I know that 18 is when you're an adult but i'm 19 and most 19-20 year old guys (and some girls) i know are SO immature. when will they grow up? 25? 30? Never?
2007-09-22 16:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no real age but you just feel you are mature I would say 25 up. 18 is still young adult and people aren't mature yet I know for sure.
2007-09-22 16:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is when you're adult "by law", not the real thing.
Guys usually begin to really get it by 25, some earlier and some later.
At 19-20 years old, most guys aren't too bright. (There are exceptions)
Watch how they relate to their parents.
(If the parents are sane) When they start speaking a little better of THEM, it's the beginning of maturity. After all, they've been battling them for quite a few years
If the parents are morons, you can't go by that either......Well, just be patient and pick a guy with some smarts and a future and you'll be ok....By future, I mean "Making Money"!......Believe me, you're going to need it.
2007-09-22 23:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a real age of maturity. I've known 18 year olds that were extremely mature and I've known some in their 30s that acted like 2 year olds over things.
2007-09-22 23:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kazama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is a difficult one, there is no real age of maturity, 18 is when your grown, but more people are like kids after that age than ever. I know a 42 year old man who lives in his parents base ment, doesn't have a job, doesn't have a car, money, and has five kids... and i know a teenager, 13, with one child that lives with her grandmother but babysits,gets paid, and will not let her child go through any troubles... she will do anything for her child. so there really is no age for maturity, age is nothing but a number, and once people of "mature" age realize that there is no telling how immature they can be.
2007-09-22 23:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by DONNAGAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding one that is mature at the age of 25 is like a needle in a hay stack, hard to find. There really isn't a age. Men mature based on their experiences.
2007-09-22 23:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maturity is a state of mind.
it is possible it will be never.
but generally, once you are put in the position of responsibility, you gain maturity.
For instance: Guy who is 19 tragically loses parents and has smaller siblings to take care of is more likely to mature faster with the pressure of having to take care of his siblings.
Conversly: 46 year old guy with a rich family, not doing anything stable as a job or any significant contirbution to society, lives in parent's mansion and drinks and acts like an adolescent in public places.
2007-09-22 23:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋