My boyfriend has moved state, we use to call eachother every night and what not... and now days just fade, we dont talk as much... due to our phone bills. We cant afford it calling eachother everyday.
Im scared.
I was told Long-distance brings people closer..
And then i was told theres no chance.
Which one is it?
Thanks
2007-09-23 21:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long-Distance relationships CAN work..it depends on the couple; how HARD they r willing 2 work at it, what their expectations are, and so on...
The MAJORITY of Long-Distance relationsips DO NOT work, & I think its just due to human nature! Physical contact is important to us, and not only on a sexually level....Just to have some1 NEAR is sufficent...
In my personal experience, that is what I have seen with most couples, Long-Distance is not the way 2 go...it;s usually torture on a couple...
My advice: U (and him) must decide what is right 4 u 2...if this is going to be long-term relationship (i.e. marriage) u may want to work at it, no one said it will be easy. But if u 2 are not looking that far down the road, a BREAK (or Break-Up even) may be in order.
Hope that helps :)
2007-09-23 22:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a long distant relationship for almost 3 yrs now. And its going fine. I think it depends on the person, but of course the distant is a factor also.
And y do u guys need to call when u can call each other on msn or yahoo messenger..?
But another tip, u can buy those calling cards anywhere. Its cheaper than using ur house phone.
Good luck!
2007-09-23 22:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by IDontThinkSo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll only work if the two of you are committed to making it work. Distance is not easy. Love can pull you through, but it has to be both ways. You don't have to talk everyday.... maybe every other day, use IM, send emails be creative.
Everyone here will give you their opinion. Remember it is only THEIR opinion/experience. Everyone is different. Good luck! And know that it can work!
2007-09-23 22:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to have a good long distance relationship but it depends on how determined each of you are to be with one another. Just try it. It depends on the persons in the relationship how it turns out
2007-09-23 21:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by S S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant afford telephone bills so that you and your boyfriend have to trust each other. If not, times go by it will be very boring to each other. Try to keep in touch once a week, e-mail is the best communication.
2007-09-23 22:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by tips983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance really does not work!! it can... if u have plans to be together in a couple months or so , but with no future plans in mind about either one of yous making the move to be together it's kind of hard to have any kind of relationship, u know...a man and a woman need the everyday closeness talk hug kiss...hope it really works for u!! good luck!!
2007-09-23 22:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel<3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the you can handle being apart from him. Why don't you go with him. Get all your business straighten out and move with him. It might take some time if that what you both want.
2007-09-23 22:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-chance: long distance relationships rarely--if ever--work.
My best friend was in one, where his girlfriend lived 80 miles from his house. One day, he drove to her house to surprise her--and got surprised himself. Inside her home, he was in the living room, waiting for her to return from "running errands".....and looked out the window---and saw her in the house next door--w/ another guy; she was giving him an oral presentation.
My best friend left, never seeing the girl again ever. He was heart-broken for weeks. His experience---plus so many others like it---tell me long distance relationships don't work.
2007-09-23 22:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to have a call everyday. once in 3days. or if it still hard for you, try to call once in 5days or may be 1 week. you can send him message or email. it cost lower than phone. the most important from your relationship is communication and you must believe your partner =)
2007-09-23 22:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by red boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experiance i would advise you to let them go, but stay friends, because not seeing them as much as you should will end up in you not feeling the same or a close to them when you do finaly hook up.
2007-09-23 21:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by egor2oo8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋