Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

I am a 17 year old female and I am sexually active. I've been having sex with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. My mom keeps accusing me of doing things I'm not supposed to be doing. But I deny them because she has no full proof that I'm doing these things. She does not want me over any boys house. However, I have been going over my boyfriends house on the weekends and sometimes during the week. I feel bad and I want to stop doing what I'm doing. However, I feel like I can't stop. I'm really feeling bad for lying to my mother. I feel guilty because I know that her suspicions are true. She knows that I am not a virgin but in the past I've told her that I would not have sex again until I was married. (Religous reasons) I know that if I told her about what I was doing, it would break her heart and she would never trust me again. But should I tell her what I've been doing? Or should I just try to do better?? I need your advice.

2007-09-23 15:04:56 · 42 answers · asked by ineedhelp 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 15:03:09 · 1 answers · asked by steven c 1 in Singles & Dating

Does the U.S. always need an enemy so the people will support the government? Will the government invent an enemy if there ever comes a time when we don't have one?

2007-09-23 15:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by americanhero_aa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

like i asked this guy if he has ever wanted to kiss me & he replied "maybe someday i will" then i asked him if he had ever wanted to ask me out & he replied "maybe someday." so what does he mean by that?? and if it helps, i had asked him a question similar to the first one: "would you ever kiss me?" and he replied "yes if i didn't have a boyfriend & if he was sure i wouldn't try to kick his *** afterwards."
please help b/c i like him ALOT!!

2007-09-23 15:00:20 · 5 answers · asked by Brownie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok if both biological parents share joint custody and both very involved in their child life where do i fall in? Is there certain things/events that i should stay out of(dr. appts/school conferences) and leave to my husband and his ex to deal with? Since my stepson's mom is very in the picture and involved in his life what can i do to make sure i don't over step my bondries and upset her?

2007-09-23 15:00:01 · 18 answers · asked by joanne j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok if both biological parents share joint custody and both very involved in their child life where do i fall in? Is there certain things/events that i should stay out of(dr. appts/school conferences) and leave to my husband and his ex to deal with? Since my stepson's mom is very in the picture and involved in his life what can i do to make sure i don't over step my bondries and upset her?

2007-09-23 14:59:48 · 5 answers · asked by joanne j 1 in Family

i would have, i hate the idea of drugs and have tried to study herbs and healthy foods for over a couple of decades

2007-09-23 14:59:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a long distance relationship and have been for three years. We see eachother off and on, sometimes for longer than others. Anyways though, we just spent the weekend together and I just got home from the airport and now I'm just really down in the dumps. Anybody have any ideas of how I can get my mind off missing him? Or can anybody relate? I just don't want to stress out about it. I know we'll see eachother soon, it just never seems soon enough, ya know?

2007-09-23 14:58:58 · 7 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so yesterday i hung out with this guy all day. Ive known him for about 4 years and we went out for awile. I see him once and week and we text each a little bit. Whenever i text him he seems really cool and hes nice to me and he compliments me A LOT. However whenever i see him, he usually hangs out with his friends (they're also my friends 2) but theyre all guys. When he does see them he is different. He starts being rude and disrespectful, and mean. He makes mean comments, talks about me, tuches my butt, and thinks that it is okay to hit me. I ask him to stop and he doesn't. So i just walk away from him. My question is why does he become so immature when hes around our frineds and then is so mature when hes not. Why does he have to change so much and think that he is so cool? Is this just typical and when does is stop? Why does he and his friends think that that is cool? Also were 13. any help would be nice, plz!

2007-09-23 14:54:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, short & simple question, my finance has just about lost all interest in "fooling around" should I go ahead & move on or try and work things out? It's other issues too, we argue over my business a lot, heck, lately we argue about lots of things...it's so strange to me how "interested" in me she was until we got a house, cars, etc. I now work 10X more than I've ever worked while she works less and less.....I'm just tired of hearing the same old lame empty promises....we've been together for almost 4 years now....

2007-09-23 14:54:28 · 36 answers · asked by charlie m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 14:53:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 14:53:48 · 13 answers · asked by Yeah. 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 years old. I'm a virgin. I've never been kissed and my friend wants to f'u'c'k' me really badly. I don't have any experience with dating and I've never even touched a guy really. Just a hug and today my co worker kissed my hand, other than that I'm pretty clueless. I think I have feelings of love for my friend, but I don't want just a FWB. He is use to having FWB's and wouldn't think twice about it. I might fall harder for him. I know I would. I want him to want me, not just for sex. I want a relationship with him. He is also pursuing another girl at his school right now. We are both 20. I'm so confused. Someone help me!!

2007-09-23 14:51:04 · 6 answers · asked by Super-Pop 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 14:50:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 14:48:55 · 46 answers · asked by sharifjunaid 3 in Singles & Dating

not using the word sex. for example making love

2007-09-23 14:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mmk so i went out with this guy and he treated me like crap and so i broke up wit him. then after we broke up he called me all these horrible names......but i still love him......wat do i do???

2007-09-23 14:46:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old and my father has not paid child support at all. He signed my birth certificate but my mother has not filed for support. Now, she wants to sue him for the money so i and my brother whose 17 can use it for college. Can she do that?

We live in Indiana. I don't know if he does or not.

2007-09-23 14:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by italianamexicana 1 in Family

what should i dop about a girl that did stuff with my boy friend before me and ppl keeps bringing it up? its really killing me.

2007-09-23 14:43:04 · 18 answers · asked by beautifuldisaster 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 14:42:17 · 1 answers · asked by kathrynjaneway110 1 in Friends

and i went away for part of it. so i came back and things felt akward. like i dont know what happened! before i left though me and this friends got into a huge fight. epic you could say the entire school heard about it (kinda embarssing) so they hung out with her while i was gone. and i am perfectly fine with that they could hang outwith who ever they want. but latly things are werider than usual. 2 weeks ago me and my friends were on my bus. what was strange is that the other girls in my "group" were on our bus and they normally aren't and i figure out that they are going over one of my friends houses and im not invited obviously. so i figure that my closest friend out of all them will get off at our stop with me as per usual but she doesnt. just just kinda gives me that "im sorry look" i kinda brushed it off like whatever. but then right before the weekend i asked the same friend if she wanted to hang out after school and she told me that she couldnt. but.....

2007-09-23 14:40:56 · 2 answers · asked by lauren k 1 in Friends

Your going out with someone since March 3rd but then your best friend and his friend just happen to like you and you just find out, and now you think you like your best friend back, but you like your boyfriend too and you don't want to break up with him..... :'( PLZ! I NEED FEED BACK, ADVICE, ANYTHING!!!!!

2007-09-23 14:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 10 years old. well last year i was in grade 4 and i fell in love with this girl. that year i was really hilarious so many people knew me. well all my friends also liked to fool around. the girl she was friends with my friends from last year or 2 years. so we all played togeather. now we are all in different classes and we dont even play together. some of us do but i dont palsy with thte girl niether does she with me and some of my friends from last year but another guy who liked her plays eith me. i see the girl at breaks and also when we r going to our lunchroom duties. she is the lunch monitor of my class because my class is a grade 4/5 combined. i really love her. she is pretty and is good at sports especially swimming. we r friends. i have her email but am afaid to tell her via email because i see her everyday. what should i do. i really love her!

2007-09-23 14:38:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 14:37:02 · 19 answers · asked by pat 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is turning 50 tomorrow and not looking forward to it. I was thinking about taping bras to the garage and have signs saying" Hey debbie needs ur support! Shes turning 50 today!"...anyone have any other ideas?

2007-09-23 14:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by Keli D 2 in Family

if so do u know any talented videographers located in toronto? and any web sites!

2007-09-23 14:36:16 · 6 answers · asked by stacy 2 in Weddings

First I know this is not the singles/dating site, but everyone on there is about 15 years old. Since I am dating second time around (ie divorced) I am close to 40 but feeling like 15. The guy I was very seriously dating and in love with broke up with me 2 weeks ago to give it another chance with his ex-wife. He has since told me he thinks he made a terrible mistake, but we are still not together as he needs to figure this out once and for all before I will even consider dating him again. But God it hurts so bad. For the last 2 weeks I feel like I can barely function. I push myself through work and taking care of my children. When does it stop hurting so badly? How do you make it stop? I sound like a whining idiot, but it is taking everything I have not to call him today.

2007-09-23 14:35:56 · 15 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 14:35:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this strange feeling that i should ask this boy josh bell out. hes only 10 or 11. and im 11 also so yeah.
i mean hes real nice and i cant see him say no. just one problem should i ask him to hang out some time or call me. i have a big big big big BIG problem though! im afraid to go up to him and say you want to hang out some time because his friends will tell him not to what should i do to not be afraid to ask him! and he knows i like him ive liked him for 2 years so i really want to hang out with him! soooo much! please help me!

2007-09-23 14:33:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling depress b/c I feel like my life is not going anywhere. I have a college degree and the job I have now has nothing to do with my major, which is graphics. The job i have now its soooooo boring and the only reason I took the job is b/c I get benefits. I have bills to pay (like everyone else), I just dont feel like I'm accomplishing anything!! What can I do to make myself feel somewhat better?!

2007-09-23 14:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships