2007-09-23 16:14:59 · 26 answers · asked by Kathy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's the way all abusive men are, they want to make you believe they care, when the truth is they only care for themselves. Why stay with someone that abuses you when there are plenty good men out there. Is it the thrill of it? Time and time again I repeat myself on this site. Men who abuse women are nothing but cockroaches, mere insects, a sorry excuse for a man. Why would you want to spend your life with such an insect? Do you think he is going to change? Well you have got that right, he will change for the worse. Why do women allow this to happen to them? I don't know, most of them say "I love him" But to me that's not love, that's a dependency for male company even if it is abusive. I can't say it enough, get out of that relationship, unless you want to end up as another statistic. You deserve better than that. You deserve a man that will love you, care for you, respect you, please you, and give you everything you deserve. Do yourself a favor and leave him. You'll be glad you did a few years down the road. Sorry if I sounded to critical of your actions, but it saddens me to see how good women end up with such pigs as their mates.
2007-09-23 16:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women feel it's okay to be abusive one day and loving the next? The real question is what can you do to help them make it stop? I mean, why not ask them if something is wrong and if so try to ease them a little? Or just leave the relationship if you feel threatened.
2007-09-23 16:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro? Are you listening? right this is what I gotta say... Fuggedaboutit! while you're heavily sticking around in hopes that the chick gets better, properly, I have been given information, she won't! This one looks like a borderline! seem it up. ok. heavily no longer a doctor. I cant provide no prognosis. yet what i will do is impart you some genuine manly awareness from a guy with some journey with the dames. you waiting? FUGGEDABOUTIT! She's abusive. you already comprehend it. seem at your self. think of genuine problematic what this is that makes you choose for women like this. restoration the difficulty. Then locate somebody better. Do the flaws you choose to do, youngster. ok? you do no longer could do what I say. in basic terms some manly suggestion. actual? So some words to think of roughly.
2016-10-05 06:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by courcelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many abusers do this. Its a vicious cycle. If your man is doing this, get out now. It won't end. The violence will escalate until someone is severely hurt or killed. Its not okay. And not men are like that. Its a serious problem that he has and you can't make it go away no matter what you do.
2007-09-23 16:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First because they are psychos.....they have a short circuit in their brains, and they are dangerous, do something, because they will get worse..never better, so don't build up any hopes... and don't believe in promises or "I am sorry..."and second, because women allow it.
If you have any kids, don't let them live a life like this, your girls will learn it's OK to be abused and your boys will learn it's OK to abuse girls, you as a mother have the responsability to raise winners not losers, like these men,
2007-09-23 16:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that kind of guy is abusive. The next day of loving is just as painful as the blows because it can damage your perception of reality. Mentally or physically abusing can be equally nightmarish. RUN FAST!!!
2007-09-23 16:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by litomilyfwthn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You must be a heck of a gal to bring that kind of thing on. Why do women put out one day, and then reject us the next? THAT'S abusive!
2007-09-24 08:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by terry m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think that's a normal trait for a guy to be abusive, honey. and if it's normal for YOUR guy, then you need to move on and find someone who will treat you loving all the time, not just when it's convenient for him. there are way too many good ones out there to put up with a bad one.
2007-09-23 16:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by sleepycatz1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women feel that it's ok to be loving one day and a total ***** the next? Or even loving one hour and a total ***** the next? Why is it "a woman's perogative" to change her mind, but a man has to stick to his word?
When you can answer these questions honestly, then you will have the answer to your own question.
2007-09-23 21:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by archerdude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men don't. Only the ones who commit such offenses do, and that's because they're sick and/or were brought up to believe it. The way to stop them from believing it is to leave and prove them wrong.
2007-09-23 16:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋