex partner and her 2 children in a three bedroom council property. we have a joint tennency. the relationship as broken down and she has asked me to leave the house. at the moment i am living in the dining room.i know i have as much right to be there as she does but she is making my life impossible and her children are now turning on me, i also have a 8 year old daughter who stays with me every weekend and the situation is affecting her also. if i move out i can only afford to rent a room and they dont allow children to stay, if i stay where i am its gonna make me very ill, im already under a shrink, the situation is getting worse by the day, shes now said if i dont go she will phone the police and say i hit her and her children saw it also and get a restraining order, please help.

2007-09-23 23:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by big-steve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who's sick of horny men? gosh, is that all men think about now days?

2007-09-23 23:27:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Trouble with it in the same way that some white men have trouble with black male/white female relationships? I was on a telephone dating/chatline thing the other day (I'll call myself a loser and save you the time) and this woman, who was white, had, instead of saying anything about hereself, recorded a greeting that was simply a rant about how nasty and ugly and pathetic she thought asian women were. I instantly thought to myself about what that woman, or any woman for that matter, might think if she had heard a man's greeting that was full of all the negative things he could think of about black men. I think any woman would be able to firgure out what motivated such an opinion or point of view. Also, I will admit that I find Asian women unfathomably more sexy and beautiful than women of any other race, and at times have confessed this to white women. Right away they try to pick apart what it is that is wrong with me that makes me like asian women.

2007-09-23 23:25:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me ladies the must be something going on

2007-09-23 23:18:32 · 79 answers · asked by john b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for over a year and we are both very busy and when we do f we blow each others mind. which is about once a day!!!

but i want more, we have no kids i work nights and she works and goes to school!!!

2007-09-23 23:17:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You may have seen my other question but anyway - I split up with my girlfriend nearly a month ago - we only went out for a month but we have known each other longer before. Well anyway we are still good friends, and I'm 'over' her so to speak, but I still want to be there for her and keep her close by.

Anyway! She showed me this ring while we were going out, just casually and when she showed me it I thought "I'm going to buy that for her!". Well - I still want to buy it for her, most likely give it to her for christmas, or just before because I think she's going away. Is it wierd for a guy to give a girl a ring as a gift? It wouldn't signify anything would it? I just want to do something nice for her =]

2007-09-23 23:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i have very low self-esteem everytime i walk outside i always think people are looking at me. Talking behind my back making fun of the way i look.. even though i know for a fact im not ugly, in all seriousness i would probably say im better looking than half to 3/4 of the people i see everyday, but i cant seem to convince myself enuff i tried every day in the morning saying im goodlooking i walk out couple hours later i feel like ****..Random girls come up to me calling me very cute, i get compliments from people i just met im cute, etc... but i always think their just being nice... This low self esteem problem has caused me to not have a girlfriend for over 3 years...man its not like im a virgin i got laid when i was 12....younger than most people...im just wow sad... what should i do any advice????

2007-09-23 22:57:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other night I had phone sex for the first and it was amazing. A couple of days later my ex told me that he had watched me though the door. When he told me this I felt violated and dirty. I felt like I had been raped. He turned something beautiful into filth.

I told my sister-in-law what happened and she said that what I did was illegal and I could be in trouble and also the guy I was doing it with. My ex could be also for invading my privacy.

I have been reading here all about phone sex and to what I’ve read, it is NOT illegal. If this is so, then tomorrow I’m heading straight for the cop shop to report him for what he did.

So, please tell that I am correct in saying that it is NOT illegal.

I’m desperate to get this old so and so out. I want my home back.

2007-09-23 22:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by gibger2001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, so I want to get a present of a girl - a ring which she showed me a while back. But I don't know her ring size... so what would be a good way to get it without her suspecting anything? Since I want this to be a suprise =]

2007-09-23 22:50:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is included in a traditional greek wedding reception? i've heard of things like pinning money to the bride's dress... can anyone help?

2007-09-23 22:41:39 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine_mel 7 in Weddings

I used to live with 3 other people, 1 of them I got on really well with, we all then moved into our own places for about 7 months. Now me and this other housemate (male) having decided to move back intogether, we've found the house, and are moving in together in 2 days. The problem is that I think Im in love with him, I get nervous when I see him, and feel quite protective and jealous if he talks about other girls. What do you guys think I should do? Or do you think its just sisterly love because we live together? Im confused but cant stop thinking about him. Im so nervous about moving in with him.

2007-09-23 22:41:20 · 8 answers · asked by KJ 2 in Friends

2007-09-23 22:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am thinking of video taping friends and family about us, and our upcoming nuptials. Also getting people to write letters about us or a little story of some sort that my fiancee or I or a "narrator" can read on the DVD. Maybe the slide show of us growing up and all that. In and around ten-15 minutes.

-Good Idea or Tacky?
-If we do it, should we show it during the reception, or make it a favour so people don't have to watch it if they don't want to?

2007-09-23 22:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

always tells me to never talk to strangers

2007-09-23 22:34:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mum has been going out with a man called martin for nearly four months now he is 42 and i am 16 but i totally fancy him and love him i dont know why im feeling like this please help

2007-09-23 22:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by christina h 2 in Family

need the info for uni. found info says that it wasnt legal but now appers to be as cruise ship advertise you can.

2007-09-23 22:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by mummys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is always yelling at me and beating me.i am scared to tell anyone.i talked to a school counselor and when my mom found out she beat me and called me a B-I-T-C-H.she said she would punch my face in if i told the cops or anyone.i am really scared cause she said she would kill me also.what to do?i am scared to call ss or the cops.what do i do?who do i tell?

2007-09-23 22:22:11 · 22 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Family

Ive been with my partner for over 10 years, living apart for some of that time. We are now living together and about to buy a house. He goes to the pub regular as clockwork on Friday/Sunday nights. I was out all day yesterday visiting family, got home at 8pm and 5 mins later he was on his way. I said to him I thought you would have stayed in, but he said he had made plans to meet people. Do you think Im being unreasonable to expect him to stay in one Friday or Sunday. These are 2 nights of our w/e after all. Would appreciate views from men/woman and dont tell me to go with him, I hate pubs!!

2007-09-23 22:19:51 · 25 answers · asked by Annie M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that it would be rude for her to choose the same color blue that I had or the green and purple that our other sister in law had. She does not think so. She has money and we didnt when we got money so her having the exact same color dresses only better would be like a "see I am better than you" deal for me. Just wondering if there was any etiquette on that.

2007-09-23 22:17:43 · 24 answers · asked by mandible62604 2 in Weddings

hello, i am an only child (age 17) living with just my mum and grandmother in a council house, she has been receiving benefits since i was born, and also she works, she does get paid a reasonable amount but she does have a job, the problem is she doesn’t seem to pay for anything for me she either get my grandmother to pay and keeps all the money for herself, i have also found letters addressed to my grandmother in her room, im a bit worried about this she doesn’t give me any money what so ever i was reading on her site about child maintenance and does that mean i should be getting money I don’t have a bank account she has one and said we share it, im really worried because she does seem to keep a lot of the money and doesn’t like spending any of it even on herself, she just seems to be keeping it all i don’t understand why? i remember a couple of days ago i was at the options and he said does your child get JSA and she said yes but i didn’t know anything about this! I know ist difficult to understand the situation even today she just itching to start an argument with me, its hard I don’t know my dad she never even spoke to me about him she gets embarrassed if I talk to her about periods, so I have no one to talk to about anything like that really, you know when you know, when I was younger she sent me to this health clinic thing saying that I was a badly behaved child and that I was clumsy sometimes and when I went to nursery I cried and I liked to play with dolls and a lil shy LOL I look back now and think so are a million other kids she raised me there was never any punishment in our house even as a kid, and I member at the time her asking what’s wrong with her and they could not really give a proper answer cause there wasn’t anything wrong with me , I found this letter yesterday what my mum wrote loads of stupid thing that kids do its normal and she said I proper diagnoise would be nice!! I cant believe it, I also found an old letter from my mums m8t I think she suffed domestic voliance or something and she hates my dad so maybe she just automatically thinks ill be nasty or horrible?? thanks for reading this please email me back any advice would be very helpful, look forward to hearing from you.

2007-09-23 22:05:50 · 1 answers · asked by crystal c 1 in Family

I like tall girls.But my wife is short.it gives me pain all the time.She loves me a lot but i dont that much.She does not want to live without me.
She is always restless and impationate with everything.I dont know how to leave her.What can I do?When I say her about divorce she acts crazy and cries a lot.I am living with her because I feel pity for her.But I am not happy. Will I be happy any day???

2007-09-23 21:56:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has moved state, we use to call eachother every night and what not... and now days just fade, we dont talk as much... due to our phone bills. We cant afford it calling eachother everyday.

Im scared.
I was told Long-distance brings people closer..
And then i was told theres no chance.

Which one is it?

Thanks

2007-09-23 21:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting a divorce. Or I should say, I have no other choice. I am in terrible pain. Right now, I am living alone in a country far away from my home country. Living a silent life, barely feel like talking to people or friends. Don't even wanna talk much with parents as they will be too worried for me. Can't even afford much money to go for councelling. Please help me , advise me what should I do. By the way, I am 29 male, working as an engineer.

2007-09-23 21:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 21:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend said l could go to thailand with him and his friends family for a hoilday for two wks in april.but now hes just told me that theres not enough tickets of me to come although hes still going.
would you be upset? he said that he wont go if it means that much to me,and we can go on hoil somewhere else for the two wks. what should l do? was l right to be upset? l feel really unwanted. should l tell him go without me? or get him to take me esle where? l cried all last night over this please help me.

2007-09-23 21:30:16 · 24 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1 in Singles & Dating

zat's a tricky question!

2007-09-23 21:29:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so im in class right, I show him my drawing he says "So why WHY are these stars here?" and I said because thats where I put them and he says "But why John? Why WHY?" and so I go redo it but class is over and when I get my stuff out of my locker, sunset is approaching when i leave class and when I start walking home I hear this "BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA" AND ITS THE ART TEACHER!!!!!

He chased me 10 miles to my house with a giant branch that is really sharp! I mean its like he wasnt looking at me to his eyes were wide open laughing THE WHOLE TEN MILES LAUGHING AND TRYING TO ATTACK ME!

He ran so fast I couldn't get my car when I got out of the building and when i got up to my apartment he was 2 feet away when I shut it his hand was in the door and he yelled "AAAARGGH" and he pulled it out, and he has been standing in front of my door with his eye in the peep hole for about 3 hours now, not moved an inch, I have no phone and I am so damn scared I blocked all my windows?

WHAT DO I DO!?

2007-09-23 21:26:29 · 15 answers · asked by John 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I haveonly been together for a month. We met online...We talked for 2 weeks before I would meet him. When I did meet him it went great....The next day I had major surgery and he was at the hospital all 3 days with my parents....then when I got home he came every day but the nights that he worked. Then a week after being around one another he told me that he wanted to just be with me and I agreed because I really like him...Two days after that I met his family, which everything went great. He has been married and the divorce was finalized two years ago. Ok the main point the other night he told his best friend somthing about us, thenwouldnttell me....so last night he told me " Somtimes im at a loss because your different than any girl that I have ever beenwith in a good way. I'm used to girls acting and reacting in certain ways and you dont d othat.Its great because your the coolest and most understanding girl thatI have ever been with." How should I take it?

2007-09-23 21:25:48 · 9 answers · asked by MeMe07 2 in Singles & Dating