my ex-girlfriend means the world to me and i always want her to be happy even if she's not with me. She went through a hard relationship and she came out of that really hurt and i think thats why we didnt last every long together. And now she is beginning to fall for some one that i know will hurt her more then the guy before me did and i cant stand to watch her go into that again. I know a lot of people. so when i want to know something, i get my answer. you see me and my ex have been getting into it a lot about how she just thinks Im jealous of this guy and that I dont know what type of person he is and that he doesnt lie to her like i did, and i did lie to her but a did it so she wouldnt leave me but that didnt make it right. back to what i was saying, i wasnt going asking about this guy, but a couple people have already came to me and told me that he lies to her and they aint dating. But i don't know how to tell her to where she doesn't think im just trying to get her back by lying
2007-09-23 20:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Alan L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you lied to her, you lost your chance. I wish I could say barge in on their date and tell the guy to beat it, but who your ex girlfriends dates is her business, and since she already knows what you think of him you can't go pestering her about it. Let this guy have the same chance you had. It's up to her, if she's really the girl you see in her, to realize eventually that this man will not do for her. In the meantime, don't bring him up if you're talking to her. God bless.
2007-09-23 20:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was gonna say to tell her how you feel but you have done that already so all you can do now is let her find out for herself. she is not going to listen to someone who couldnt do right by her from start anyways so stop trying to save her. sometimes people have to find out for themselves even if it hurts. you did what you could and leave it at that or else you are more likely to make her think you are jealous of the boyfriend.
2007-09-23 20:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see you really loved her.
But when it's time to let go, let go.
Okay I know you wouldn't so here's the thing.
Try to find prove that that guy is not as good as she thinks I know that your ex will get angry with you even though you got the prove but stay strong. Tell her that you still care about her. Tell her why are you so obsessed about this particular guy.
Tell her everything you writing here.
2007-09-23 20:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by freako03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age previous dilema of chum or boy. that's your determination to make, yet easily i see 2 recommendations. you are able to injury it off with shawn, and shop your chum. or you are able to shop dating shawn. if rachel is easily over him, it won't be lots of a topic. yet whilst she's no longer, and you hold going out with shawn, you may lose her. you may desire to maintain sneaking around in the back of her back, yet those issues are stressful to maintain up, and probability is she would be in a position to be sure interior the top. tought difficulty, yet basically you additionally could make the determination.
2016-10-09 18:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"my ex-girlfriend means the world to me ....... i always want her to be happy even if she's not with me......beginning to fall for some one that i know will hurt her more"
That should do the trick, now run to her window and sing that to her!
2007-09-23 20:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she does not believe you check for herself, and drop it. You are not responsible for her any longer, and you can't force her to believe you. Just be a friend when she gets hurt.
2007-09-23 20:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of other women out there. Find a better one, that wont turn you into her ex. Good luck!
2007-09-23 20:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant unless you use restraints on her, once the mind is locked in the illision of love ....its all denial from then on even if the dude steals all her money for Crack..even if he beats her.
it takes time for some to wake up...some never do.
welcome to life
2007-09-23 20:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i sent u a message about that question u asked me!
2007-09-24 13:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Softball Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit trying to save her and move on, she is
2007-09-23 20:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by dianamapley59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋