2007-09-23 20:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by hainah b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its not my number one priority but I have to be attract to the person I'm marring but I want him to have a good personality and be kind then maybe his looks. But I'm lucky my hubby is quite hot and a great guy
2007-09-24 08:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and like a 50s song once said; "if you want to be happy the rest of your life, make an ugly woman/man your wife/husband." That pretty much holds true nowadays. Go for inner beauty and brains, the rest is just icing on the cake.
2007-09-24 04:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the husband or wife is normal looking, physical beauty is not important. Whats more imp is to see that you both have the same values and want the same thing out of marriage.
2007-09-24 04:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by susan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that a joke? Physical beauty tells you absolutely nothing about what kind of person someone is. They could be very good looking and a total asshole. Or someone could be not that great looking and be really wonderful. If you marry for looks you are making a huge mistake. You should marry for love. And you can't love someone based on what they look like. It's impossible. You can want them. You can desire them. But you can't love them.
2007-09-24 03:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after many long years of being alone deciding at one point in my life that finding one special one was not to be for me after pouring my heart out in words of rhyme and thought one day a black widow spider slendid in beauty,articulate,who seemed to know my every move and thought almost had her way with me simply because I thought her beauty unmatched was enough.
I saw in time , however her beauty and sensual ways will never be matched,and after her I had not looked again until only recently yet her beauty is still the standard and guage though I know beauty is not all,it has been over 13 years since I've dated since her,now I begin perhaps too late searching again.
But no beauty is not enough though yes once I felt it to be very important in considering a wife.
2007-09-24 05:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by stevenseeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you feel that you are attracted to a person in a physical way then that is all that matters. You are the one in the relationship with that person and they with you so if you like each other then all is well.
2007-09-24 03:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by Chipslittlepunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering that the ultimate use of our genes is to pass them on, beauty is a marker that denotes a healthy condition. i suppose that if you don't intend to have children, then the conditions that seem healthier to you are more open to interpretation. interestingly, it must be questioned that if you don't factor the genetic significance of beauty, is it because you're genetically predispositioned to ignore it or does your choice in not having children cause you to choose mates who aren't physically beautiful?
2007-09-24 04:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed along with mental if both mutual relations and adjustment for convinience. majorly mind mentality of two people how they like. What they given importance to the thing or person.
2007-09-24 04:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by MANJUNATH S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't matter unless if you are trying to hybrid your offsprings. for me, physical beauty is superficial. it only tells about 25% of the personality of the person but if your a risk taker... then good luck... just think of living a life with that person... can you handle it?
2007-09-24 04:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by alexae t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I value what is in the heart and soul.
2007-09-24 05:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Eyed Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋