If my crush thinks I am weird, what can I do to change his opinion of me? I want to specifically make him think that I am not weird.
I do not want any answers like:
- get over him
- be yourself
- find someone else
they don't solve the current situation I am in and also, that's not answering my question.
i asked a lot of my friends, but no one could find an answer to this. Is it really impossible?
2007-09-22 15:52:15 · 17 answers · asked by david 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off, how do you know he thinks you're weird? And is he freaked out/scared off by this? Personally I like a girl that's out of the ordinary...but not by too much.
Anyways, I hate to say it, but you have to be yourself. You cannot create a false persona, because he will find out what lies underneath, and it will halt any relationship. So, if you are what he considers weird, here's another one, get over him and find someone else. I know I just used your three taboos, but, it's true.
If it's a specific (or a couple isolated) instances that create his view of you as weird, if they're out of your character don't let them happen again. If that's who you are and he doesn't like that....forget him.
2007-09-22 15:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out why he thinks you are weird. Do you think you are weird? Does it hurt your relationships with others? If its just a misunderstanding, it'll probably just take time for him to really get to know you. If you are a little eccentric, you have to decide if its worth changing yourself for him. If you feel like you do need to stop acting "weird" maybe you should find those behaviors which don't help you in life by totally alienating you from others and try to learn to diminish them. I can see how a person may need to change in this respect. I myself am bipolar, and before I was medicated I was all over the place, really hyper at times, seeming a bit strange to others. I'm medicated now tho and its a lot easier to interact with others now. If you think you have some kind of mental health issue, consider getting help. But if you can't change who you are, you can't change who you are. And if this doesn't work out maybe you will find someone who likes you for being unique.
2007-09-22 16:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would normally give you an answer that you don't want, which is to find someone else. Why obsess over someone who does not like you for you? But, whatever. You're young and I'm going to tell you what I think you want to hear. Change your image. Be the opposite of who you are. Dress, speak and act differently- more like the kind of girl that you think he would like. However, it may not work and he may still not be feeling you (after you did all that) Good luck. I hope you wake up and realize that this guy is not worth your time.
2007-09-22 16:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Fly girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... hun... it particularly is an quite unusual individual to fall in love with;; a million. you will in no way get to fulfill him... remember he's an actor 2. why choose for him... once you are able to date zarty party?? 3. he's prolly like... 800 years older than you... so yeah and he isn't that cool.
2016-10-05 05:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people are weird to some extent. Just be yourself and hopefully he will like what he sees.
2007-09-22 15:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you have to ask yourself if your weird. i know im weird and my exboyfriend always thought so too but he didnt really care. maybe in time this person will just get used to it...
2007-09-22 15:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know your crush thinks you are weird?
Maybe you are being self conscious
2007-09-22 16:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth.... don't go too fast... don't show your emotion when your around him... try to befriend him... and show him who you are (not physically!!!)... if he still thinks your weird so be it... there's nothing else you can do... unless you can brain wash him or use a love potion on him/her but i hardly think thats even possible....
2007-09-22 15:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he thinks you are weird i think that he may like you and just dosent know what to say just act like you dont care what he thinks believe me it works
2007-09-22 15:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why do you want to change the way you are
wouldn't you liked to have someone that likes you for who you are....think about it
2007-09-22 15:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋