My ex boyfriend and I broke up 4 yrs ago (we were together 4 yrs). Since then, we've been in contact on and off just as good old friends. He lives in another continent. He broke it up with me cause he couldnt get his head around marriage and I felt one day Id like a child. Anyhow, thing is I was very close to his parents & even grandparents. Recently his mother was in my city for a visit and we met up a few times. She was raving at 'how glamourous I look' and took pictures. She invited me to visit them & stay in her place for a few mths. She wanted to know if Id met anyone recently. My exs 2 best mates have just settled down. A few days go she emailed meto say she had shown the photos to my ex and noe 'hes more & more interested in visiting the country I live in '. Am I imagining it or is she trying to get us married? Is this bizarre? Please opinions on this!!!
2007-09-23 20:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by profe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she found you to be the ideal girl for her son so maybe she is tryin to get that old spark going for you guys...
2007-09-23 20:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be trying to get you back together. She likes you and that must be a compliment.Not all mothers like any girl that their sons like.Coz they feel none are good enough.So you are lucky!! At least if you got together you know you would have a nice mother in-law!! But I guess that is definately up to you and the guy involved. And lots can happen after four years.You may be quite different people now.Best wishes whatever happens!!
2007-09-24 04:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Forgetmenotshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years ago! seems a long time to me. Have you not had another boy friend in those years. Do you still love him more than a friend. Really it is a great compliment that his mother has chosen you, as mothers only ever want the best for their sons.
2007-09-24 04:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt really matter what shes trying to do, your ex isnt interested in settling down with you,he's already made that clear to you and nothing you or his mum do is going to change that. funny how all your men seem to be in 'another country' isnt it, i'd lay money the only place they are is in your head.
2007-09-24 05:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bizzare at all.
May be the boy realised that you are best and his Mother is taking charge to bring you together.
Go for it baby.
Its amazing that is whole family likes you and I think thats GREAT.
2007-09-24 04:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by **tomtom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex's parents and grandparents got use to the sight of you two together...I mean who wouldn't think you two would be good for each other after 4 years of being together. His mom isn't trying to push marriage in both your lives. She just wants you two to be together again...If she does push for marriage and you two aren't together...let her know...if you two are together and she pushes for marriage and you're not ready...talk to her...
2007-09-24 03:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by [Kwaj♥]--Maika'i-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex's mom is playing cupid; not clever at it---but sure seems she's trying. You gotta give mom some credit for effort.
2007-09-24 03:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She like u...She thinks that ur the ideal girl for her son...However, what she feels shoukdn affect urs or his decisons... Take care!
2007-09-24 03:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Helena K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mother wants the best for her son.natural, in her eyes you are obviously the best. take it as a complement.
2007-09-24 03:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by andy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but you cant be forced into marraige, remember that.
2007-09-24 03:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋