How important is it? Would you break up with her just because she does not want to have sex with you even if you really like her?
2007-09-23 16:44:28 · 31 answers · asked by anna118@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely "no". Sex can wait after you get married.
2007-09-23 16:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by cowsmoo1711 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if I loved her and she did not feel like she was ready for sex, or was wanting to wait until our relationship grew, no I would not break up with her. Sex is not the only thing in a relationship, there are a lot of things more important than sex. The fact is girls should not rush into having sex with a guy they are dating until she is fully ready and knows that the guy is truly in love with her and that he respects her. So no I would not break up with a girl I loved just because she was not ready to have sex with me. It is far more important that she loves me, and enjoys being around me and with me. It is smart if a girl does not have sex with a guy until she is ready and wants to, and knows the guy loves her. Some guys will date a girl for a few weeks or a month or so, just to have sex with her then the jackass breaks up with her. I have seen it happen before, it's sad but true. You just have to show him you love him by being with him and enjoy spending time together. You all should be wonderful friends and able to talk about anything and everything. He should want to spend time with you, holding you, kissing you and doing things for you. He should above all show you love and respect for your feelings. So no I would not break up with a girl because of that at all. =)
2007-09-23 16:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
How long have you been dating?
How well does he know you? And you, him?
Are you a virgin? Is he?
There are too many other questions involved to just 'answer' this.
Obviously, the younger and less mature and inexperienced you are, the less sex should play a factor in your relationship. Just because some horny pimply-faced high school guy wants to have sex with you, as in "if you really loved me you'd let me do you" (which is retarded logic, by the way), doesn't mean there aren't nice guys who won't pressure you for sex out there.
2007-09-23 17:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brutal truth, sex is the biggest thing in a relationship to the majority of men. If you are a teenager, don't do anything you are not comfortable with though. Sex in a relationship is great, but also makes things complicated. So if you are a virgin or don't want the relationship to include sex, then state so and leave it up to him as to whether he can deal with that. If it's not a big deal to you (to have sex) go ahead and enjoy! Hope that helps.
2007-09-23 16:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by babalu2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is important. But it shouldn't be the deciding factor of whether a relationship lasts or not.
2007-09-23 16:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on the beginning of the relationship if you tell a guy your not ready to have sex he should respect that, but if he tries to pressure you he's not worth your time. Also, if a girl is a tease that just would piss a guy off you shouldn't show the goods if your not going to offer the goods. Thats my advice.
2007-09-23 16:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jake B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, for most if not all men its extremely important. Guys dont put as much value on hugging and kissing as women do. We are driven to need sex by our genes, and we also desire it because we understand that our women only share it with us and no one else...its how we express our love and in turn its what makes us feel needed.
2007-09-23 16:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by Danny N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As an adult it would make some difference depends how deep the relationship is, but Teen's the best way to ruin things is have sex when you shouldn't
2007-09-23 16:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur going out and stuff it's not really that important (we want to do it but it's not the biggest thing in the world) how ever is your dating or even b/f , g/f and u've been going out for some time then i'd prolly b very mad i'd try 2 work it out wit her and if nothing happened or if she had a good enough reason i'd leave her or stay with her ... depends how she is .
2007-09-23 16:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt break up with her if she didnt want to have sex until she was ready, but if she didnt want to for the rest of her life id leave her. Sex is important but for me if they want to wait till they are married thats fine by me, theres other stuff we ca do to have a good time
2007-09-23 16:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is. It's like the ultimate expression of love. But I also only have sex with people that I'm in love with. If my significant other suddenly said that she didn't want to have sex anymore then I would probably feel that she didn't love me anymore. From my experience.. people who are in love "want" to have sex.
2007-09-23 16:50:02 · answer #11 · answered by David W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋