my friend and I were tighter than tight. weve done "stuff" ive never done with anyone else...before i realised she was going out with this guy...and from there everything changed .
I treated her as a priority while she treated me as an option.
She says she still wants to be friends but alot of damage has been done, i realised she slept with ma brother, and now that she and i are not close like before, she spends time with another brother of mine, not the one she slept with.....well I love her as a friend ...i wana move on without her but i dont know how to do that coz she says she wants us to be best friends again....but the trust I had for her is no longer there.
She is a nice person but the things she does do not add up...i wonder why she hurts me if she really loves me...i wonder why I had to find out from other people that she had a boyfriend coz she dint tell me....she only admitted when i told her i know about it.
what do i do??
2007-09-23 20:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by risper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You almost sound like a spurned lover than a best friend. Get past the fact she's slept w/ your brother, friends w/ your other brother---and has a boyfriend....unless you once dated the boyfriend....then, another facet of this story unfolds.....
Best friends can still make time to be with each other---given the expceptions of marriage, which can strain a best friendship because life changes for all involved.
Be a "I'll believe it when I see it happen" girl--get past the other stuff and carry on w/ your life.
2007-09-23 20:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To have good friends, you must be one. Listen to her, but you have "gut" feelings and they are just as important. Once trust has been betrayed, it's very difficult to regain for humans.
2007-09-24 04:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by uhoh002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋