Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

i just feel really uncomfortable..im scared im going to get hurt or something, how can i stop this feeling?

2007-09-22 23:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on Thursday I put a note in this girls locker that said YOU ARE A WHORE
because... she is... and she had "a right" to know
and I wasn't there on Friday so I asked this other girl what she did when she saw it...
so who is right....
(read this)
[21:36] TYLER IS A GOAT: still mad at me?
[21:37] Moon1girl: well just thaught u should know that i asked joie about it nd all
[21:37] TYLER IS A GOAT: yea
[21:38] TYLER IS A GOAT: and...
[21:38] Moon1girl: i told her she knew the kid nd that she had a class with him
[21:38] TYLER IS A GOAT: cool did you tell her it was me?
[21:39] Moon1girl: well she guessed it was u
[21:39] TYLER IS A GOAT: and you said yes?
[21:39] Moon1girl: i said i think i wasnt sure
[21:40] TYLER IS A GOAT: cool
[21:40] TYLER IS A GOAT: I"m going to deny it on monday
[21:40] Moon1girl: ok well im not goen to lie to u i thaught she should have known who it was so yes i told her there
[21:40] TYLER IS A GOAT: why would you do that??
[21:40] Moon1girl: cause she had a right to know
[21:41] TYLER IS A GOAT: no she didn't
[21:41] Moon1girl: thats wat u thaught nd i thaught she did
[21:41] TYLER IS A GOAT: well I told you because I thought you wouldn't tell her
[21:42] Moon1girl: well u should know that im the kind of person who tells some1 if they need to know somethen
[21:42] TYLER IS A GOAT: she didn't need to know that
[21:43] Moon1girl: well u didnt need to put the note in her locker
[21:43] TYLER IS A GOAT: well come on it was just a note
[21:44] Moon1girl: ya that said she was a whore
[21:44] TYLER IS A GOAT: so
[21:45] Moon1girl: so then if u can put the note in her locker then i can tell her its called fredom of speech
[21:45] TYLER IS A GOAT: no you can tell her she shouldn't care who wrote it and ignore it
[21:46] Moon1girl: well u can be the person who wont do it
[21:47] TYLER IS A GOAT: well you shouldn't have told her
[21:47] Moon1girl: well u shouldnt have done end of disscoin so there
[21:49] TYLER IS A GOAT: no it's not the end of the discussion you should stay out of people's buisness
[21:50] *** You have been disconnected. Sat Sep 22 21:50:18 2007.
[21:50] *** "Moon1girl" signed on at Sat Sep 22 21:50:26 2007.
[21:50] TYLER IS A GOAT: you shouldn't tell somebody a secret that I told you
[21:50] Moon1girl: well u shouldnt have brought me into it
[21:50] Moon1girl: nd u ddint say dont tell any1
[21:50] Moon1girl: so there
[21:51] TYLER IS A GOAT: that doesn't matter
[21:51] TYLER IS A GOAT: you knew it was a secret
[21:51] Moon1girl: how did i know?
[21:51] Moon1girl: for all i knew it was just somethen u told
[21:51] TYLER IS A GOAT: so what if it was you don't go and tell the person that it was about
[21:52] Moon1girl: dont makie sence
[21:52] TYLER IS A GOAT: so what if it was something I told everybody
[21:52] TYLER IS A GOAT: you still don't tell the person the secret is about
[21:53] Moon1girl: ok idc really im sorry but i dont have to waste my time on somethen like this wen i can be doen other things
[21:54] TYLER IS A GOAT: you've already wasted your time telling her and talking to me about this I think you can talk to me for a few more minute
[21:54] TYLER IS A GOAT: minutes
[21:54] Moon1girl: um no
[21:54] Moon1girl: sorry
[21:54] Moon1girl: im done with it
[21:54] Moon1girl: ok
[21:54] TYLER IS A GOAT: blah
[21:54] Moon1girl: so leave me alone
[21:54] TYLER IS A GOAT: you know what you leave me alone
[21:55] Moon1girl: ur the one who imed me so ya lets act or age now come on god
[21:55] *** "Moon1girl" signed off at Sat Sep 22 21:55:22 2007.
Session Close (Moon1girl): Sat Sep 22 22:33:21 2007

2007-09-22 23:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey ya'll. i'm 17 and from houston, tx. today my cousin who lives in london is in houston at hilton hotel. me and mom have got go see them but i'm a bit nervous because i've never really met them. i'm not sure if i have to act different because they are from london or not please help!

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Does anyone else feel this way?! Remaining as pure as possible?!

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Short & sweet ;any advise for writing tips that may entice the soul help?
I pray that the stars awaken you to sunlight. And that the moon sends you signals that your future looks bright. The sun warms you throughout the day and the rain sends you a rainbow to glisten your soul, because very soon destiny will be calling your soul to go within and listen.The end

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How can I talk to girls and keep the conversation going? I suck at both. Also, do girls like guys with light white skin or sorta tanned? What kind of cologne do girls like on men? Do you women always like guys to dress up or dress nice?

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Me and my boyfriend broke up like two weeks ago. it was my fault i blew up his voice mail. We talked about our relationship ten days ago. he decided before we get back together we should evaluate our relationship and he well call me back later. Two days later he calls late night just to check in on be and to see how i was doing.
now it has been seven days since i last spoke to him. Is it normal not to call when your in the evaluation stage? should i just wait for his call?

2007-09-22 22:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

10 points what does this mean??
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I was raised in a really strict religion that I don't agree with any more, and I'm just now ready to think about starting to date. There's this guy that I think has liked me for a long time, but I've pushed him away every time he's tried to get close to me. I really have liked the guy the whole time, though, and he knows about the whole religion thing.

What's a good way to bring up the subject?

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I believe I have. It sounds cliche but I knew I wanted to marry him the moment I saw him. It wasn't like a thunderbolt or anything... something in my head just said, "That's him." I'm not a naive school girl or someone with no experience in relationships. In fact, I met him while I was in a 9 year relationship with the father of my two oldest kids. I don't believe in love at first sight but if I did that's what I'd call it. And he felt the same way. It was actually almost scary; it was like we were magnets or something, kind of hard to explain. We're now married with a son who's almost 2. It's almost sickening, how much I love him. I'm not exactly Miss Warm-and-Fuzzy-Feelings, you know?
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i jst want an honest answer to this.cz its rlly hard when u experiencing n having a hard time to sort this out n got no one to talk to.i need answers badly......

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