I know it's kinda stupid question, but maybe when I explain more you gonna understand what I mean. so here we go.
I am kinda shy guy, but also I like parties too, every weekend I have party with many friends.
I usually drink and talk to people and laugh,
I don't dance I don't do crazy things.
when I come to a house party, while girls and boys are dancing sometimes they stop dancing, or when I get into a room which has many girls and boys doing crazy thing, they immediatly stop it.
I feel really bad when people do like this because of me.
I don't know why they do like this, is it because I don't do the same what they do, or because they have something else and they don't want me to join them.
this case not only on parties sometimes it happens anywhere else.
I feel people observe me more than others, and then they don't act like normal. and it's obvious with people who I meet them first time(new people)
2007-09-23 16:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by Homie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you are very self-conscious. People probably don't observe you more than others. And if you go into a party with the reputation of not being that much of a party person, I suppose it gives people pause.
2007-09-23 16:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an unknown to people because you do not display the same behaviour. Perhaps the people dancing think you are judging them or disapprove in some way because you do not do the same. When you first meet people they are waiting for you to introduce yourself anf show what kind of person you are. When you don't they are suspicious. Just be open and friendly and be yourself. Good Luck
2007-09-23 23:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think you might just be a little paranoid. Don't pay it any mind and after awhile you'll see that it was no big deal. You are the one who is making it a big deal just say to yourself f u c k it and have a good time.
2007-09-23 23:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a hard question. Maybe you have a certain body odor (just suggesting, no offense)........... did something happen where you are the focus of the gossip so they treat you this way?
2007-09-23 23:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes a stick in the mudd. Unless the stick is a pinsor :D!
2007-09-23 23:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too self-conscious. Lighten it up!
2007-09-23 23:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Steven Prasetya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋