I'm staying with my fiance at his parents for a few weeks. We keep having arguments because I still talk to an ex he doesnt understand why I cant just drop everything from my past. He says he got rid of everything from his last gf but I've been tidying while he's out and just found sex toys belonging to his ex (at least I hope) should I say something or pretend I havent saw them?
2007-09-23 20:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw the ex I was only with for a few weks when we realised we should have ust been friends, its only a txt every couple of weeks
2007-09-23 20:34:51 · update #1
I'd say mention the sex toys, but jokingly, and not in a "WTF??" manner. As for the ex, if it matters that much to your fiance, you should really consider dropping him. Afterall, this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, right? Give a little to get a little. G-luck!
2007-09-23 20:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by rabu_kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay tell him.
-we are going to get married soon. I don't want to fight and agrue over small matters.
-you still love me right?
-And of cousre I love you too.
-About the ex I'm sorry maybe I think even though we are ex we still can stay as friends.
-and sweetie(whatever you called him) I found some sex toys is it yours or mine.(laugh off.)
**my point is don't fight.loose things up a little. don't spoil your relationship just because of small things not worth it. God bless.
2007-09-23 20:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by freako03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to immediately stop communicating with your ex's. What the hell is wrong with you? Either go back to the losers that you used to date or forget about them. What makes you think it's right to talk to an ex while you are in a relationship? Do you realize how uncomfortable that makes him feel?
Maybe you will get the point when he starts screwing his ex on the side. Then maybe you will get the drift that what you are doing is completely wrong.
I hope he was using the toys on his ex, he doesnt need to be with a piece of trash like yourself.
Grow up.
PS. What I just wrote to you is known as tough love. Don't take it personally.
2007-09-23 20:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by pokerfan77 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I understand he is upset you still in cntact with your ex but I dont think he is keeping the sex toys from his ex is the same thing and I wouldnt say anything if you already fight over your ex.If you love him think of his feelings
2007-09-23 20:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See how it goes. If he's crawling under your skin, show him the toys.
Or hide them, and see how he reacts, but act a tiny bit suspicious ( I wouldn't suggest this, because its evil).
Take photo's of them ofcourse, but they could be for you, so I denro....*cough bridal shower?* (Not sure, haven't been invited to the pre-parties of a wedding, and still too young anyway).
2007-09-23 20:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how do you know its not his parents? or presents for you? Whatever it is if it bothers you then you can ask him about it. But if its no big deal then dont bring it up just let him know you found somethigns as you were cleanning and didnt know where you wanted me to put them or if should throw them away.
2007-09-23 20:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jimsenite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to grow up and stop playing games. Who keeps sex toys from different partners? UGHHH!
2007-09-23 20:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by JG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a relationship. I talk to my ex every now and again. My girlfriend talks to her ex. Its no big deal.
2007-09-23 20:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him tell him what you found and give him a good doing off.
2007-09-23 21:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by Bombshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. I would just say something just to bother him about it.
wth?
lmao to the person above me.
its true though....
2007-09-23 20:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Alisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋