I like tall girls.But my wife is short.it gives me pain all the time.She loves me a lot but i dont that much.She does not want to live without me.
She is always restless and impationate with everything.I dont know how to leave her.What can I do?When I say her about divorce she acts crazy and cries a lot.I am living with her because I feel pity for her.But I am not happy. Will I be happy any day???
2007-09-23 21:56:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, I know what you mean......I took a girl out once - she tried suing the local council, for building the footpaths too close to her a.s.s.........
She had the duck's disease!
2007-09-23 22:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Guy u have got to be kiddin me? Ur wife was short when u married her and if u knew u couldnt accept the fact that she was short y would u put not only urself but her in a position for future heartbreak? If u made that choice to marry her then u loved her. What has changed now? I think you should communicate with ur wife and not automatically assume that divorce is the best option. I noticed that u mentioned she is restless and impatient whick to mean seems to have nothing to do with ur question so mayb that is the real thing that is botherin u. Sit down and talk 2 ur wife about ur frustrations and ur thoughts and hopefully things will get better. As a married woman myself marriage is beautiful but it takes work from both sides if ur wife is doin things that r makin u unhappy u should tell no matter how u think she will feel about what u r sayin bcuz mayb in the long run it will save u guys from a divorce. i dont think ur a jerk for pointin out u lke tall girls but i doubt that is the reason for u wantin to leave u jus notice now all of ur wife's imperfections because u r unhappy
2007-09-23 22:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First question - Was your marriage a forced one. If it was not you did not see her before marriage? If you saw her and realised that she is short why you married her. Because that time your interest was for short a little fat girls. Now that one is over. Now interest changed for tall girls. A little time later your interest will again change. But by the time you would have forgotten to live. There won't be any one (short or tall) in your life. Then what you will be going to do? Suicide? Hey man short and tall is in the physical appearance only. The main thing is the heart. If somebody loves you from the heart, that is more important than height and weight. I understood from your letter that your wife loves you more than anything. That is why she becoming crazy and crying when you are talking about divorce. Be it in your mind man. whatever action we are doing in this earth, will not leave uncounted. "What we sow, we will have to reap it". If you leave her for physical attraction and pleasure, definitely you will have to pay for that because the vibrations coming out of a wounded innocent mind have power to burn the earth. Be careful
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2007-09-24 02:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeze i presumed you have been going to assert which you found out she became an awl-assassin or prostitute or some thing. you may rather divorce her because of the fact she's 3 inches shorter than you anticipated and he or she has crooked tooth? Are you a 6 foot tall form? If her character is an identical because of the fact the girl you talked to for 4 months, you're able to stay together with her and enable your courting strengthen from there. 4 months isn't lots time to get to appreciate somebody, and a quick-holiday mutually is definitely no longer adequate time mutually so which you have been loopy to get married so quickly, yet you probably did get married, so provide it time.
2016-10-05 06:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little picky there, aren't you? You can't blame your unhappiness on your wifes height, you are just a unhappy person period!! Boy, I'd love to be in the court room when you explain to a judge that you want a divorce because your wife is too short! Can you imagine the whole room laughing their butts off!! I can just here the jokes now!!! Go for it, the world needs a good laugh!!!
2007-09-23 23:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? You really want to divorce your wife because she is too short? Why the hell did you marry her? Yes, you'll be happy one day. Once you stop being such a shallow jerk.
And by the way, you should divorce her. What you are doing to her is just wrong. Even if she's upset, in the long run she'll be better off.
God, I cannot believe some people...
2007-09-23 22:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
This don't make any kind of sense why did you marry her did she shrink after you married her perhaps I know you got taller. I hope it hurts like hell when you tell her something that is going to brake her heart. Did she do something wrong did she cheat on you did she say no to you when you wanted sex. No all she did was to have the misfortune of being born short and marrying an asshole.
2007-09-23 22:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short height is not the valid reason to leave your wife. Did you not see your wife before getting married. Now spend whole life with her happily at any cost. You will have to accept her as she is. Don't have any type of ill feeling and any grudge against her. Tell her to wear vertically stripped garments and tell to use high heel shoes. This way your psychology can be cured. Thanks.
2007-09-23 22:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened??........did your wife shrink in the bath after the wedding????....If it pains you so much to be with someone who is shorter than the girls you like, you obviously shouldn't have married the lady......Stop pitying your wife for being short......pity her for having married an immature idiot who isn't worthy of her love. To answer your question, NO, you'll never be happy...simply because you don't have any value on those things which create happiness in one's life......love, care, trust, friendship, loyalty, companionship. Do your wife a favour...divorce her...so that she is free to find a real man who will love her as she deserves to be loved..wholly and totally, for who she is..
2007-09-23 22:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by cautious 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that you need to rephrase this question.... if you really divorcing your wife for being SHORT!!! Why in the hell did you marry her?? She was short when you married her wasn't she (did you expect for her to grow?).
And if your not happy look around to the rest of your life and try to figure out what truly is making you unhappy!!
2007-09-23 22:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy b 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Did your wife shrink after you married her? What is wrong with you? Do her a favor and divorce her.
2007-09-24 03:47:23 · answer #11 · answered by tokyoroze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋