Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

well....I have the BIGGEST crush on a guy a couple years older than me. he doesn't even know I exist. I have never talked to him before. but whenever i see him i get all happy and i cannot stop blushing and i get butterflies in my stomach when i walk past him so i know i have some attraction to him. he is very athletic and he does really good in school. everyone says he is not like a normal prep...he is a REALLY nice guy. but a rumor started floating around a couple days ago saying that the whole football team does drugs. he is on the football team so now i am starting to wonder if he does drugs. idk alot about him and people tell me he is such a nice guy...so idk who to beleive or what to beleive. please help me out!!!

2007-09-23 13:02:00 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got in a accident the other day and now I have a back injury I was wondering what works besides the meds because they don't. I was rearend by another car and now I'm missing alot of days of school(college).

2007-09-23 13:00:43 · 14 answers · asked by kina 3 in Friends

I am in the military and married. My wife is currently living in another country. I filed all the necessary paperwork to get her here to the U.S. but it has been almost a year now. We have an almost 3 year daughter together and she is here with me. As of late my wife has been ignoring my e-mails, taking all of my paycheck leaving me with almost nothing to take care of our daughter and myself. I am leaving for 6 to 9 months in November and my family has agreed to take care of my daughter for that time period. I can't live like this any more. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I would go about filing for divorce even though my wife lives in another country? Thanks!

2007-09-23 12:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by sparky_1627 1 in Marriage & Divorce

two kidsand her parents full time and her other kid part of the time, she says she needs some time to herself but when seh does she goes off with some man and i get mad and i know i shouldnt care but i do and i wont talk to her and then she gets mad at me but there is things that i want to do too. and there is a produce man that is twenty years older than her and she knows that i dont like him, just like every other man that she is "just friends" with. I dont know what to do can you help me?

2007-09-23 12:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by Future Pfeiffer Falcon 3 in Family

I was inspired by a white and black wedding cake with red roses seen here:
http://i97.photobucket.com/albums/l238/onetruqt/535437126_f8c274eda2.jpg

And decided to use these colors for my wedding. I know I don’t want a tradition wedding. In replace of tull, flowers and other boring material used I want to use feathers, mirrors and beads. The typical just wont do so I really need help coming up with unique ideas. Just to give you an idea: for place cards I found theses really cool ball and chains and painted numbers on them attached is a card with the person name on it. PLEASE HELP ME no idea is to far out the box. thanks :)

2007-09-23 12:57:27 · 13 answers · asked by sboyd_hfcc 1 in Weddings

i dont have a sex drive what can i do

2007-09-23 12:55:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so list some of them, or do you share the household jobs together equally?

2007-09-23 12:55:42 · 10 answers · asked by doug g 7 in Marriage & Divorce

One guy, Mich, I went out wiith him 3 grades ago. We really liked eachother, but now he hates me because he thinks im mean because i broke up with him back then. What Mich doesn't know is that i found out he was saying that he doesn't really like me and he was dared to go out with me. That's why i broke up with him. This other kid, Jeff, is really cute, and nice and we are becoming really great friends this year. He laughs at all my jokes and always tries to start conversations with me. But he isn't as cute as Mich. I don't know how to chose which one i like. And should i talk to mich???

2007-09-23 12:55:01 · 1 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Singles & Dating

Uh!!! I hate her. 'What are you gonna do about your life? I expected more than that, I think you should date somebody else, You can't do that, Uh, If you are good as your brother...
Oh my God.. What Kind of parents does say that to their child??

She picks every single things. She Just Won't let go. Is She Just picks on me?

You know that Monica's mom at the 'Friends'?
My mom is exactly like her.

2007-09-23 12:52:04 · 22 answers · asked by SG.L 1 in Family

How old r you? I am wounderin the age of people on this site nothin kreepy im 16

2007-09-23 12:52:02 · 26 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Friends

We have been 'dating' for almost a month and a half, I am 52 she is 55, she always works and comes home late but I wait for her to IM me and let me know she is safe, she said last week that she appreciates that from me; today she says I email her too much, she needs her space and she is not used to having someone care for her so much, what is going on?

2007-09-23 12:49:05 · 4 answers · asked by Lloyd S 2 in Singles & Dating

we broke up like 2 weeks ago and now my best friend is sneaking around with my ex boyfriend

2007-09-23 12:47:48 · 14 answers · asked by dis_lil_mami_kia 1 in Friends

Why?

2007-09-23 12:46:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he's nt ready for anything serious but he still wants to hangout. I understand he's not intrested in being serious with me, but why would he still say he wants to hangout?

2007-09-23 12:46:09 · 32 answers · asked by Mesame 1 in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend and I were friends before getting together. He had hes Girfriend and I had my boyfriend. Back in high school he cheated on hes ex a couple of times. When they broke up he was really hurt, I even found papers of him writing to god how much he regre it. I know it was back in high school but do u think is posible he will cheat on me. I dont know why is hunting me. He doest know, but I dont know what to do. I am scared that he did not change he said he change a lot. Without me asking him he tells me I am the only girl he wants to be with. I cheated on him w my ex. He gave me a chance to make it better. We r on the process of working things out. I dont know if I am like this because I cheated or because maybe he is. Help!

2007-09-23 12:45:03 · 8 answers · asked by ~~~~^~~~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I recently decided to take the plunge, however he can't afford a nice ring now because we need to move. Should we still tell people that we are engaged or should we wait until I have a ring on my finger?

2007-09-23 12:44:48 · 24 answers · asked by Bella Ophelia 1 in Weddings

I am going out with an amazing girl and i want to give her something special to show how much she means to me does any one have a really good idea?

2007-09-23 12:43:35 · 21 answers · asked by sportscrazy8181 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a fear of having an accident on a one night stand and I don't want to take the chance of her deciding to keep it, so I thought if I keep a morning after pill on me should the occasion arrise I could slip it in her tea. Is this wrong?

2007-09-23 12:41:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im board and just wanted to know whats up with everyone...
( not tryin to sound stulkerish...lol)

2007-09-23 12:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Friends

He scares me...and he always threatens to hit me...with his fists...this morning he threatened to hit me with his shoes...
this started out about a year ago...i tried to talk to him many times before but he attacks me and we end up getting physical. I stopped trying and just went on doing my thing as a mother...i already stopped working...my Aunts are supporting us since i stopped working so i can stay at home and spend time with them...i'm a single mom...i lost my parents when i was still single.. i'm very home bound. I take care of their needs (his older brother is a very good son to me...very God fearing...very loving and caring...very respectful...unlike him).
I send them to a good Christian school...i try to give them all their needs...although i can't give them whatever they want anymore unlike before when i was still working...but my elder son understands and appreciates everything...unlike him.
He has broken my heart so many times =(
He makes me feel like i'm living with a devil child. Sometimes i can't help but wish he would just vanish...i just can't take him anymore....he scares me and is hurting me deeply.
What must I do? I've been praying for him ...but he doesn't change.
When he was a little boy...he used to be a very sweet child...I always find time to talk to them about God...
we even read the bible together...and i believe i have shared to them everything they need to know about God's ways and love. A year before this radical change...i can confidently say...we were all in God's grace...but now...this son of mine has definitely fallen away.We live in the Philippines. I don't know what to do with him anymore. Can you kindly advise me?

2007-09-23 12:39:58 · 28 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3 in Family

I know you will say to break up, but I wanted to know if there was anything else I might be able to do?

2007-09-23 12:37:30 · 3 answers · asked by RearFace@18mo. 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

The pastor can't perform my sister's wedding in two weeks, so I thought about getting ordained through an online service. Exactly how legal/legitimate are these certifications?

2007-09-23 12:32:10 · 5 answers · asked by hammond_eggor 2 in Weddings

i dont know how to say it to him

2007-09-23 12:28:15 · 28 answers · asked by sexybabygurl4545 2 in Singles & Dating

I SERIOUSLY CANT LIVE WITHOUT A BOYFRIEND ITS JUST MY THING THERE S THIS GUY BUT HE DOESNT KNOW WHO THE H**L I AM HOW CAN I GET A HIM OR GET A BF I NEED HELP PLEASE

2007-09-23 12:28:14 · 35 answers · asked by missxcandyx 1 in Singles & Dating

Lately, my friend's husband has been making odd comments here & there about my chest or getting me naked. He's always been drinking when these comments are made, and sometimes he says them in front of his wife...sometimes not. So I usually just ignore them, but this last one really caught me off guard. I knew he wasn't at all serious, but I still snipped at him for saying something about sexual favors. because I am totally not that kind of girl and he should know that! and the conversation got even more uncomfortable that I started blushing--. so he pointed that out and finally admitted that was his goal--to see me squirm.
now here's my question: is he just being an idiot when he's had too much to drink? Maybe it's a weird game to see how long it takes for me to be uncomfortable or dish back--which I'm not very good at. OR is there some sort of 'wishful thinking' going on?
What do you all think?

2007-09-23 12:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by TeddyJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey I'm helping my sis, Kathryn, run for class rep (Class Prez) and she needs help thinking of a speech. She's 10 & in 5th grade. Help on her speech! A whole speech would be ah-mazingly great! But just little parts are great too! Her slogan is:
Vote 4 Kathryn Leffew! Imagine What she could do!

Thanks so much!




And don't say this is the wrong catergory. Thanks Again!

2007-09-23 12:24:54 · 3 answers · asked by 0mg I'm Megan! 2 in Family

i like this boy but he's kind of perverted he's always touchin me and stuff i am about middle school age.
he's really nice bt he can get like touchy feely sometimes

2007-09-23 12:22:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been out of my old relationship for about a year and some months now but I can't seem to give my new man the benefit of the doubt. We have been together for 8 months. First of all let me say that I am a few years older than my male friend I am 28 and he will be 21 in October of this year but he is very mature for his age and that's why when we first met I thought he was older. I keep feeling like I need to let him go because of the age difference I have lived my life and he has barely seen his. At his age he has already helped me get my own place he has gotten my car fixed and does so many wonderful things for me. I have never heard of him cheating on me like my ex did and he is very respectful out in public he makes me feel like I am the only woman in his eyes. I just keep waiting for the day when things will change and I will get my heart broken and he will find someone younger and prettier. I must admit my last relationship left me with no self confidence. What to do?

2007-09-23 12:22:01 · 7 answers · asked by t_tneal27 1 in Friends

..she's 36 and a single mom to me and my younger sister ..She actually told me this.. "theres this guy ,hes about my height and really muscelly..he asked me to have an affair"
Its a bit disturbing to me ,as im 14
It kind of sounds like she's becoming a tart..i dunno
Im really confused

PS:: WE ARE CHRISTIANS! and attend church

Please help
thankx

2007-09-23 12:21:09 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friens with Jon for 20 years. Him 33 and Me 27. Everyone around us always says that we belong together. We talk almost daily and hang out quite often. He flirts with me & only one time we did make out about 2 years ago. He kiss me. Our friendship not changed :) great. When he is drink he tells me that he would marry me and that he love me. He flirts with me when he is sober, but he flirts more when he drink. The time he kissed me he was sober. I don't know what he thinks. I have asked him before but he is pretty shy and he just doesn't really talk about it. 6 months ago he told me that he asked me to marry him again when he was drinking and I just laughed it off but then he started telling all of my friends at bar that night that he wants to marry me. I have a fiancee now that I love, but I can't help but think what if. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-23 12:20:59 · 7 answers · asked by Joanne P 1 in Singles & Dating