Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

I think that I might be smothering my boyfriend a little bit, he doesn't think so. He barely hangs out with his friends and rarely does stuff by hinself. He spends every waking minute with me and every time I ask him he says he likes to spend time with me. I'm just scared that I will smother him or push him away by trying not to smother him. Am I smothering him? Am I pushing him away? Or am I just over reacting and should take a chill pill?

2007-09-22 17:20:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, so my mom enrolled me in a tutoring centre for extra help in calculus. they charge 45$/hour, i go for 1.5 hours so its 67.50$ for an hour and a half.

i know its SOO expensive, but my mom wanted me to get extra help.. :(

anyway so today i went in for the first time today and surprisingly i saw my friend there... i dint even know she went there.

anyway i was talking with her about how expensive it is after class and then

she was like "really, how much do you pay?"
i was like 222$ a month for once a week

then she told me she only pays like 260$/month and she goes twice a week!!

I feel sooo bad for my parents since money is a bit tight but they still wanted me to get help.

what should i do? what should my parents tell them? i dont want to put my friend in an uncomfortable situation by telling the tutoring place but i dont think this is fair of the center to do this!

what should i / my mom tell them???
i still want to go there but i just want a cheaper rate like my friends..

2007-09-22 17:14:57 · 2 answers · asked by mystery_girl07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy has really been trying to get me to help out with a human rights organization. He claims he needs my help, yet he is not trying to get anyone else in the group to help. For some reason he has singled me out. I have been real slow replying to his emails, usually waiting at least 24 to 48 hours to reply back. When he sees me in public I have been telling him I am real busy. I think it is driving him crazy, but I think it is working. Do you think it makes guys like you more if you play hard to get?

2007-09-22 17:14:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mom is aweful, she cheated, lied, etc. My Dad is pretty crushed, what can I do to help him out?

2007-09-22 17:14:13 · 11 answers · asked by aiden 2 in Marriage & Divorce

then completely change a few months into it. I want to think theres more to it then they got the laid and now its boring.

2007-09-22 17:13:50 · 16 answers · asked by LADIDAH 5 in Singles & Dating

Last weekend we drove 500 miles on his motorcycle to be with friends. Everything was fine, until he had a little to much to drink.Me too, we started to argue, then I tried to ease the tension and backed away, he was still been mean to me. Anyway he broke the radio and the cell phone, and I started to cry, he said to quit crying that I looked crazy, thats when I really lost it and started to hit him.. We were in the room and I just started to punch him he hit me back, got on top of me and started to bang my head against the floor, i kind of passed out and he left. I was all alone 500 miles away and didin't now anyone, well he came back and we slept, the next morning I was taking a shower and found out I had a gash on the back of my head, he did it. Well we are still together, and he hasn't said "I'm sorry" he thinks it's all my fault. I know I started the fight but he banged my head one to many times, my q. is ( what should I do?) I love him and don't want to leave him.

2007-09-22 17:09:18 · 40 answers · asked by Jess F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do dark skin man like to pick on light skin black woman

2007-09-22 17:09:00 · 9 answers · asked by NarcolepticNancy 1 in Singles & Dating

okay there is this buy i reallyyyy reallyyyy like...alot.. and well he used to like me but not im pretty sure he doesnt..ive tried asking him before if he does but the answer is alwase the sam..i dont know.it just feels like hes mentialy crushing me or something...
but anywase... simple question..
what do guys look for in girls? how do they think the girls should act..i know it depends on mainly the guy but like idk...i just need help...

2007-09-22 17:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today i went to the all with my two best friends and one of my new friends. The second we got there my two best friends sleft me and my newer friend. i feel bad. the new girl isnt friends with them and they dont really like her. but this isnt the first time this has happeed (probably happened like 10 times before this) i feel like im drifting away from my friends. what should i do?

2007-09-22 16:59:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm quiet and afraid to ask questions/engage in conversation. I just want to get noticed. Teachers think I hate them because I don't talk but I do like them.

2007-09-22 16:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Who thought up that old saying and is it true? Losing a love is mighty painful and sometimes traumatizes a person for a long, long time. Often, it makes people afraid to dive into other relationships. It makes them marriage-shy, afraid of commitment.

So, is it better to love someone and go through the agony of loss than it is to be alone, without any close ties? And do lost loves ever fade from the mind, leaving a person free to find someone else?

2007-09-22 16:50:06 · 20 answers · asked by Me, Too 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

guyz ask me out wana touch bootty kiss me but i want dem to do it but den i think of my boo i bak off last nights dance i slow dance w/ diz guy grind 2 him he ask me 4 kiss but i said no baked off but i let him grab bootty n i dont wana cheat is dat cheating???

2007-09-22 16:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Relationships are built upon honesty and trust, but sometimes telling a current love about your past loves can end in bitter recriminations and arguments. Sometimes, the thought of other lovers lingers in the mind and spoils any current relationship. Is it better to keep quiet and leave your past a secret that only you know about? Or is it better to level with your partner and tell all?

2007-09-22 16:44:38 · 9 answers · asked by Me, Too 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you had a choice of only one to receive, would you like to receive a kiss? or would you like to receive a hug? and why?
why would you chose one over the other?
remember ONLY one!~~~~~~ xoxoxox

2007-09-22 16:44:34 · 12 answers · asked by ing3r im m3 3 in Singles & Dating

don't answer unless your sure [please]

2007-09-22 16:43:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I visit my ex on a regular basis. We talk on the phone, even go to lunch from time to time. We are both remarried and are not trying to get back together. We were married got divorced and now we are the best of friends. My wife trust me completely but her husband thinks I want her back regardless of what I tell him. So am I wrong to have her as a good friend?

2007-09-22 16:42:50 · 34 answers · asked by tony h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wondered how people develop foot fetishes?

Does anyone know how this begins? Does it have to do with the way a person feels about him/herself (maybe low)?

What do you think? Have a story to share?

2007-09-22 16:39:16 · 3 answers · asked by PRIB 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you do to make them like you?

2007-09-22 16:35:33 · 12 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Friends

I know that 18 is when you're an adult but i'm 19 and most 19-20 year old guys (and some girls) i know are SO immature. when will they grow up? 25? 30? Never?

2007-09-22 16:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay im workin on a girl. doin a good job so far. i go for the number and she says "i dont give out my number anymore, im tired of gettin hurt." what does that mean i have yet to hear that one. the convo still went well after that. she never lost interest. im just a little confused on wat to do now, its like i hit a brick wall and dont no wat to do. let me no ur opinions or thoughts.

2007-09-22 16:26:21 · 2 answers · asked by bass_dude06 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think this website is legal??
http://marryourdaughter.biz/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=18&Itemid=9
What do you think of this! Is it allowed in the USA?

2007-09-22 16:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This person is perfect for you in everyway. but something happend so that this person could not biologically have children. could you be happy the rest of your life with someone who loved you endlessly but couldn't give you kids. be honest.

2007-09-22 16:24:52 · 28 answers · asked by Armond B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

where are they cuz I cant find them....

2007-09-22 16:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by iwuvblue0407 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known my wife for 9 years nows been with her for 5 and married for 2 1/2. I have spent most of the 5 years trying to prove to her that she can trust me because she has been cheated on many times in her past. After our wedding she came to work at my office and the 2 of us because very close friends with another couple that works there, he happens to be her boss. I found out 2 days ago that 8 months ago she slept with him at his house. Our 2 families were so close we spent most weekends together doing the "friends" thing, shopping, site seeing, vacationing. She is very regretful and has spent the last 2 days asking for my forgiveness and crying. If I can eventually forgive her (will be incredibly hard) is it ever possible to trust her again? I do not want marriage were I am constantly checking emails looking at phone records and don't have other couple friends because of the constant reminder of what she did. Can anyone give me some mature advide? Thank you.

2007-09-22 16:18:17 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, you can be commited w/out marriage. Love is commitment, family is commitment. I will get married one day but I am so sick of people saying marry for your family. We are a family no matter what our legal statis is. Sure, marriage is the final step in a relationship but it doesnt give you a better one. I believe marriage is sacred, dont get me wrong, I just feel it is pushed on people and sometimes done for all the wrong reasons..like legal purposes. Someone said, "get married so if the die you'll get something". Now, what kind of woman would I be if that was my thought walking down the isle? And someone else said, marry so they cant walk away so easily...Why have a messy divorce(not that I plan on it but it can happen). And someone else said to me, "my child is illiginement in Gods eyes b/c we arent married" How can yoyu call yourself religious and say that? Dont people know that God doesnt judge? Im sorry I just need to vent but there are some messed up minds out there....

2007-09-22 16:13:01 · 18 answers · asked by Samantha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

While in the hospital one time, I met a woman who was completely senile. She did not know her husband and wasn't there. She would scream that people were trying to cut her feet off and refuse food / help. Her husband stayed by her side for the 5 days I was there, begging her to eat, telling her how much he loved her, reminding her who he was.. holding her hand, and laying his head on the bed and sobbing.. and yet, he never left her side.

I've seen alot of people say they truly love someone, but I wondered after seeing this, if they even really knew love at all. Would they still be sitting beside her, holding her hand...

Do you love you spouse like that? Do they love you like that?

2007-09-22 16:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-22 16:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-22 16:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so i went on my husbands myspace and i found commits to outher girls that where inaproperit and he is not with me right now he is in the navy he says hes just flirty guys how can i get it threw to him its not ok

2007-09-22 15:54:10 · 16 answers · asked by jumpnstarz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If my crush thinks I am weird, what can I do to change his opinion of me? I want to specifically make him think that I am not weird.

I do not want any answers like:
- get over him
- be yourself
- find someone else

they don't solve the current situation I am in and also, that's not answering my question.

i asked a lot of my friends, but no one could find an answer to this. Is it really impossible?

2007-09-22 15:52:15 · 17 answers · asked by david 2 in Singles & Dating