Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

One parent (father) says I'm welcome to live at home as long as I follow the rules, help out around the house, etc (which I do). Im not a bum by the way. I could move out if I wanted, but I am working on saving up some money which is the whole point in me staying here.

The other (step-mother) parent says that grown people have their own places and that I need to go ahead and move out.

It makes me feel that I am stuck in the middle. By all rights, it is THEIR house, but like I said, dad says I am welcome to stay and that it's ok. Should I consider what step-mom says and move out or continue to take up my dad's offer?

I don't want to cause problems.

2007-09-23 16:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by florita 4 in Family

2007-09-23 16:49:24 · 4 answers · asked by Taylor H 2 in Singles & Dating

One more thing:
He is a cute guy who you just met because he asked for your opinion on something

2007-09-23 16:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by Chipmunkz R Awesome! 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you like your women to do to you when you make-out? As in run her fingers though your hair, touch you neck, kiss you neck, ect…? The reason I am asking is that I have a boyfriend, and I don’t know what to do to/for him during a make-out session to make him feel nice. And please, please, nothing like “rubbing” him, if you know what I mean. I was just curious as to what other men liked.

2007-09-23 16:48:00 · 3 answers · asked by mskaityw 3 in Singles & Dating

In the past I've been a shy person to people who I don't know well. Now I'm starting to develop more and be more open since I'm a freshman at college now. I just need some advice on how to be more outgoing or confident in what I say to others. Any advice how to raise my brave would be great. Thank you all for reading.

2007-09-23 16:47:11 · 3 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

please I don't wanna end blackies life I will miss her so much I have known since she was born and I saw her mom giving birth to her and and and well I have already lost her 2 sisters please please help me *cries* please please please I beg you if no vet tells me ask your mom that is a vet please please I don't wanna end her life please please

2007-09-23 16:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Family

Plz lots of answers!!

2007-09-23 16:45:46 · 1 answers · asked by Claire K 1 in Singles & Dating

before the computer breaks
before they shut the computer off because of unpaid bills
before your house is on fire
before death
before something happens to them and they can't use the computer anymore.

For the people that are very close to each in here, don't you think about those things?

2007-09-23 16:45:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I Just started talking to a girl on the phone. She exchanged email for a while, she is older to me but i think she is ok...I dont have an accent like her but does that make a difference....i really am new to this dating thing and i wont say its dating..its like getting to know each other first...i need ur advice ....i wanna know what shd i talk to her abd next time i talk to her on the phone...we started emailing coz we both were looking...but still i dunno what to talk to her about...please tell me all that i can talk about on the phone....i think she is sweet..and shy...please advice me..thanks to u guys in advance...thanks.

2007-09-23 16:45:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 16:44:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How important is it? Would you break up with her just because she does not want to have sex with you even if you really like her?

2007-09-23 16:44:28 · 31 answers · asked by anna118@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

My MIL(soon to be) owes me and my partner $20grand for some property anyway she has failed to stick to the agreement and still 1 and a half years later shes not giving it, we asked for $15.00 at least a week and she said no so i'm so sick of crying over this that i have started seeking advice of a lawyer, my partners away for another 4 weeks so i will get his back up first of cousre, i know hes not keen but we have tried soooo many times that this is the fianl option. what will happen to my partners family will they hate him forever i really feel for him in this situation but i want my money should i bite the bullet and just go for it?.

2007-09-23 16:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay, first of all i don't want any stupid answers, i want serious answers only. I've had this girl friend (not girlfriend) who was a family friend of mine which i've known for five years. I thought i knew her really well, but apparently not. i feel a little shocked about what i found out about her on the internet; i'll never be able to look at her in the same way. I don't know what to do because i feel responsible for her well being, and it seems like she has no support from anyone and she always makes harmful choices. I don't know how to deal with this. I don't want to confront her, because she'll probably start to cry. please help!

2007-09-23 16:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i always do and i get alot of weird attention for something i feel is not a big deal.

2007-09-23 16:38:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm almost 16 and I've still haven't had my first kiss. I just think it's so unbelievable pathetic that I've haven't had a guy show the least bit of interest in me since sixth grade. Now I'm in tenth and I hear all the other girls talking about having sex and their great boyfriends and going to parties. I just try to fill up my free time with extracirrculersa and I study a lot but that doesn't make me feel any better. I try to tell myself it will be betters in a few years. These other girls will end up with ten screaming kids working at walmart and on welfare by 30. I'll end up a lawyer or something and meet a nice guy in college and only end up with two or three prefectly behaved kids. It doesn't make me feel any better. Yeah, I'm a virgin and I'm in 10th grade and I know I shouldn't be worring or thinking about all this, but I still feel really enviouis of the other girls. No boy ever pays attention to me, they never even ask me out. Honestly, how pathetic do you think I am?

2007-09-23 16:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 16:36:18 · 13 answers · asked by ¶-ÑØ FÈÅR ÑØ §URRÈÑÐÈR-¶™ 4 in Singles & Dating

for example, with someone who your family said wasn't "good enough"?

2007-09-23 16:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother and his wife and her 23 year old pregnant daughter and HER 4 year old daughter moved in with my husband and our 5 children about a month ago.
Everything was alright when it was just my brother and even when his step-daughter and her 4 year old moved in, but when my sister-in-law came...things went south. She would tell me these ridiculous stories that were out and out lies (because she couldn't remember the lie she had told the 1st time) she would wear my things without asking, and the 4year old (her grand daughter) would pretty much do whatever and when I would tell her no she would basically tell me that "she only minded her grandma", and when I would tell her grandma, she'd pretty much laugh.
So needless to say I was a little frusterated by the situation and I was using another forum similar to this one to vent and because I copy and pasted...she accidentally read it while pasting something of her own.

2007-09-23 16:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by kristilkleer 2 in Family

If they were really sorry

2007-09-23 16:31:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently attended a wedding of a family member and of course that means I had to interact with my extended family. My female cousin of the same age (28) was the one who got married. I being a single guy (always have been) went to the wedding by myself. I was one of a very small handful of adults who showed up alone. Then came the questions, such as, When are you getting married? Lol, I told them I had no idea since I haven't even had a girlfriend yet. Then the conversations got deeper and they learned I still lived at home. They said that was unhealthy etc. I finally told them to mind their own business and assured them everything in my life was going according to plan. That didn't satisfy them, so I left and went home very early. Why do we get so much pressure from our elders and peers to do things we aren't ready for or interested in, particularly getting married? I thought these days people are more accepting of those who choose to remain single for life.

2007-09-23 16:28:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

2007-09-23 16:28:03 · 8 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 16:27:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well the guy i lie got hit really hard at the football game on friday.. and he had to go to the hospital.. he got out that night and called me at 11:11.. he called me even before his best friend.. and i have talked to him every day just to make sure he is ok.. and today after i ased him how he was and he said he had a head ach but he was good i was all like well thats good.. and then he was like you should give me a hug tomorrow.. what do you thin it all means?? do you think i have a chance with him? i have liked him for so long and i would like for him to likke me back.. how do you think i could talk to him?

2007-09-23 16:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Danni 2 in Singles & Dating

I think love turns me on
more than just seeing naked woman...is there something wrong with me?

2007-09-23 16:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by CoolDude3 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it's kinda stupid question, but maybe when I explain more you gonna understand what I mean. so here we go.
I am kinda shy guy, but also I like parties too, every weekend I have party with many friends.
I usually drink and talk to people and laugh,
I don't dance I don't do crazy things.
when I come to a house party, while girls and boys are dancing sometimes they stop dancing, or when I get into a room which has many girls and boys doing crazy thing, they immediatly stop it.
I feel really bad when people do like this because of me.
I don't know why they do like this, is it because I don't do the same what they do, or because they have something else and they don't want me to join them.
this case not only on parties sometimes it happens anywhere else.
I feel people observe me more than others, and then they don't act like normal. and it's obvious with people who I meet them first time(new people)

2007-09-23 16:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by Homie 2 in Friends

I moved to Los Angeles 10 mths ago to be closer to a special woman. However, in February I caused a scene. In May we started hangin out on a limited basis. Now however it has been nearly 4 months since we talked. I really want to get her back into my life. Not to pressure her, but just spend time together. What should I do?

2007-09-23 16:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by JON H 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I do about this situation? There's been this guy that I've had a thing for, for almost a year now, and things are starting to get better now that a new school year has started. The only thing is that i got told by one of my friends that he likes me, but is worried because there is a lot of guys that are my friends (and his) that like me. He thinks that if he dates me, they'll get mad at me and won't talk to me. She said, he said he could care less if he got hurt by them, but is worried about their reaction towards me. What can I do about this.... lots of my guy friends do like me, and i don't want to lose that friendship, but i really really really like him? What could I do to show him that i don't care...

2007-09-23 16:17:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine decided she wants to do drugs and apparently now has and continues to do so, I am personally quite opposed to illegal drugs and I don't want to be associated with a druggy, I told her I didn't want to be friends with someone who does drugs and she said then leave to which I did. Did I do something wrong?

2007-09-23 16:15:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-23 16:14:59 · 26 answers · asked by Kathy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe in it? Do you think it even exsist anymore?
I have a saying that is harsh but...rather true. "A True Love will wait centuries to unleash it's bowels of intimacy and passion. While empty love is handed over to fools and played out daily."
.....Never thought you read a love quote with the word "bowels" in it, did ya? *lol* But, I wrote that down one night after quietly observing a small group of friends with their "spouses".
I'm a full blood Virgo and with that comes random brashness but....sometimes, you need a shrill voice in the room to get the real meaning of life and its many obstacles. Not that I know it. I am after all just a true stoner at heart that loves her Pugs more than cream cheese.
So, what do you think, my friends? Love? Does it really exsist? Or is it just a fabrication produced simply for movie buffs and lonely hopefuls with nothing else to do but simply...hope. Give me your feedback. I'm open minded and I respect everyone's views.

2007-09-23 16:12:17 · 21 answers · asked by Virgo's Eternal Reign 3 in Singles & Dating