Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

but this girl just wanna talk to you on the phone...but right now im getting tired cause i dont know what to say to her anymore cause with dont even hang out...you really dont have anything to say to a person if you dont go out...but i dont know maybe she just want to take it slow...cause i think she still love her ex boyfriend...

2007-09-23 21:22:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jamsky 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i are expecing a baby and soon to be married.. he is in the army and about to be deployed as well.. i've been trying to get information about the financial aspects after we are married and with the baby to start planning but i cant seem to get a hold of the right people.. i'll be living in indiana when he's in iraq and the thing im trying to find out i guess to start planning on housing is how much they offer for off post housing and what exactly the procedures are for getting it all done.. any help would be greatly appreciated.. thanks a ton!

2007-09-23 21:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Mande 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 21:10:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please provide me a solution for the above question. my whole family members are disturbed, and my another sister is getting marry in Dec. so my elder sister husband is not responding to over the phone or no message is coming for the past 3 days. he is from poor family and not earning much, one interested thing is he is not even small presented to his daugher till now. but we were suppling everything.he has a granny who turtur my sister to whom we have given a house and reside in 1st floor. so he is not at all interested towards family.he is concerned to his sisters so much and presented to them my sister jewellary and not concerned with his daughter.
should my sister go and convince and be with him or get divorce from him

2007-09-23 21:04:40 · 7 answers · asked by sudhamunireddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and i did really like him at first, and then i started to feel like i wasnt interested in him anymore so i ended it, but after i had i really regretted it, and i cant dtop thinking about him, bad thing is he has just started c'in someone else, i dont know what to do its driving me crazy!

2007-09-23 20:57:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had our annual church picnic the other day. It was going good for a while. Then this guy Joe showed up. He's 3 years older than I am, went to high school with him. he's a "member" of our church, but never does anything. We do not like each other. He started problems with me and my 7 year old sister. I was the bigger man. I held my sister's hand and walked away. He pulled me on the shoulder and said don't turn away from him. I told him I want no problems and that to let go of me. Instead, he called me vulgar names and I tried to walk away. He grabbed me by the throat and started to choke me. I know some self-defense. I wasn't going to be choked out. I grabbed his pinkies, bent them backwards, and broke them. I then kneed him in the nuts and grabbed my sister and went to my parents. the members of our church are FURIOUS! I explained to them what I did was within MY right to safety. They said I should've waited for an "adult" to show up (i'm 20) and handle the situation.

2007-09-23 20:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-23 20:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by hainah b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i are engaged in a distant relationship. he's 10yrs older than i and he's currently a year wed to someone who's distant from him also but as to him their marriage is dysfunctional. my parents knew about him but they didn't know yet that we're going steady. they totally opposed the idea. i love them all but i know i have to choose. all my life i obeyed my parents and now i'm experiencing the beauty and the curse of it. beauty: coz without them i won't be where i am now and curse: i don't have the total liberty to choose how i'm going to live my life. i have seen how my parents worked so hard even if at times they are mocked and belittled. i am already 23 yrs old but i always consider their advise and sentiments. I am now confused of how to do about it. My boyfriend is my first and we're totally in love and even considered the idea of getting married after his marriage is anulled but would it be selfish if i'll choose him over my parents?

2007-09-23 20:51:35 · 15 answers · asked by alexae t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Marriage is one of the biggest committments you will ever make. It takes trust, devotion, patience, compromise, teamwork... I could go on and on. I want to know what you guys think is the hardest thing about marriage, and be HONEST. Do you think it's:
*Having to always consider someone else along with (or ahead of) yourself
*Having to see and put up with the same person every day for years
*Having to resist the temptation of other people
*Your partner's unchangeable "quirks"
*Or something else, whatever you think is the hardest thing.
To me, it would probably be my husband's "quirks." They aren't really quirks; he suffers from a mental illness and some emotional/psychological problems that make him hard to deal with at times. I would say learning how to deal with those things was the hardest part of marrying him, because once I married him that was it. I bought it, whether I wanted it or not, so to speak. But that's kind of a unique thing. I want to hear what ya'll think.

2007-09-23 20:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend and I were tighter than tight. weve done "stuff" ive never done with anyone else...before i realised she was going out with this guy...and from there everything changed .
I treated her as a priority while she treated me as an option.

She says she still wants to be friends but alot of damage has been done, i realised she slept with ma brother, and now that she and i are not close like before, she spends time with another brother of mine, not the one she slept with.....well I love her as a friend ...i wana move on without her but i dont know how to do that coz she says she wants us to be best friends again....but the trust I had for her is no longer there.

She is a nice person but the things she does do not add up...i wonder why she hurts me if she really loves me...i wonder why I had to find out from other people that she had a boyfriend coz she dint tell me....she only admitted when i told her i know about it.
what do i do??

2007-09-23 20:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by risper 1 in Friends

& how often do they have BIG sales?

2007-09-23 20:38:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When I came to the office today, I saw the till was not closed, and the money in there was not put into the safe. I saw those things so I immediately ran away. I didn't know whether I should tell my boss or not because there's been stealing in my offices. I feared that she might be suspecting me of stealing money when the till was open. So I decided not to ring my boss. Then she came in with another staff. And I have not told her for the whole day. When I talked to it to my dad, he said I should not go to see the till and it's all my responbility for not telling the boss about it. I am not sure whether I should do now because it seems to me that it's now to late to tell her all this.....I am very confused and my dad said my boss is not going to trust me anymore...what should I do now?

2007-09-23 20:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by Denim 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend and I broke up 4 yrs ago (we were together 4 yrs). Since then, we've been in contact on and off just as good old friends. He lives in another continent. He broke it up with me cause he couldnt get his head around marriage and I felt one day Id like a child. Anyhow, thing is I was very close to his parents & even grandparents. Recently his mother was in my city for a visit and we met up a few times. She was raving at 'how glamourous I look' and took pictures. She invited me to visit them & stay in her place for a few mths. She wanted to know if Id met anyone recently. My exs 2 best mates have just settled down. A few days go she emailed meto say she had shown the photos to my ex and noe 'hes more & more interested in visiting the country I live in '. Am I imagining it or is she trying to get us married? Is this bizarre? Please opinions on this!!!

2007-09-23 20:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by profe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 20:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by lindag4248 1 in Friends

I'm staying with my fiance at his parents for a few weeks. We keep having arguments because I still talk to an ex he doesnt understand why I cant just drop everything from my past. He says he got rid of everything from his last gf but I've been tidying while he's out and just found sex toys belonging to his ex (at least I hope) should I say something or pretend I havent saw them?

2007-09-23 20:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie M 2 in Singles & Dating

How come?

2007-09-23 20:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by Serba Tau 2 in Singles & Dating

she seems to be thinking about something else, but when i took her home she asked me if we were going to go out again and i said do you want to and she said she had a good time and wanted to see me agian

so what is the deal

2007-09-23 20:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to want to screw someone that was the best ever again if your married to someone else?shouldn't a woman always be satisfied and is that enough reason for a divorce if your not being sexualy satisfied, my husband is wellened out he just doesn't do much foreplay nor does he last very long he's turned into a 2 second guy is it time for a divorce or viagra?

2007-09-23 20:18:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 20:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by The Answer 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex-girlfriend means the world to me and i always want her to be happy even if she's not with me. She went through a hard relationship and she came out of that really hurt and i think thats why we didnt last every long together. And now she is beginning to fall for some one that i know will hurt her more then the guy before me did and i cant stand to watch her go into that again. I know a lot of people. so when i want to know something, i get my answer. you see me and my ex have been getting into it a lot about how she just thinks Im jealous of this guy and that I dont know what type of person he is and that he doesnt lie to her like i did, and i did lie to her but a did it so she wouldnt leave me but that didnt make it right. back to what i was saying, i wasnt going asking about this guy, but a couple people have already came to me and told me that he lies to her and they aint dating. But i don't know how to tell her to where she doesn't think im just trying to get her back by lying

2007-09-23 20:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Alan L 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband will not throw away stuff and he goes through the trash 2 c what I have tossed. I know its because he was poor as a child but I need to rid my house of the clutter. Any ideas??

2007-09-23 20:12:41 · 11 answers · asked by GabbyGal 4 in Family

2007-09-23 20:09:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mind

2007-09-23 20:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by ashishplanman 1 in Singles & Dating

and they say they have issues to work out, but you never get to know the Issue? This happened once before we even went on a real date, it was one of them match date sites. I know it bugged me,I wondered if the issue was a penis type issue! I personally preffer any rejection straight up and honest, that dont hurt, always wondering..that can hurt more I think.

2007-09-23 20:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 20:06:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together 21 yrs and married 18 yrs. He was always a very loving person but for several months now he has been yelling at our children all the time. He has had a lot going on. He has had 2 knee replacements in a years time on the same knee and he can no longer work. I know that is really bothering him and he is always in pain. I just don't know what to do. I can't stand him yelling and cussing at our children, they are teens. Also his brother and his children are pretty well staying with us while they get their place ready to move into, which is an extra sourse of stress. My husband complains cuz we are not having sex but he has been so hateful lately that I can't stand the idea of being intimate with him. I'm too mad at him cuz of the way he's been treating people. We are going to start counseling, all of us.
I guess my question is what should I do? I love him with all my heart, I just can't stand the way he is right now.

2007-09-23 20:01:48 · 24 answers · asked by sara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if u can be married for a period of time,whats the point of having
kids if u can't watch them grow up,and what if a couple has a good relationship which lasted more than 7 years,so the point is why marry if
u can stay with a certain person legally for a period of time?

2007-09-23 20:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've liked this guy for a while now and I want to stop liking him already! So I need help trying to get over him and please don't say to not get over him and i should talk to him adn stuff becasue its complicated and I just can't do that. So please give me what ever advice you have. Thankz

2007-09-23 20:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't really get any advice from friends and family on this one for obvious reasons, and to be honest I probably know what kind of responses I may get, but I am interested in what some people may I have to say.
Well up until 2 weeks ago I was very happily married. No doubts about that. I have been married for nearly 10 years and have never strayed or wanted to. Then I met a girl nearly 10 years younger than me. We hit it off straight away. We are very, very similar in our likes and dislikes etc - it is almost like we are sole-mates. It's quite frightening really. Anyway, we have met on a few occasions now and I can see myself falling for her more and more. From the things she is saying to me I get the same impression from her. When I'm not with her I feel sick and depressed. I really miss her and want to be with her. She is also in a long term relationship and so we both find it difficult to talk over the weekend and in the evenings, but during those times all I do is think of her.

2007-09-23 20:00:16 · 38 answers · asked by moodyGlen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I woke up during the night feeling unwell and this morning i feel even worse. I really don't think i can attend school today as I feel un-well. How can i tell me my mum i dob't think i can go to school without her just thinking I want the day off school because I can't be bothered ???

2007-09-23 19:56:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce