and they say they have issues to work out, but you never get to know the Issue? This happened once before we even went on a real date, it was one of them match date sites. I know it bugged me,I wondered if the issue was a penis type issue! I personally preffer any rejection straight up and honest, that dont hurt, always wondering..that can hurt more I think.
2007-09-23 20:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called game playing, and the issue is they have no clue what they really think or feel, especially if the can't tell you. Go find someone who has their act together, and make sure this issue laiden fool know about it when you do.
2007-09-23 20:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly it doesn't bother me to be rejected like it did when i was younger. i've never had a guy use that one. my personal favorite was the call i got from a guy who persued me. it was just before i went to work, i was 19 at the time. the call went like this i know we've never fought but i'm getting back together with my old girlfriend so i won't be seeing you anymore. the latest thing was just within the last 6 months. met a guy at the bar my son works at got along real well he gave me his phone # called him a day or so later. he was not able to talk he was with his kids. he called me a time later maybe days i don't remember how long. then nothing for 6 months then he calls me 3 times in a matter of days. i didn't answer his calls due to caller id. here's where i was after 2 calls with no date. i thought he was into me he wasn't, thought i was into him i'm not as i need a little more time, attention, and sex then the 6 month plan. THE END *******they're like buses wait. another one will come along. i find that as women and men get older their roles reverse in talking to other women they feel the same way. no spending the night, no lets snuggle. it's, your job is done and now it's time for you to go. BY! it really hacks a man off when you tell him now you have to get dressed and leave. see what i mean about role reversal!!
2007-09-24 03:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pfff!
Thats EXACTLY what i seem to blessed with as of now.
I've known this guy since I was 20 yrs old. We've always had this great connection, he'd even tell ya that.
But...something never right with him.
I'm never good enough.
No matter how attracted he continues to get to me over the years, he still pushes me away as far as a relationship goes.
Oh, but he wants to sleep with me. Oh yeah....a nice screw here n there.
That's what he wants.
I want love.
Commitment. Nothing more, nothing less.
He's 3 yrs. younger than me. I think he just needs to mature.
2007-09-24 03:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo's Eternal Reign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really want to know what it is thats bothering them you ask them about it and be nice and respectful that you wont judge them for it, and when you find out if it really is an issue for them or for you then decide on what you guys should do about it. But if he doenst want to say then its his loss and you can make him do anything he doesnt want to do, but make him understand what he can possibily lose because of it and maybe then he can realize whats important, his self esteem or to over come his fears with you and him together. Or he could be lying to you, but no matter what you deserve to know the truth.
2007-09-24 03:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jimsenite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right, it is sucks....if someone gets rejected you and never tells the truth what his in mind....For me, honesty is the best policy.....Yeah, the more you feels something with this guy the more it gets hurt you!!! so if i were you, go and talk to him and ask, what's going on or what's the real score right?????
2007-09-24 03:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, wife, or boyfriend, husband. That to me makes no sense to tell someone they have strong feelings but have things to work out. just say "NOT RIGHT NOW!"
2007-09-24 03:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by agello24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him, he probably is still having wife problems.
Thirty-five percent of the people who use personal ads for dating are already married.
2007-09-24 03:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh why don you let him read between the ur lines gal not this way round. Dont bother they are better catch than this jerk
2007-09-24 03:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by sheadrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it would!
girl..if he's not serious abt u , leave it be..let not think much abt it..let him do the chasing..u just run ur own life...
2007-09-24 03:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by LadyN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but i dont sit with it
2007-09-24 03:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by S S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋