Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

I could give you any thing you wont.

2007-09-23 11:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 11:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Family

I have a situation, as in, both of us would rather him not be with her. She is not at all stable but puts on a very good face for the public. If I could have gotten out earlier, I would have, but I am the oldest child. I am 19 years old by the way, and would be 20 at the time this would need to be done. He is very responsible, works as a waiter, makes the honor roll each quarter, and all that jazz. I would be able to help support him since I have a very reliable source of income, but if our mother says no, and he says yes, will that make it impossible to carry this through, or is there a loophole that I don't know about? We live in Columbia, SC by the way. Thank you. Any help would be very much appreciated by the both of us.

2007-09-23 11:05:20 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley Y 2 in Family

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2007-09-23 11:04:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf and i are together for 8 months. he was just here until about an hour ago. when we're together (which is once/twice a week because i'm at a dormatory an hour away from home) everything is so fun, great, relaxed. i had some trouble opening up to him again (we were together once before, couple of years ago) at first, which caused some problems for us like me being too distant, but now everything is a loooot better.
tomorrow is his first day of first year hometown university (he's one year younger, though very mature). i really fear he will meet someone new. i am pretty insecure about my looks: i am a sweet girl, lots of friends and the thing is... i don't look bad at all :-/ i have a nice body, a sweet face. but whenever i see a girl walking down the street - even if she's less pretty than me - i get insecure. i'm all like oh no, what if she would go after him...

2007-09-23 11:02:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 11:01:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 23 and for a while now Ive been thinking that its time I moved out of the family home - I have lots of friends who rent or flatshare and a few of us have talked about moving in together... Only trouble is my parents - tonight my mom was complaining about my sister (whose 28) saying that her boyfriend wasn't good enough for her, that she thought she would have settled down by now, that she wants grandchildren etc etc. It struck how even though me and my sister are two fully grown adults, we still are treated like little children by our parents who have their own expectations about what we should be doing in life. Im finding it really stifling and suffocating having so much expectation levelled at me as I know that one day the same kinda grievances are gonna be levelled at me. this is why I wanna move out - I wanna experience life for myself without my parents telling me whats best for me. Otherwise I fear Im gonna look back at my life and regret the things I never did. Advice please!

2007-09-23 11:01:48 · 39 answers · asked by JonH 1 in Family

We moved about 3 years ago and I really miss my hometown. My family is there, and I really want to go back. But the thing is, my mom and dad hate my hometown. But I miss them so much I cry. Can you please help me convince them. O yeah it's really far away. PLEASE HELP!

2007-09-23 10:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i dont understand ?? is he just not attracted to me ? would that affect him wen we try to have kids?? how can he stop this addiction?? i had a miscarriage 6 months ago could this have been the reason? he keeps putting off the idea of getting his sperm checked and idk why??? please help

2007-09-23 10:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by live and let live 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the deal is, is that for each merit badge i get done for Eagle Scout i get $40 from my parents (because i havent finished them in forever) and i only have 4 left (citizenship in the community, communications, personal manegment, and family life). i also get $25 every 2 weeks for all the chores i do (i do TONS and im not rich or spoiled). so an ipod vid. cost about 240 and the necklace i want to get my gf for our aniversary cost $200 (dec. is when it is) and i can pay it off over time. i have $100 in my savings now, but i dont know which i should get first. i love her very much but i also love music very much. im 15 (if it matters). so, what do i get first?

2007-09-23 10:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago. it was really painful for me. He was always contacting me even after the break up and was telling me that maybe in the future we can get back together but he doesn't want to continue our long-distance relationship for now. It was difficult for me to know what he really wants because he was always very upset if I told him that I am going to stop all communication with him. I went to see him a month ago and it was very nice and he was with me as if we are still together but then he told me we need to move on at least for now. I was devastated. About 3 weeks ago, I told him final good bye but he called me begging me to answer 3 days later telling me it's too hard. He asked me if I didn't want to save anything and break everything by walking away and cutting all communication. Since then I have taken his words seriously and did not manage to cut all communication. But now when I ask him to talk, he gets all stressed and sounds bothered.

2007-09-23 10:45:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm having an uneven amount of people in my wedding party due to the fact that I have only 1 female friend (the rest are male), no sisters, and only 1 female cousin that I'm close to. So 2 bridesmaids and 4 Groomsmen. My mom seems to have a problem with it. She says it's unwise and keeps giving me attitude about it. When I ask why I HAVE to have it even she ignores me. I'm not going to give in to what she thinks, but I don't see what the problem is. I know it's pretty common to have an uneven wedding party and there is no law saying it has to be even. So why can't she just leave it alone? What can I say to her to make her stop her arguing on the matter?


and btw we're paying for the entire wedding ourselves.

2007-09-23 10:45:14 · 17 answers · asked by Mekana 5 in Weddings

Hi.uh.. sorry for asking this..this was just the only anonymous place i could think of asking a question. I really need advice..
I have this friend, hes 15, he gets bullied a lot in school, he doesnt come from a very nice family, alot of his family are in and out of prison and theyre really poor, this doesnt matter to me but, theres a group of guys at our school who pick on him because of this. there older then him/us. hes stopped coming to school recently.. and i got called into the office to talk to my principle about where he was, and when i last saw him, i just thought he was ill so i hadn't bothered tryin to contact him until then. i didnt tell my parents about that when i got home. i wanted to speak to him though, before the school got a truancy officer involved. so i saw him this weekend.when i spoke to him finally, we talked for ages, and he told me that he got raped by these boys last week. he trusts me to not say anythin to any1. i read male rapes not illegal. can sum1 help

2007-09-23 10:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey guys, here's the deal. I'm quite aware that I've made a lot of mistakes, so please don't reply condemning what I've done. I know that it's going to come back and haunt me; it's already began to. I just need some help turning my life around.

I'm currently a Junior in high school. Last September I moved across country to a new state. I met a wonderful guy, who I'll call Dave (I'm keep everyone anonymous, for safety's sake). He's a strong Christian like I am and he got me connected with a new church and a great youth group. Soon after, we began to go out. We went out for nine months, but in the end, we rarely saw each other. He's an honor student, and when he wasn't working on homework, he's volunteering somewhere (which is not say I think that's bad at all. I admired it, but he just didn't have time for me). After many nights of crying myself to sleep, I decided it was time to end things. I broke up with him a few days later.

2007-09-23 10:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by ohnoitstaytay 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy on the internet 10 days ago, we've chatted and talked on the phone nearly everyday. I already really like him, which is strange, because I don't normally develop feelings that fast, but there's just something about him. Anyways, he claims he's not at a point in his life where he's ready for another relationship, etc. But! I'm falling hard for this guy. I decided to 'end' things with him today because it's starting to worry me about how much I think about him and already like him. He was a bit upset, and told me I couldn't run from things my whole life in order to protect myself (which is what I told him).. Basically, I ended things with an internet-guy because I like him too much too soon, and I'm afraid he's just looking for friends... I'm protecting myself from getting too attached, and ultimately getting hurt. Am I a dumb girl? Should I try and fix things with him, or am I right in ending things? =/ BTW: I'm not a kid..I'm 23

2007-09-23 10:39:00 · 16 answers · asked by jj 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I currently have purple hair and I'm getting married next year.
I really only don't want it to be purple so I don't offend certain family members.
I'm not sure how I feel about it yet.
I have really tan skin and was thinking of a light brown/blondish color or a redder color.
Should I just go with the purple hair I like, because it's MY wedding or should I make family happy. I don't want to hear them complain.
Also, should I leave my hair down to cover the tattoos on my neck or should I just go with an up-do, which is what I prefer?!

2007-09-23 10:35:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-23 10:33:26 · 32 answers · asked by rockies fan 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother and mtoher think i am gay by the way i act.
I am always alone in my room watching t.v or im-ing and my dad is the only one along with my friends that understand me.
I know i am not gay and never will be but should i ignore them or just tell them i am not gay and never will be?

2007-09-23 10:32:53 · 5 answers · asked by Stuffe s 1 in Family

me and one of my freinds have been freinds forever and we have not gone out , we want to but we think we should wait till we get older and more mature. but now he just wants to be freinds and not go out with each other when we grow up and i dont know what to do . i think he is mad because we are not going out but idk .

2007-09-23 10:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by Leticia S 2 in Friends

We have been married 14 years, and like all couples we have had our problems. He has never been the "romantic type" but for the last few years he has been extremely withdrawn. He doesn't do much for me. Never pays attention to me, is always busy doing other things, like watching tv and EBAY! He isnt very sympathetic to me at all. If i am hurt physically or emotionally. I have tried everything i can think of. We have talked about this several times, and he is better for about a week then back to doing nothing.He says he loves me and cares, but why dont i feel like he does? Im just at my wits end. I love him more than anything and have tried so hard to make him feel loved.

2007-09-23 10:26:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my good friends called me today crying. She said that her husband grabbed her wrist hard enough to hurt her because he was angry that she put something in the wrong place and wanted her to put it down when she tried to correct it. This is the second time that something like this has happened (the first time he pushed her a bit) and both times were in front of their children. The strange thing is and this leads me to my question, when he isn't angry anymore he swears he didn't lay a hand on her. In fact he says that she is making it up. She absolutely believes that he doesn't remember doing it, is that possible that someone could be so angry they forget doing something? She also doesn't believe it is abuse because it happens so rarely and when he isn't angry he is a really good husband/father, but I have noticed that he gets angry and yellsover pretty much nothing, he even yells at her in public sometimes. Would you consider that abuse and do you think it will escalate?

2007-09-23 10:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by PinUpGal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up today. I realized that my current situation was not going to change. He couldn't honestly say that he loved me[after 4 years]. He said he "cared". I feel terrible. I had something like an addiction to him. I loved him very deeply ,but he can not even commit to spending more than a day or two with me at a time. He asked why I couldn't leave things as they were. A little support or honesty please! Any suggestions on dealing with the pain. I don't want to be the weekend girlfriend, but I feel I made a terrible mistake.

2007-09-23 10:21:40 · 20 answers · asked by Merrie S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

People always forget i exist. I try to get their attention, but they always forget me in the end. They seem to like me when I'm around but as soon as I'm gone it's like I don't exist. They never go out of their way for me even when I do it for them (call me, invite me anywhere, even talk to me online). I've been in and out a a few different groups of people that I this happens with. They all seem to co-exist with each other, but with me it's a one sided thing. I'm so lonely :(

2007-09-23 10:19:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There are tons of songs about little girls growing up and getting married, but i can't think of anything like that for guys. My brother is getting married and I was asked to put together a slide show of pictures of the bride and groom throughout the years, but I need a song to play while showing pictures of my brother. So any songs about men getting married, or just about men would be great!

I'm thinking about playing "Isnt she Lovely" for the bride, so something that goes along with that would be appreciate, but all ideas are helpful!
Thanks everyone!

2007-09-23 10:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by pirate_kiss06 1 in Weddings

After not even being married 4 months my husband has told me that he's leaving me. He says that he can't handle the commitment of marriage and that he doesn't feel the way he use to about me. He says he can't let go of things from our past that hurt us. I have and I have moved on and want him to do the same. I don't want a divorce but nothing I am saying seems to matter! What can I do to try and save my marriage?

He says he has been to counseling and that everyone has told him to do what he thinks is best. He thinks there is no other option. I need help please.

2007-09-23 10:03:34 · 20 answers · asked by Froggy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you opened my question,you will find me asking help about my problem with my husband.he like to sit on the net than with me.i did do what (impress) told me ,we had a fight cause he was so angry with me cause i refuse to *** with him.i knew that he doesn't watch porn movies or anythings like this.but still have the same problem with him .i even ask him to teach me to drive(i don't drive yet) ,he isn't to excited to do it,he prefer to sit on the computer .i could get rid of the computer ,but i use it sometimes when he is at work to see my parents on the webcam.i dont want him to think of me as a ******,but as a human ,i tried to talk to him nicely ,no use .i dont know what else i can do???

2007-09-23 10:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its fine for her to take my stuff and use my stuff which i dont aprove of!! I tell her off but she doesnt listen... I have to hide everything in my room so she doesnt take it! She even denies taking my stuff but shes the only one who uses it[aswel as me]?!? When it comes to me using her eyeliner ONCE.. or borrowing a hairclip?? She just shouts and moans and call me a b****! Shes getting on my nerves! We just now had an argument about her taking my things and now shes all turning it on me and ignoring me? GRRRRRR shes so annoying! Shes older than me but she acts like a 5 year old! Help.. Its really bringing me down!

Sorry about how much writing i put ;o x

2007-09-23 09:59:39 · 27 answers · asked by Chillax 4 in Family

ive liked this guy for 5 years he never showed much interest as more than friends except in 8th grade he started flirting a lot and treating me the same as some other girls that i know he liked 9th we werent as close at all and we werent this year either until thursday ive been talking to these 2 guys more than i used too and he went up to the teacher and asked if he could sit beside me so he could see the movie and she let him well i started talking to one of my guy friends and my crush put his head on my shoulderi threw an eraser at my guy friend and my crush threw one at me and it went down my shirt he didnt mean for it too and it embarassed him thats unual for him and be4 the end of class i got a sip of his drink he was ok about i then the next day he seemed to want to drink after me again
so whats his problem just jealous or what ? whats the chance he might like me?

2007-09-23 09:57:48 · 4 answers · asked by lifes a pain drama's no game 2 in Singles & Dating

I am very happily married to a my wonderful wife of 20 years. The problem is we never, I mean never have sex. We are very much in love and except for this are very happy. We have have concluded is most likely a hormone issue, we are 47 and 55. She is not willing to have her doctor see her. I think this is due to shyness regarding sex and since she is not missing sex, it is unimportant and not a problem. I don't think she is cheating. We have discussed my needs and how important it is to me, how I am hurting, how tense and frustrated I get. I have also told her several times how much it hurts me on an emotional level, (why isn't she willing to at least go to her female doctor). I have also told her that at times I question if she truly loves me. I have an extremely high sex drive. Even when we first starting dating and having sex 7, 9 times a week I was ready for more. I have been told by many of the girls I dated that I am a a great lover, no brag, just fact. Help! Please

2007-09-23 09:56:55 · 49 answers · asked by bruce j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 09:54:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating